@kim30
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Why I love to be/to know Cancers
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The more I get to know Cancers... my bf and gf are both cancers... the more I realize how misunderstood they are. Or at least have been by me in the past.
But IME Cancers (men and women) are very dynamic. It's hard to describe but I guess the best way of putting it is they have a way of always surprising you. In a good way! You think they are one way but they are really very deep, multifaceted creatures. I mean that in the best way only because I've met a lot of signs that are "what you see is what you get"... there is nothing more deep or really interesting about them.
Of course in the case of Cancers there are exceptions to the rule you get bad, shallow Cancers as with any other sign. But I find, more often than not, you get Cancers that are well rounded. They have emotional depth, intelligence, personality (great sense of humor), and they have a good sense of spirituality. And the Cancers that I have met that aren't like this still try their best to get there.
They are probably the best out of all the water signs because they have a real willingness to be open to change when necessary.
You guys are pretty awesome... I think that comes with being a cardinal 😉
*Of course in the case of ANY sign really... is a better way of putting it*
@Kim30 Wow Thanks trying tho. We Cancers are all about love. I was just trying to calm you. It's ok to show your loving side here. I like that you speak your mind. Actually @CluelessCancer is the same way. You both keep it real. But i know deep down, you are a kind person. I'm glad i could help 🙂
@Kim30 I love being a Cancer too. I accept all the flaws that come with it. Yeah i can be sensitive sometimes & emotional, but i'm extremely loyal & sincere. I like that i can always pick up on peoples feelings & moods & try to help. I think we Cancers go through a lot especially with emotions, but we always get the job done. We can't change who we are for no one. Either they can love us or Fuq off a screwdriver LOL 😄
@xtina Aww your sweet words almost put a tear in my eye lol. I truly appreciate it & you are always welcomed here in the Crabs Shell. You Aries people are awesome too. You picked the right bf in a Cancer. You got someone who would give you the stars if possible. But you've always been helpful here, especially since it gets out of control. So it's good to have a Strong Aries to protect us Crabs & keep things in order 😉
@Sugarfoot You are appreciated here as well. I still think it's kool how you reached out to me awhile back to cheer me up. I'll never forget that. I'm sure your daughter & bff feel the same about you. Sorry if my posts here seem all mushy lol. I love when someone is sincere
@2blackindian I like you're mushy posts. They snap me back to reality before I start qnawing on "chickenheads"
Though I forget to turn it down a notch, I love that I don't take shit off anyone and don't let other people at the hand of others. I hate to see suffering and I hate more for people to sit back and let it happen.
@Kim30 im glad you do. Just try to be more calm for me ok. You don't have go upside anyone head here lol, well not all the time. I really don't like drama. I just try to end it. So be careful
I adore being a cancer. I love being the one who is nurturing to my friends and family. I also think being a cancer mother is a wonderful experience because I get to be playful and silly.
As for other cancer I love them too, they are loyal friends, honest, and let's all face it they love to gossip with me :-) in a non-bitch way.
Posted by That1Girl
I adore being a cancer. I love being the one who is nurturing to my friends and family. I also think being a cancer mother is a wonderful experience because I get to be playful and silly.As for other cancer I love them too, they are loyal friends, honest, and let's all face it they love to gossip with me :-) in a non-bitch way.
Ahhh! Don't you love the mothering instinct that just comes naturally? Its such a blessing. While other moms have to try so hard to grab on to the natural grace and patience you have!
All the mothers that have that "thing" that makes us marvel, turned out to be cancers. In my experience anyway.
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@Kim30 im glad you do. Just try to be more calm for me ok. You don't have go upside anyone head here lol, well not all the time. I really don't like drama. I just try to end it. So be careful
yeah I know drama can trigger anxiety for us even if its not involving us directly. That's why I was feeling guilty for the cancers and contemplated deleting that thread since certain people are turning it into a breeding ground for BS. Instead of letting me say what I needed to say.
But there again is the lesson about saving your words for those who matter.
Another thing about being a cancer? BEING ABLE TO SPOT OTHERS IN ROOM!
