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Do you other Cancers NOT fall in love with someone just because they're nice to you?
Excuse me, coleslaw ignore the word not in the title as it was meant to be the opposite of what I meant lol
Nope i don't , i find myself looking for something magical, i don't know how to call it, a spark maybe or instant attraction or passion? When you see a person and he instantly makes you feel somehow magical, something inside you says thats the woman and you can't stop but stare at her from time to time. 😄 i'm kind and good to many people and they are 2 me, but that doesn't mean i want something more from them, i'm kind of cruel but honest when it comes to dating, if a woman likes me and i don't like her i will tell her straight to the face that nothing good can come out of this, but i think thats rather good than give people fake hopes or something.I think it's more my moon than my sun with this action, and if a woman tells me she rly likes me or loves me and i don't feel the same way, either as a friend or something more i just start feeling weird and distance myself from them, don't want to give them hope or something, one woman now in the place i'm living told me she loves me and i've been distant scince then, back in the day i asked her to put tattoo lotion on my back to keep my tattoo colours fresh, but now i can't ask her that because it just feels weird and uncomftable when she would touch me and me knowing she likes me, i'm weird this way. 😄
Only with people's pets. Takes a while with humans. I'm more cautiously aware now.
Posted by 2Moonsounds like cancer woman broke your heart 😄 😄Posted by cancertheropyDo you other Cancers NOT fall in love with someone just because they're nice to you?
This is a question I have been curious about for some time. I've notice on the internet people say that a cancer person will easily fall in love with anyone who are nice to them.
Me personally, this isn't a case. I see someone it its an immediate feeling if I would ever date them and if they're nice it's always a big help and bonus in attracting me more. Those who are nice I always find myself not attracted or won't even let myself think of even going further.
Just want to see if it's the same for other cancers or just me.
i agree,
cancer women are like this.
if you want to attract a cancer woman, You MUST treat her like garbage. this is mandatory
treat her like a piece of shit, like the piece of shit that she is and she is going to fall in love with you.
you have to treat them like a dirty pig. use her, abuse her verbally and emotionally, she loves to be treated like a dog
if you are a nice guy and you treat her good and very nice, she wont even look at you.
its the truth.click to expand
Posted by 2MoonIf you talk garbage about sign, you attrack the garbage in that sign, pure and simple, you use logic? 😄 you say if you want attract cancer woman, you need to treat her like garbage, that says it all. 😄 you look like you're talking for all the woman out there, ouch she must have hurt you real bad to make you say things like this, prob sacrificed many things and treated her like a good woman but she still rejected you ? Doesn't matter what sign you are, what colour you are or what religious you are, there are shit people in all signs and if she hurt you so much that you think about all cancer woman like that just becaus one of them broke you doesn't mean all of them are the same, smart person would keep this to himself because posting this would make him look like a fool 🙂 Your thoughts attract people in your life because they become your moves, your decisions and your vibrations, if you attract garbage i would suggest changing your mindset towards people, the more negativity you think, the more you attract, same with good people 😉 Objective people give facts , whilPosted by rakacawww, did i hurt your poor lil feelings?!Posted by 2Moonsounds like cancer woman broke your heart 😄 😄Posted by cancertheropyDo you other Cancers NOT fall in love with someone just because they're nice to you?
This is a question I have been curious about for some time. I've notice on the internet people say that a cancer person will easily fall in love with anyone who are nice to them.
Me personally, this isn't a case. I see someone it its an immediate feeling if I would ever date them and if they're nice it's always a big help and bonus in attracting me more. Those who are nice I always find myself not attracted or won't even let myself think of even going further.
Just want to see if it's the same for other cancers or just me.
i agree,
cancer women are like this.
if you want to attract a cancer woman, You MUST treat her like garbage. this is mandatory
treat her like a piece of shit, like the piece of shit that she is and she is going to fall in love with you.
you have to treat them like a dirty pig. use her, abuse her verbally and emotionally, she loves to be treated like a dog
if you are a nice guy and you treat her good and very nice, she wont even look at you.
its the truth.
im a libra.. you already know im objective and neutral. opposite of you: subjective.
we talk facts, logic and truth.
things that you guys cant handle unfortunatelyclick to expand
Posted by 2MoonIf you talk garbage about sign, you attrack the garbage in that sign, pure and simple, you use logic? 😄 you say if you want attract cancer woman, you need to treat her like garbage, that says it all. 😄 you look like you're talking for all the woman out there, ouch she must have hurt you real bad to make you say things like this, prob sacrificed many things and treated her like a good woman but she still rejected you ? Doesn't matter what sign you are, what colour you are or what religious you are, there are shit people in all signs and if she hurt you so much that you think about all cancer woman like that just becaus one of them broke you doesn't mean all of them are the same, smart person would keep this to himself because posting this would make him look like a fool 🙂 Your thoughts attract people in your life because they become your moves, your decisions and your vibrations, if you attract garbage i would suggest changing your mindset towards people, the more negativity you think, the more you attract, same with good people 😉Posted by rakacawww, did i hurt your poor lil feelings?!Posted by 2Moonsounds like cancer woman broke your heart 😄 😄Posted by cancertheropyDo you other Cancers NOT fall in love with someone just because they're nice to you?
