How do u deal?
Does Scorpio love overwhelm you?
I don't know what it is, never involved with a scorp. What I have heard of it doesn't exactly excite me.
Posted by BlackMambacorny how? a cancer feeling another sign cornier than them? ha!
Never been with doesn't sound overwhelming just kind of corny
What do you consider overwhelming?
Posted by LunarMaidenI think a woman who will psychotically haunt you once you end a relationship with her is not only a mite overwhelming but also a touch disconcerting. I would like to express slight concern at that point.
What do you consider overwhelming?
I keep hearing about this legend but never experienced it. I have a few scorp friends. They prefer hipsters from my observation.
It's not love it's the control freak and clingy that overwhelms a Cancer we don't like being controlled and we are not so fond of clingy.
I've seen the Scorpio stare first hand and she was intent on a Cancer. Just imagine a cheetah hunting her prey, VERY intense.
my scorp has his venus in scorpio too and moon in aries (add: extra intensity, extra passionate sex, extra temper, extra overwhelming feelings). So yeah, to an aqua it gets overwhelming at times. At least in the beginning it was VERY overwhelming. Overwhelmingly good, overwhelmingly cute, overwhelmingly beautiful, overwhelmingly hurtful, sad, angry. He almost had to like... teach me, how to feel. But honestly, it's more than worth coming out of my no-emotions-aqua-comfort-zone. I mean, if a scorpio really loves you, they'll make you their all, their center of the universe, and that feeling alone is priceless.
On the downside, I often get irritated by the wallowing in negative feelings..
On the downside, I often get irritated by the wallowing in negative feelings..
Posted by BlackMamba
Scorpios anything doesn't work for me why I think it never lasts or they're not into me!
They can't outbully me. Our control me! Or outcrazy me!
I find their tactics weak
😆
Posted by BlackMambaAww. lolPosted by dewiklaessen1991I'm not clingy but add Leo placements. Everything hurts
Cancers are more clingy then Scorpio and they depend on others alot also like a safe environment and is really moody my ex was one sorry but never Cancer for me again male Cancers are very insecure try to manipulate and emotional blackmailing to get things done they are not responsible mommy's boys and too sensitive.family is so important that they can't go against them even when something is on the heart they are not straight at all they are dreamers and try to keep piece a the time run away from reality Cancers are really no offense the weaker once like Pisces but they are even more sensitive. What's your sign?click to expand
Scorpio Like is overwhelming to me... not in a bad way,
but yeah it's heavy.
Like a dense ny cheescake.
Posted by thinktoomuchYou threatened to chop off his privates if you saw him with another woman, didn't you?Posted by incandescentcancerAre you saying, you´re not attracted to this kind of behaviour—?? Well I NEVER!!!Posted by LunarMaidenI think a woman who will psychotically haunt you once you end a relationship with her is not only a mite overwhelming but also a touch disconcerting. I would like to express slight concern at that point.
What do you consider overwhelming?
Yeah, as a scorpio we do have a nack for really scaring people away. I have succesfully completely scared off a cancer and will never see him again. Bravo!click to expand
Posted by BlackMambaI believe you. 😄Posted by MontgomeryI never felt that heaviness! I've felt irritation. Sneakiness. Manipulation.Posted by BlackMambaAww. lolPosted by dewiklaessen1991I'm not clingy but add Leo placements. Everything hurts
Cancers are more clingy then Scorpio and they depend on others alot also like a safe environment and is really moody my ex was one sorry but never Cancer for me again male Cancers are very insecure try to manipulate and emotional blackmailing to get things done they are not responsible mommy's boys and too sensitive.family is so important that they can't go against them even when something is on the heart they are not straight at all they are dreamers and try to keep piece a the time run away from reality Cancers are really no offense the weaker once like Pisces but they are even more sensitive. What's your sign?
Scorpio Like is overwhelming to me... not in a bad way,
but yeah it's heavy.
Like a dense ny cheescake.
I go through that like a horse! I'll bull doze a scorpioclick to expand
I haven't considered scorpio love as overwhelming. It's one of the few who seem to give as good as they get, which is a plus. But what would I know, I've been told by a scorpio that I'm an emotional extremist and that I scare the shit out of him. Another said I'm weird. I consider this a compliment.
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMember~Cheshire cat grin~Posted by MoonArtistYou aren't weird, Dear.
I haven't considered scorpio love as overwhelming. It's one of the few who seem to give as good as they get, which is a plus. But what would I know, I've been told by a scorpio that I'm an emotional extremist and that I scare the shit out of him. Another said I'm weird. I consider this a compliment.
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Posted by Arielle83that's her complaint of ex aries/leo moon hubby with Scorpio mars 5th house.
"He always have orgasm [sic], and he doesn't wait for me ever to have orgasm. He's selfish."[
- Lorena bobbitt
Oct 31 1970 bday
pre-mature ejaculation.
Posted by thinktoomuchWhen I love someone (family, friends, lovers) I love them with everything I am, and I expect the same back, but often get disappointed with this because it's usually not given in same measures. I can also hate with everything I am. I want heart, mind and soul. I do agree that Cancer/Scorpio weird is a good thing. 😄Posted by MoonArtistWell that´s kinda soothing...
I haven't considered scorpio love as overwhelming. It's one of the few who seem to give as good as they get, which is a plus. But what would I know, I've been told by a scorpio that I'm an emotional extremist and that I scare the shit out of him. Another said I'm weird. I consider this a compliment.