@Kim30 what you mean about being able to spot others in a room? You mean being able to spot other Cancers or fake people? I got confused. Also i think you should delete that thread. It's nothing but negativity 😢. I afraid to go back there lol. But seriously, it ain't worth it my fellow Crab
Another thing i love about us Cancers is our hugs, & our eyes. I think all Cancers have mesmerising eyes & bodies 🙂
BOTH! LOL but I was thinking of other cancers in a room. I try to ignore the fake people instinct because I consider prejudice. But ignoring it also gets me in trouble!
the eye thing is awesome. Especially when gazing into a Scorpio mans eyes. Its a.different experience but similar to gazing with a cancer.
Deleting threads is a pet peeve of mine.
I actually said something to someone about that because I needed the input on a subject she started.
wouldn't that make me a hypocrite?
Well Cancers eyes remind me of the Moon. It's pretty kool. Not to mention, most of us Cancers got a great sense of humor. As we both can see. We give the best hugs too
@Kim30 what do you mean about making you a hypocrite? What did you say to the other person to make you think that?
@Kim30 Can you explain that question? i feel you left out some important words
If I delete the thread after I said something to someone else about deleting their thread! I think it was twirlingstrawberry? Not sure.
I wasn't rude about it but I definitely let them know I wasn't happy I missed out on the thread because I needed the info that was posted on it.
@Kim30 ohh ok then, because you had me confused lol. I think you should delete that thread because i don't see anything positive coming out of it. All it going to do is make you upset. Which we don't want. A fellow Crab being upset is not a good thing
@Kim30 Whens your birthday, so i'll remember to tell you happy birthday or something. You seem like a sweet Cancer to me 🙂.
LoL what's funny about a pissed off crab is most people never see it coming! LOL
And the libras and Geminis stand around saying "I told you not to piss her off. Shes a cancer. That shit runs DEEP."
@Kim30 LOL yep that's true. Most people think we are these sweet innocent people, but they never expect our dark side. It always catches people off guard 😉. You fuq with a Crab the wrong way & see what happens LOL. A Claw gon get smashed across someones denters (Teeth)
It's krazy how i get attached to someone. It's like i want to be close all the time. It's something hard to describe. I hate detached people tho lol
I view detached people as demons. Not because they are but because they scare me.
If you're detached, in my mind, surely you must be a child rapist or something.
@Kim30 lol you crack me up. But they scare me too. Makes me feel like i did something back. But that's why i love us Cancers. I know we don't roll like that.
So what you Cancers favorite foods? @Kim30 what you like to eat?
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
Well Cancers eyes remind me of the Moon. It's pretty kool. Not to mention, most of us Cancers got a great sense of humor. As we both can see. We give the best hugs too
I think its something to do with the moon. Honest, I never put to and to together until a Gemini pointed out to me. I have a response or a relation to the moon that I've only heard about with cancers. I love that. Its cool to know exactly what the moon will look like just by gaudging your mood. If you haven't tried before do so. Keep a journal of your mood then draw the moon or make note of its position. Whenever you feel that way again, reference back to your notes And check the moon again.
it also holds true for your intuition, de ja vu, etc.
Damn, 2bi3. I just got hungry from you asking the question. I'll eat anything. Thanks to you I'm about to sweet talk my friend into running and getting GENERAL TSO CHICKEN!!!
@Kim30 LOL well have at it. Have a good dinner. You can tell your favorite foods later if you want. Imma definitely try that journal idea ok. My moods usually are stable, well sometimes. The Full Moon is very calming to me. That's why i love being a Cancer
Lol imma go cook something myself. I love Seafood, italian food, Pizza, Tacos (Taco Bell), Whataburger, Sonic, & Texas Burger. I really enjoy chinese food. Imma learn how to cook that sh*t one day lol. I do go play basketball at the gym to avoid being too curvy lol. I'll eat anything that taste good
Wow @XMoonMan you are one smart Cancer. You know a lot. Your stuff is so original
Posted by kim30
LoL what's funny about a pissed off crab is most people never see it coming! LOL
And the libras and Geminis stand around saying "I told you not to piss her off. Shes a cancer. That shit runs DEEP."
