Cancer rising SCARED S***LESS

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Sarahxoxo on Tuesday, May 10, 2016 and has 22 replies.

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@Sarahxoxo
10 Years

My cancer rising crush, really really likes me too. Real raw connection. We have only texted and been in eachothers presence at work..and one time with friends at his home..drunk..nothing happend but he did stand up for me when a friend blamed me for spilling somthing and we were all laughing about it and he playfully turned the tables and kinda defended me. and so that was cuteπŸ˜‰
Anyway we are both to weak to approach eachother face to face...even tho he COMES by me, in my direction, out of his way, walks pasts me all the time...so after months of that. i finally gave up on him ever making the move andd so i did today!!!

i came up to him and said hi! with a big warm smile and he quick turns his head down to his phone and says quietly what up and just looked..idek...but i felt his energy fs..like panic/tense/nervous/shy. Whyβ€” And like i didnt know what do say cuz nothing was up..like i had nothing to say he wasnt even looking at me..so i think i kinda drew away after he said that and yeah kinda AWKWARD....and then he started walking slower.. thats was it. Super confused idk if i shud wait for him to approach me (im almost positive he wont) butttt

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@Sarahxoxo
10 Years

Posted by blessyou
Yeah you kinda remind me of this girl I had a crush on in high school and it'd be just like that. Everyone was always telling us to link up but we was both too scared of rejection to go any further.. She was probably like the prettiest girl there too..oh well, right?

Not to brag..but i am too. Im still a virgin too....and he knows i want to loose it to only him. I feel like he thinks hes not worth it...How to i loosen him up a bit? Affection?

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@Sarahxoxo
10 Years

Also, bc we hav never had sex or touched eachother..but always talked about it....i feel like he needs that from me...physical touch. In order to feel secure

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@Sarahxoxo
10 Years

Posted by Koniucha
A guy that won't even look at you when you talk to him? I don't know, sounds a bit rude.

Yeah i know, i understand his prospective though. If he didnt want me he wouldnt smile at me or "stalk" me, or respect me not to pressure sex. This connection is so strong hes stuck in it, and dosnt wunna mess it up or handle it. Also, i hav many guy friends. maybe hes scared of loosing me to them.

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@Sarahxoxo
10 Years

also..he gets to the edge of almost tearing up when we are by eachother but at a distance (were i have to turn around to see him but he can see me perfectly) WHy is that?