This is a question I have been curious about for some time. I've notice on the internet people say that a cancer person will easily fall in love with anyone who are nice to them.
Me personally, this isn't a case. I see someone it its an immediate feeling if I would ever date them and if they're nice it's always a big help and bonus in attracting me more. Those who are nice I always find myself not attracted or won't even let myself think of even going further.
Just want to see if it's the same for other cancers or just me.
i agree,
cancer women are like this.
if you want to attract a cancer woman, You MUST treat her like garbage. this is mandatory
treat her like a piece of shit, like the piece of shit that she is and she is going to fall in love with you.
you have to treat them like a dirty pig. use her, abuse her verbally and emotionally, she loves to be treated like a dog
if you are a nice guy and you treat her good and very nice, she wont even look at you.
its the truth.
im a libra.. you already know im objective and neutral. opposite of you: subjective.
we talk facts, logic and truth.
things that you guys cant handle unfortunatelyclick to expand
You talk about objective, where's objective in this post? 😄 1 bad cancer woman experience and sudenly all of them are attracted to garbage? i don't know how she hurt you, but it seems pretty deep, either you did loads for her and she didn't care or she left you for guy who treats her like garbage, either way that doesn't make every other cancer woman garbage. 😄 i don't even rly vibe with them, but i just can't stand people who judge people based on their zodiac, it's like judging by race or by parents, religion, it's bullshit 😄
Posted by 2MoonPosted by cancertheropyDo you other Cancers NOT fall in love with someone just because they're nice to you?
This is a question I have been curious about for some time. I've notice on the internet people say that a cancer person will easily fall in love with anyone who are nice to them.
Me personally, this isn't a case. I see someone it its an immediate feeling if I would ever date them and if they're nice it's always a big help and bonus in attracting me more. Those who are nice I always find myself not attracted or won't even let myself think of even going further.
Just want to see if it's the same for other cancers or just me.
i agree,
cancer women are like this.
if you want to attract a cancer woman, You MUST treat her like garbage. this is mandatory
treat her like a piece of shit, like the piece of shit that she is and she is going to fall in love with you.
you have to treat them like a dirty pig. use her, abuse her verbally and emotionally, she loves to be treated like a dog
if you are a nice guy and you treat her good and very nice, she wont even look at you.
its the truth.click to expand
Who hurt you?
It's going to be ok @2Moon
I am a cancer woman and a masochist. Lols
I do love very quickly but not fall in love also..
@2Moon
Observing people from the side doesn't mean you know them or can judge them, you might see their actions but you might not know the reason behind it, many cancers can use their head, it's not only about sun sign, many cancers have many good relationships, careers and stability, the most funny thing about people for me is they say the observe rather than experience, experience is what gives you knowledge and get to know person, how you can say all cancer people are like that if you don't even know them, either women or men, it's like being racist towards black people, hating them just because they are black . if you don't even approach cancer woman, don't know them and can talk shit about them that doesn't say much about them, but sure does about you brother 🙂 i look more deeper than the surfice and i don't judge people when i don't know them, i don't even judge them when i do even if i don't like them, you know why? because it's rly not you judging the person, it's you judging your own view of other people's actions, that means you judge yourself, you don't need to say i'm emotional i perfectly know that, i study psychology and i know why people do things and how they do things even if they don't even know themselves, its called unconscious if you ever heard of it, habit of some sorts 🙂 without knowing such things you can't do anything about it, i suggest you first get to know person before you call them names 😉 It's like they say good heart might be hiding under the poor coat 🙂 sad to see how people judge by appearances, many people say i'm cold and fearless, violent, fiercome and crazy but people who are close to me know me as a different person, i'm not sayin Cancers aren't hoes, i'm saying all sings have people like this and juding all signs by only your observation of a few women and having no real experience in it doesn't realy make you objective, people with experience who had it and can talk from it are the ones with objective, not the ones who don't know the person and can only talk about them from outisde 🙂 stop judging people, you're just judging your own point of view anyways, have a nice eve 😉
Observing people from the side doesn't mean you know them or can judge them, you might see their actions but you might not know the reason behind it, many cancers can use their head, it's not only about sun sign, many cancers have many good relationships, careers and stability, the most funny thing about people for me is they say the observe rather than experience, experience is what gives you knowledge and get to know person, how you can say all cancer people are like that if you don't even know them, either women or men, it's like being racist towards black people, hating them just because they are black . if you don't even approach cancer woman, don't know them and can talk shit about them that doesn't say much about them, but sure does about you brother 🙂 i look more deeper than the surfice and i don't judge people when i don't know them, i don't even judge them when i do even if i don't like them, you know why? because it's rly not you judging the person, it's you judging your own view of other people's actions, that means you judge yourself, you don't need to say i'm emotional i perfectly know that, i study psychology and i know why people do things and how they do things even if they don't even know themselves, its called unconscious if you ever heard of it, habit of some sorts 🙂 without knowing such things you can't do anything about it, i suggest you first get to know person before you call them names 😉 It's like they say good heart might be hiding under the poor coat 🙂 sad to see how people judge by appearances, many people say i'm cold and fearless, violent, fiercome and crazy but people who are close to me know me as a different person, i'm not sayin Cancers aren't hoes, i'm saying all sings have people like this and juding all signs by only your observation of a few women and having no real experience in it doesn't realy make you objective, people with experience who had it and can talk from it are the ones with objective, not the ones who don't know the person and can only talk about them from outisde 🙂 stop judging people, you're just judging your own point of view anyways, have a nice eve 😉
I used to like the unobtainable guy. But wanting someone who doesn't want you gets tiring.