My mom actually warned my ex's mom when we were about to get married (his mom was gushing about how wonderful to have me in the family). She told her that her son had better not hurt me. Ex mil was surprised and did the fake bitch "oh, really?" routine. My mom said, "You don't want to hurt her or make her mad. Trust me. She's sweet but won't tolerate injustice." Flash forward 15 yrs later after dealing with his verbal and mental abuse. I divorced him and have absolutely no love for him left in me. He plays twisted games like he's always done and I sit quietly and wait. I just need him to slip up enough times and his ass will be toast, legally speaking.
Posted by xMoonMan
The Moon interacts with Earth & nature, there is a gravitational force....a bonding, synergistic...It's always there in the background, like emotion.
Most of the time full moons make me a bit wired and hyper. New moons calm me and ground me. But I was born on a new moon full solar eclipse. 😄
@XMoonMan No problem man 😉
Yeah I like to dance to keep up with the calorie issue. Dancing under the moon? Awesome. Dancing under the moon at the lake? HEAVEN!
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@xtina Aww your sweet words almost put a tear in my eye lol. I truly appreciate it & you are always welcomed here in the Crabs Shell. You Aries people are awesome too. You picked the right bf in a Cancer. You got someone who would give you the stars if possible. But you've always been helpful here, especially since it gets out of control. So it's good to have a Strong Aries to protect us Crabs & keep things in order 😉
Anytime! I think that is something I've read abou the Crab/Aries dynamic. That is where our similarities lie, we are fiercely protective of those we love... Aries using their stubborness and bravery to protect, while Cancers draw their shells into protect those they love... Lol, I've definitely seen it from my Cancer man and even before we were together! This Cap girl at work was always trying to bring me down and he'd be their making snarky comments at her...
*sigh* two peas in a pod I'd say us Aries and Cancers 🙂
Yay! I got the chicken!
@Kim30 Wow, that's great you got the chicken lol. Us Cancers & food haha. I bet it was good too. I hope you have a bless night my fellow Crab
You too! Sweet dreams. I'm not gonna make it through this movie!
@xtina Wow those are some beautiful words. I knew Aries women were passionate & kind. You are truly best for us Crabs. A Ram is like the ultimate protector 🙂. That to me equals the best kind of love. I hope you have a great birthday whenever it comes up. Have a Bless Night or Day depending on your time. You are always appreciated here
@xtina ohh yeah expect your Cancer BF to stick up for you. When a Cancer loves you, we won't let anyone harm you. A partner happiness is our top priority
Posted by xMoonMan
Posted by MoonArtist
Posted by xMoonMan
The Moon interacts with Earth & nature, there is a gravitational force....a bonding, synergistic...It's always there in the background, like emotion.
Most of the time full moons make me a bit wired and hyper. New moons calm me and ground me. But I was born on a new moon full solar eclipse. 😄
*chuckle* Yeah, I've noticed. 😛
Also you're natal Moon is at home in Cancer.
|| House I || ~ Expresses itself outwardlyclick to expand
Good lord, it's that obvious? Is everyone making a lunar chart and taking notes? This might not be a bad idea, actually.
I have more moon than I know what to do with. :p
@Kim30 i hope you enjoyed your movie too. Hope it was good whatever it was
Oops ! I stepped into the mutual masturbation club. My bad.
Sorry Aqua. Had another email request to delete. You're out numbered!
Posted by krebbsmann
Oops ! I stepped into the mutual masturbation club. My bad.
What, you're not going to join in?
@Kim30 i got your message. i replied to it. I hope you saw it.
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This thread was inspired by 2BlackIndian3 who liked to point out to me that I've been doing too much to be negative on DXP.
So I decided to start a praise thread. If there is an existing one, I apologize for missing it.
For me, the answers to my questions change daily. But today, I love most being someone my friends came come to with any problem whether they are right or wrong. I love the instinct that let's me know what they need without them having to ask.
What do you love most about your family members and friends that are cancers?
What's the best part of being a cancer?