kim30
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Dear Cancerians (female), pure incidental breakup
So you're married, jonesing on some old "puppy love" and looking to strangers to help you dog your wife and get in good with this other woman. Plus, moving out to her country when she was already with a man and getting in good with HER family is just plain creepy. You got issues, dude. I feel sooo bad for your wife. She's married to a douche bag. What goes around comes around. Don't expect any happy ending here.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by Este8
So you're married, jonesing on some old "puppy love" and looking to strangers to help you dog your wife and get in good with this other woman. Plus, moving out to her country when she was already with a man and getting in good with HER family is just plain creepy. You got issues, dude. I feel sooo bad for your wife. She's married to a douche bag. What goes around comes around. Don't expect any happy ending here.
The one that got away, don't be too harsh on him, virgos are very good at martyring themselves and being involved in no good relationships. SMH
they should all marry Cancers and just be happy, but no they want to do it the hard way, well fall on your face then.
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Yeah but he's married and we all have "the one that got away." This "friendship" is inappropriate and nobody here wants to be his poor wife. Sorry but sometimes you gotta let the past go. Nostalgia is not real and if it were right, it would have worked out long ago.
Posted by Virgochris152
I did not move to NY on purpose, just a business trip and I will be going back to Asia this weekend. And the relationship that I see with the cancer girl(not woman) is friendship. I use the word girl becos I hardly know her after all these years, I can only recall what she looks like and acts like while we were together. I still have feelings for her, yes, you can state the point that I am wrong.
Let me put it straight, my question is why the cancer lady acts like this (flooding my FB from time to time and so wanted to know how I live, and didn't reject me sending letters to her, etc.)
I didn't send any letters.
I know she is with a guy and a son from previous marriage and I have no intention to step in. I just want to see her happy and that's it.
We are half the world apart geographically and I don't think either one can make such effort to cope with.
Thank you all for the comments anyway.
Yeah & isn't this what Facebook is really all about: creeping on the exes, the ones that got away. I wonder how many marriages Facebook has destroyed? You have no business being "friends" with this woman. Period.
"pure incidental breakup"...
"I'm a Virgo-Libra cusp"
Yah, I don't like you already.
You should go and tell this to your wife. She'll be delighted.
This is either the latent narcisism streak in Virgos..where you need to know what this chick seems into you or you're trying to get out of your marriage and will use any excuse/any person to validate your wrongness.
You made a commitment. Stick to it.
All your words of "Oh I have no intention with anything I want to see her happy bla bla bla" = lies.
Yah, I don't like you already.
You should go and tell this to your wife. She'll be delighted.
This is either the latent narcisism streak in Virgos..where you need to know what this chick seems into you or you're trying to get out of your marriage and will use any excuse/any person to validate your wrongness.
You made a commitment. Stick to it.
All your words of "Oh I have no intention with anything I want to see her happy bla bla bla" = lies.
Didn't you ask if you could send letters? That's why she said you could send letters.
you're BSing the cancer woman in this forum.
you wanna know why she is showing interest in your life? Because you're trying to find away into hers. Because you are unhappy with yours.
there isn't any confusion.
You show interest in a woman who is polite or respectful enough to show interest you and then want to know why? Bullsh*t
You want to know if you have an "in" or not.
If you were honest about it I'd have told you.
I'm sure your wife as plenty if shit to say about you too. Fix your marriage or leave it. Then pursue another woman.
you're BSing the cancer woman in this forum.
you wanna know why she is showing interest in your life? Because you're trying to find away into hers. Because you are unhappy with yours.
there isn't any confusion.
You show interest in a woman who is polite or respectful enough to show interest you and then want to know why? Bullsh*t
You want to know if you have an "in" or not.
If you were honest about it I'd have told you.
I'm sure your wife as plenty if shit to say about you too. Fix your marriage or leave it. Then pursue another woman.
Thank you once again for all the comments. This thread shall see the end and I will do the needful.
Sorry for offending anyone and any signs.
Sorry for offending anyone and any signs.
Wonder what happened to this asshole
lol deep sea is funny
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