I'm a Taurus Female and there is a guy I have been talking to on Facebook he's a Cancer male. He and I have been friends for awhile. We go back and forth though we argue with each other a lot. He use to message me a lot and would always try to get my attention when he said I was talking to other guys. And there were times when we do actually get along. He said if he has a girlfriend what can he offer me? I told him I don't want nothing from him because I only like him as a friend nothing more. He said that I overlook him and that I try to understand him but I don't. He says that I focus on him too much I asked him if he thought I was desperate. He said no not Desperate. But I make it seem like he's the only Guy for me at Times. Like I cant find better. He said I do too much and that I got caught up in my feelings. (I told him MANY times that I only like him as a friend and nothing more) I told him that he needs to stop thinking that ALL women want him. He said that's not what he meant and that I need to read between the lines. We ended up having it out again and he blocked me I think it's over this time he said that if I pissed him off again that he would be done with me. He's blocked me before a few times in the past. Before he blocked me he said it should have been ended. Awhile ago I posted an indirect status that was about him. And this other guy commented on it saying that I should just focus on myself and guys will come. I agreed saying that I could be focusing on more positive things.
Do Cancer men usually act like this?

He is using the BLOCKING feature to try to manipulate and control your attention toward him. If I were you, I would ignore his ass.
He is trying to bait you into his manipulative control with childish games and other forms of petty psychological warfare.
DO NOT PLAY THE GAMES.
Break contact, and spend time with people who are upbeat and pleasant about life. Do not get caught up in his drama and problematic demeanor. It will only hurt you.
Based on everything you have said, he is a De Facto Camp 2 Cancer. By definition, these Cancers give the good ones a BAD NAME in that they bring more negative energy to your life than positive.
In short, just avoid and ignore him.
He is trying to bait you into his manipulative control with childish games and other forms of petty psychological warfare.
DO NOT PLAY THE GAMES.
Break contact, and spend time with people who are upbeat and pleasant about life. Do not get caught up in his drama and problematic demeanor. It will only hurt you.
Based on everything you have said, he is a De Facto Camp 2 Cancer. By definition, these Cancers give the good ones a BAD NAME in that they bring more negative energy to your life than positive.
In short, just avoid and ignore him.
I kinda figured that he likes playing games. But maybe he's done with me for good this time. I just thought Cancer's were suppose to be nice and caring. He was at first but I think I probably ticked him off. Thanks for the advice.

Too much drama from him, which means he has issues and is immature. Move on, don't let it bug you and do what the friend suggested: focus on yourself and you'll find someone without trying. 🙂
Thanks MoonArtist I agree I still kinda hope that maybe one day we will be friends again. But in time I'll probably get over it.
I'm not leading him on I only really like him as a friend. He says he doesn't believe me when I tell him that I care. He said I have always overlooked him whatever that means. I do talk to other guys though but I didn't think it would be a big deal since he says he has a girlfriend. I don't know maybe he has something going on right now that he's dealing with.

Them Damn "Camp2" Cancers LOL. ScorpioFish & MoonArtist have great points. You should follow their words.

I actually reread this thread, & i tell you Taurus Lady, this guy is unappreciative & unworthy of your love & time. The stuff he is or was telling you is NOT how a Cancer Man, or even a good man in general, treat his lady. He's very insecure & can't handle a good woman like you. So let him go be with the trash out there. Because that's all he deserves. You'll attract a good man just by being you. So don't worry about him. He is the one who should be worried 😉
Thanks everyone! I won't worry too much about it. If he decides to come back around I'll be friends with him. But nothing more than that thank you all for the advice I really appreciate it. 🙂
Hi Taurus lady - listen to all the good cancers on this site. Despite their telling me not to put in any effort when cancer man acted like an ass, i went ahead and extended my hand of friendship yet again and i learnt the hard way "hurt me once, shame on you; hurt me twice, shame on me!"
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