fireleogirl
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Do Cancer men say things to just get reactions?
I am a cancer sun, gem Venus as well. And yup, I do this. Mental gymnastics at its finest! The things I say though are not necessarily made up, or full-on lies. An example would be I would say something along the lines that a girl flirted with me at Starbucks, and gave me her number. This is indeed true, but happened well before we started dating.
Mentioning something like moving out of state, or away from your proximity I would only say if I am desperately trying to get a certain kind of reaction out of you. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy for the crab: They are indirect, and they want a certain reaction out of you. When it doesn't happen, you are blamed for not reading them correctly, and then they shut you out.
Crabs aren't the best communicators, and often don't say how they really feel. When they feel secure they will come out with it, but not a moment before. If you care about this guy, and he cares about you, the lines of communication need to open up, and he needs to be direct.
Mentioning something like moving out of state, or away from your proximity I would only say if I am desperately trying to get a certain kind of reaction out of you. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy for the crab: They are indirect, and they want a certain reaction out of you. When it doesn't happen, you are blamed for not reading them correctly, and then they shut you out.
Crabs aren't the best communicators, and often don't say how they really feel. When they feel secure they will come out with it, but not a moment before. If you care about this guy, and he cares about you, the lines of communication need to open up, and he needs to be direct.
Yes. And they always know exactly what to say. They will refer to something indirectly and watch how you respond PHYSICALLY, not necessarily to what you say. They are watching for the implicit messages in your body language to get the real story. Very indirect people.
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