Do Cancer men usually act like this?

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SourAppleCandy
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I'm a Taurus Female and there is a guy I have been talking to on Facebook he's a Cancer male. He and I have been friends for awhile. We go back and forth though we argue with each other a lot. He use to message me a lot and would always try to get my attention when he said I was talking to other guys. And there were times when we do actually get along. He said if he has a girlfriend what can he offer me? I told him I don't want nothing from him because I only like him as a friend nothing more. He said that I overlook him and that I try to understand him but I don't. He says that I focus on him too much I asked him if he thought I was desperate. He said no not Desperate. But I make it seem like he's the only Guy for me at Times. Like I cant find better. He said I do too much and that I got caught up in my feelings. (I told him MANY times that I only like him as a friend and nothing more) I told him that he needs to stop thinking that ALL women want him. He said that's not what he meant and that I need to read between the lines. We ended up having it out again and he blocked me I think it's over this time he said that if I pissed him off again that he would be done with me. He's blocked me before a few times in the past. Before he blocked me he said it should have been ended. Awhile ago I posted an indirect status that was about him. And this other guy commented on it saying that I should just focus on myself and guys will come. I agreed saying that I could be focusing on more positive things.

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ScorpioFish
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He is using the BLOCKING feature to try to manipulate and control your attention toward him. If I were you, I would ignore his ass.

He is trying to bait you into his manipulative control with childish games and other forms of petty psychological warfare.

DO NOT PLAY THE GAMES.

Break contact, and spend time with people who are upbeat and pleasant about life. Do not get caught up in his drama and problematic demeanor. It will only hurt you.

Based on everything you have said, he is a De Facto Camp 2 Cancer. By definition, these Cancers give the good ones a BAD NAME in that they bring more negative energy to your life than positive.

In short, just avoid and ignore him.
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2BlackIndian3
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I actually reread this thread, & i tell you Taurus Lady, this guy is unappreciative & unworthy of your love & time. The stuff he is or was telling you is NOT how a Cancer Man, or even a good man in general, treat his lady. He's very insecure & can't handle a good woman like you. So let him go be with the trash out there. Because that's all he deserves. You'll attract a good man just by being you. So don't worry about him. He is the one who should be worried 😉