Friends again?

Hello,

I have enormous feelings for Cancer man and he was in love with me too, at some point months ago. He did not want to be in a relationship so he suggested to stay away this summer. He texted me yesterday that he is missing me and wants to be friends. We are in our late 20s. He is casually seeing someone right now.

I want both - to be his friend again as I also dearly miss my friend. But as I am still not completely over, I am in favor of saying no too. What should I do? I am not the type who would come in between him and his muse. But I also want to be with him sometimes.

Suggestions awaiting,

Thanks!

You should say "no" until you are over him

Yeah that's what I was thinking too. But I miss him as a friend a lot.

Noooooo. He wants you for emotional support and her for sex. he thinks he can have the best of both worlds. Don't let him use you if it will hurt you.

Stand clear. He told you once he wanted to stay away from you. Now he misses you. He's unstable.

Go to a museum, have girls spa day, draw, whatever you like to do go do that

One day he'll be forgotten

DO NOT BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE YOU HAVE ROMANTIC INCLINATIONS TOWARD.

You will only hurt yourself in the process.

You two can be shopping bag buddies only when you both have platonic feelings toward each other.

No its not platonic from my side at all. And yes, that's correct, I should continue staying away from him.

Don't be an option.

Never again.