I have yet to meet someone, who is as extreme with things as I am. Or one who will talk about it. And I have yet to ever reveal to anybody, just how crazy I am. Crab guy did bring it out in me though, and i an attempt to be honest and open, I did reveal more to him than other guys, but he will never know, how I am, when I´m just comfortable/secure and in love. And maybe that´s a good thing😄
Cancer and scorpio are weird though. It is one of our best qualities.click to expand
I agree with CC, scorpes ARE corny! They'll even sing to you over the phone and ask you to call them "daddy" even when they don't pay for stuff.
Posted by thinktoomuchPosted by MoonArtistRight?! 🙂 When a female cancer told me a while ago, that I was weird, I almost got a little hurt, becayse I thought "but heeeey, we´re supposed to be crazy together!"Posted by thinktoomuchWhen I love someone (family, friends, lovers) I love them with everything I am, and I expect the same back, but often get disappointed with this because it's usually not given in same measures. I can also hate with everything I am. I want heart, mind and soul. I do agree that Cancer/Scorpio weird is a good thing. 😄Posted by MoonArtistWell that´s kinda soothing...
I haven't considered scorpio love as overwhelming. It's one of the few who seem to give as good as they get, which is a plus. But what would I know, I've been told by a scorpio that I'm an emotional extremist and that I scare the shit out of him. Another said I'm weird. I consider this a compliment.
I have yet to meet someone, who is as extreme with things as I am. Or one who will talk about it. And I have yet to ever reveal to anybody, just how crazy I am. Crab guy did bring it out in me though, and i an attempt to be honest and open, I did reveal more to him than other guys, but he will never know, how I am, when I´m just comfortable/secure and in love. And maybe that´s a good thing😄
Cancer and scorpio are weird though. It is one of our best qualities.click to expand
I get hurt by friends and family too, but especially with friends, I´m very good at not holding a grudge. I fuck up too sometimes. I´m not perfect. With family, it gets a little harder to let it go, but I always try to mediate (and therefore get myself caught in the middle of things all of a sudden), but with love interests.... Yeah, it´s like one mistake involving trust, and then I can´t go back. Looking back at experience with cancer male, I still circle around how he said to me, after we had been seing each other for about 3 months, that he wasn´t ready for a relationship. That screamed danger to me, and since then I believe, I´ve always thought "well, you´re a guy just looking for sex, because you were the one to approach me and then tell me later, that you didn´t want a relationship." In retrospect, everything else that´s happened since, all the effort he did put into trying to build a relationship with me, is lost on me. Only now, when we are not even speaking anymore, I understand, that him saying "let´s work on being in a relationship" was him saying "show me how you are as a girlfriend. I need more from you". That initial "not ready for a relationship" is all
I wonder if she had earth placements that helped make her less weird and more practical? I have zero earth in my chart. lol
With family I've been extremely lucky. I've never questioned or felt the need to question how much they love me. Critiques are always handled with a fair and "you might not like hearing this but you need to" tone. Communication is pretty easy, but 2 gem parents, and aqua sis and a bull brother. We squabble like wolves and we're all as fiercely protective of each other. Friends have been where the most hurt comes from. I've had to let many go by the wayside because I can't tolerate betrayal.
With family I've been extremely lucky. I've never questioned or felt the need to question how much they love me. Critiques are always handled with a fair and "you might not like hearing this but you need to" tone. Communication is pretty easy, but 2 gem parents, and aqua sis and a bull brother. We squabble like wolves and we're all as fiercely protective of each other. Friends have been where the most hurt comes from. I've had to let many go by the wayside because I can't tolerate betrayal.
Posted by thinktoomuchOh, I agree. Cancer is definitely as bad.Posted by LillyPetalIf we´re gonna go down that road, cancer is just as bad... Or good, depending how you look at it🙂
I agree with CC, scorpes ARE corny! They'll even sing to you over the phone and ask you to call them "daddy" even when they don't pay for stuff.
Maybe cancer is more funny than corny, and THANK GOD for that. My sister was once involved with a scorpio guy... They sent poems and song lyrics to each other. Really heart felt ones. Just listening to her read some of it out loud made me feel uncomfortable. I´d much rather have the cancer man laugh and say "you´re so annoying!" instead.click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchThat sounds weirdly interesting. I have no idea why I said that....lolPosted by incandescentcancerI wish! I really really wish, I had just said that!Posted by thinktoomuchYou threatened to chop off his privates if you saw him with another woman, didn't you?Posted by incandescentcancerAre you saying, you´re not attracted to this kind of behaviour—?? Well I NEVER!!!Posted by LunarMaidenI think a woman who will psychotically haunt you once you end a relationship with her is not only a mite overwhelming but also a touch disconcerting. I would like to express slight concern at that point.
What do you consider overwhelming?
Yeah, as a scorpio we do have a nack for really scaring people away. I have succesfully completely scared off a cancer and will never see him again. Bravo!
He saw me, when I feel like I am potentially being strung along, and that´s not really a good look for me...
He was like: show me how you are, when you´re in a relationship, gimme all the good stuff, and I will give you the title.
I was like: give me the title, and I will show you, how I am when I´m in a relationship and give you all the good stuff. .. What he got was not loving, he has no idea😄 But I remember sometimes trying to look into his eyes and connect with him during steamy bath sessions, he would shy away a little. He told me, I had a totally different look in my eyes when sex was on the table (pun intended), I think he both liked it and felt a little overwhelmed by it😄
Fun topic though - not specifically in regards to scorpio/cancer but just scorpio. I´ve always felt like, the way I fell in love or liked guys was too much and nobody would want all that lovin´, and I could never handle it myself. JUST LET ME LOVE YOU!!!! - Totally applies to the scorpio personality as far as I see it.click to expand
I chronically overlove everyone. It's like a nervous tick. I would be overwhelmed by me. I like Scorpio depth and intensity and tend to settle for little else.
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