Now I just like a challenge. And I like to be chased a bit and do a bit myself.
Thus, if you're a guy I know has been desperately looking for love and you start showing a strong interest in me... I'm thinking... Hey I'm not gonna be the one that "settles" for you.... I mean.. That sounds bad but it's like if a guy is barking up every tree, you don't feel special and it takes the magic away.
I go for the wholesome types now, ones that seems like or are good dads and ambitious, mildly conservative, you know, what us Cancers love, stable, secure, family types. Lol
Now I just like a challenge. And I like to be chased a bit and do a bit myself.
Thus, if you're a guy I know has been desperately looking for love and you start showing a strong interest in me... I'm thinking... Hey I'm not gonna be the one that "settles" for you.... I mean.. That sounds bad but it's like if a guy is barking up every tree, you don't feel special and it takes the magic away.
I go for the wholesome types now, ones that seems like or are good dads and ambitious, mildly conservative, you know, what us Cancers love, stable, secure, family types. Lol
I know some Cancers who do and some who don't
The ones who attract the bad boys love the chase, but most of all they need to FEEL something, an adrenaline of emotions, the shift of emotions, the hate, the love, the confusion, the obsession, the passion, almost like a bad Novela.
But the ones who appreciate the nice ones, are a little more evolved, have an understanding of who they are and what their basic emotional needs are, and simply go after it.
The ones who attract the bad boys love the chase, but most of all they need to FEEL something, an adrenaline of emotions, the shift of emotions, the hate, the love, the confusion, the obsession, the passion, almost like a bad Novela.
But the ones who appreciate the nice ones, are a little more evolved, have an understanding of who they are and what their basic emotional needs are, and simply go after it.
Posted by rakacI do the same exact things
Nope i don't , i find myself looking for something magical, i don't know how to call it, a spark maybe or instant attraction or passion? When you see a person and he instantly makes you feel somehow magical, something inside you says thats the woman and you can't stop but stare at her from time to time. 😄 i'm kind and good to many people and they are 2 me, but that doesn't mean i want something more from them, i'm kind of cruel but honest when it comes to dating, if a woman likes me and i don't like her i will tell her straight to the face that nothing good can come out of this, but i think thats rather good than give people fake hopes or something.I think it's more my moon than my sun with this action, and if a woman tells me she rly likes me or loves me and i don't feel the same way, either as a friend or something more i just start feeling weird and distance myself from them, don't want to give them hope or something, one woman now in the place i'm living told me she loves me and i've been distant scince then, back in the day i asked her to put tattoo lotion on my back to keep my tattoo colours fresh, but now i can't ask her that because it just feels weird and uncomftable when she would touch me and me knowing she likes me, i'm weird this way. 😄
@rakac @2moon children play nice. Every sign has its ups and downs. We all have problems even if some of us don't want to admit. Honestly I felt 2moon was just giving his own advice about what he has seen. I've had cancer girls in my class that are like that, getting insulted does turn them on a bit but I would feel it depends on the individual person. If they have anxiety, depression, other psychological issues, their past experiences that could affect their maturity and the way they've been raised by their parents. All have an impact on each person. I do agree entirely that you need to learn more of the person than what you see as what is unseen is what everyone seems to ignore or overlook. As a cancer I do find myself getting emotional problems at times that become hard to control and people who are more detached from their emotions can never understand what it feels like. It practically makes it so I can't think of anything else. I get attracted from the unattainable easier than those who are as it makes me want them more. Ignoring me does attract me, as I do not enjoy being ignored and drags me to bug the person more. Although I hold myself back on this as much as possible so that I don't annoy anyone. I for some reason love a good chase. I have too sensitive skin though to actually get turned on by someone who is verbally mean.
Turned on by being insulted? Ok. 😆
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Me personally, this isn't a case. I see someone it its an immediate feeling if I would ever date them and if they're nice it's always a big help and bonus in attracting me more. Those who are nice I always find myself not attracted or won't even let myself think of even going further.
Just want to see if it's the same for other cancers or just me.