Do we have a chance?

Do we have a chance?

Hello, I would love to hear your thoughts. We are in a relationship, LDR due to our own chosen field of career. Both single & never been married & both in our 30s. Sometimes i feel lost & confuse.. could it be bcos of our LDR? Thank you. Look forward to your insight on this.

Him
Asc Pisces
Sun Cancer
Venus Gemini
Moon Pisces
Mars Cancer
Mercury Leo

Me
Asc Leo
sun Virgo
venus cancer
Moon Aquarius
mars Libra
Mercury Virgo

hope someone would post his/her insights. thank you.

Yes you have a chance. But, you always have a chance 😉 Give it a shot!

Your sun signs aside, LDR are incredibly difficult to begin with. Mostly, physical presence is lacking. You're not there to actually see what they are actually doing and vice versa...so you have to have complete trust, honesty, and communication...especially communication. You don't have the convenience of the person understanding completely who you are and the negative things that happen are exponentially worse.

Therefore, make more of an effort to actually see each other.

thank you rabidtalker & beautifulsoul. We are LDR as im based in middle east and he at sea (works for cargo ship). We got to see each other once a year.. there's plan of settling down etc. but i sometimes i feel he's changing, i dont know. When his mood is off, i have the tendency to go nuts in a silent way. No confrontation.

I am giving my best to this relationship. But, i sometimes feel like cutting it all off especially when he's not in the mood. If i am not in the mood, it doesnt mean my feelings, emotions, love etc will change. Is this the same way with you cancers?

as add'l info, we know each other since we grew up on same place but i am older than him. im very supportive of him, i'd like to see him achieve whatever he wants to achieve in life. but after all this planning & talking, he will resort to "self-pity" mode & negative thinking.. and i am like what??! also, i've got this feeling that he's not proud of me. are you cancer men private when it comes to your lovelife? is self pity normal or what?

Cancers have trouble being proud of ppl because they're so engrossed in their own problems. Theyre kids who need someone to care for them, so...it's gonna be difficult. And he has a lot of water, pisces rising, and moon...hm...he's a bit slippery, the Gemini Venus adds to it, and gives a need for freedom and frivolity/ lack of seriousness.
You have more backbone, withh Virgo, Aquarius, and the libra only adds maturity, and a proffessional attitude. Maybe you should find someone more mature.