He didn't want to spend the night with me

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frenchie
@frenchie
8 Years

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Been dating someone for two months now, seeing each other twice a week and started having sex one month ago. I have met his mother who gave me a big hug and said was nice to finally meet me.

He says he is happier since I'm in his life, and that I'm the only one who he has deep conversations with.

When we are together he initiates the kisses and holding hands, but we are very affectionate with each other.

My issue is his lack of asking me out. It's usually me asking him if he's free on so and so day, then he will agree and we will come up with a plan together.

Another thing is, yesterday we went to an event I won tickets to. He bought me dinner as a thank you. We went to the event and it's 10 min from my house, from his it's one hour. Rather than coming to mine he wanted to go home because he didn't have spare clothes.

Normally we meet on weekends and also he has Friday off so we dan meet on a Thursday as well, but this is just for a short period, then he will be back to working five days a week. If it were me I would have brought spare clothes (I've done this with him), because I would rather spend the night with him. I asked him what will it b like when he goes back to working five days a week, and he said we'd have to adapt to either just weekly sleepover (my heart dropped, is he not as into me as I'm into him?) or he said If things progress he could bring toiletries to mine.

Then he said he would speak to me the next day.. and he didn't. He's very bad with texting and asking me out, with proactiveness basically. So this is what I'm slightly sceptical about, not sure if I should bring it up. I don't mind asking out all the time, if he's into me as much as I'm into him. If he isn't too bothered about spending the night with me, then he isn't a passionate about me? He did say he's in love with me, and is very sweet with me. Am I just overthinking? I thought cancers were clingy?