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Hi all fellow cancer men,

I need help on something,
I am dating a fem pisces for past some months,till now it is quiet smooth with some rough times in b/w.
But now the problem comes that she keeps me asking,"tell something more",
Although I tell her everything and never hide anything,yet I dont quiet get what she wants to hear,she just puzzles me and keeps me guessing.

I forgot to mention that she is already engaged which happened after we got to know each other.

Shall I guess it is concerning Sex or something else,cause we didn't experience it with each other yet.

Please give your opinions/experiences.

Hmmm...I'm not a cancer guy, but I've been with a few and I'll tell you why pisces women can't open up so quickly. Because they don't trust people very easily. It takes a while to gain a pisces trust, but you should see what they're thinking written all over their face. They can't hide it very well unless you're not paying attention. Pay attention to facial expressions and body language and quite honestly if she's engaged I'd say you better do the cancer thing and keep a little bit of your shell up. Make her guess a little. I don't think that's fair to you. I'm a gemini with cancer rising and cancer moon. I usually keep a little bit of mystery about me without playing mind games. You only need to tell her what she absolutely needs to know. The rest is for her to wonder about and eventually she will be opening up to you. I think the thing with some cancer guys is that when they open up so much it makes them look so sweet and sensitive, which makes the ladies think it's too good to be true. It's a toss up. Find out her rising sign.

UMMMMM if she ENGAGED den do da right thang mayne stay far. Cause if she doin dat, and u wear ur heart on yur sleeves then is goodnite nurse for u son. She will leave u there cooollld. She is unsure of herslef now, but do not play with ENGAGEMENt and a lady about to be married. How soon is her wedding date? She is dropping hints.... subtle or otherwise. But tell her how u feel and make sure and ask delicately what she wants, cause minda games aint nice.

Does she say things about the other guy?If so what?Does she seem in love with him?Was she with this guy unengaged before she got to know you?Do you know for sure shes engaged and it's not just something she told you to get you to want to advance it to a higher level of commentment?Do you think she's saying that because your serving everything up front and may be bored?Sorry,but thats not enough info and a touchy subject to make any type of opinion,especially with pisces of both sexes.Obviously they like it if your a mind reader of sorts or just be able to figure them out somtimes and do need that mental stimulation or it's a form of insanity for them if they don't get it.

Thanks Folks I really like your advices and your opinions,

First let me tell you she got engaged to a guy after we were friends,we didn,t get married cause we had family problems,her fiancee is living quiet far away and there is very little chance of him knowing bt anythn,
So seeing those facts what are the chances(chances of me getting it right) I have experienced the fact that these fishes are not outright and they drop hints for you to pick up,I picked up the hint and she calls me intelligent.GOSH...So wht you say guys shall I cash the cheque—

Then again, in a fantasy world...She might be waiting for him to take her by the hand and say...


You are my woman. It's obvious to me that you have doubts about marrying him and I can't let you do that without knowing what could have been between us!

But I...

He grabs her & kisses her passionately...

They have a whirlwind romance, fall madly & deeply in love, and live happily ever after


That would be HOT! I am such a sucker for things like that. Her knight has come to save her!

Cancerlady

LOL. That's great cancerlady. 🙂 Don't we all wish for that. haha. deep water current...I'll have to agree with Tiamat on this. There's really not enough information on her and why she's not breaking off the engagment. That's a touchy subject. From what you're writing it seems like she's playing mind games a little and I could be wrong. If I were you I'd lay the cards down. This is what I want and if you don't then we need to stop all of this. Honestly deep water; don't you have a life to live and maybe more women to please? Think about it. It shouldn't be this difficult. Romance should flow and be beautiful. I think it'd be different if she wasn't engaged, but that's buggin' me. Do you want someone who would do that to you if you were engaged? Know what I mean?

My dear gem,
You talk about some morals??
well look around it all keeps happenning all around!!

Well certainly I won't want it to happen to me!But.....
It all comes down to imagination,as these fishes do call it,she tells me it gives a lot of pleasure in just imagining,lol..
what about my imaginations?? I imagine to do something but they imagine smthn just for pleasure,ha ha ha nice what you say folks,

Pleasure yes we all get it by imagining something nice but don't we get sad when that particular thing dosn't hapn
She says at least for the time we are happy imagining,God pisces impracticality!!!!!!

Well I want her to be happy in whatever case dnt know why—

so I am taking everything,you all know cancer commitment,my foot,lol.....

Well actually a pisces will be perfectly happy with just imagining things and not acting on them,they are the dreamers after all.I guess the reason everyone is still confused is that pisces are VERY vague and people think there are things happening when to the pisces nothing is going on.Talk to her if you want an answer,if she's a pisces like the ones I know,you wouldn't have to worry about the friendship unless you expect something to happen and get mad when it doesn't.Don't hit on her or anything to get what you want to do out there just talk to her in a usual conversation a plain and simple no is all you have to worry about with the average one but do keep in mind that she could not be like that as well and could get mad if thats not what she means,again not enough info.

OK. These questions have to be cleared first.

1. "tell something more".

Tell about what?

2. I forgot to mention that she is already engaged which happened after we got to know each other.

If she is engaged, why is she still staying with you? Why?

"Shall I guess it is concerning Sex or something else"

1. You better guess about nothing yet.
2. Face expressions wouldn't help you in anything. Dont deceive yourself.

After you get answears on what is unclear about her, start to act on your logic and weigh her as you care her.

There is nothing complicated here. People are just playing a guess game here.

Deep_water_current:

The problem that you are facing is the biggest problem that every Pisces has. Unlike all other signs of the zodiac, Pisces people doesnt born with ability of self expression. We do not inherit it, we learn it. For that exac reason people see us as vague, secretive and impractical.

You would be very close with her if you would work on this problem with her.

I'm not so much speaking of morals...just looking out for your feelings in all of this. Guess I'm just confused as to what the real thing is that you're trying to find here? All I know is that you two are friends, she got engaged in between this friendship, now she's still with you during her engagement. Is that right? However you can't get her to pick you? Is that what you're saying? Are you trying to win her love? And what has she done to show you that she cares for you? I was with a cancer that used to torture himself in affairs of the heart and it hurts me to see someone doing that. I need more info on her to be able to help. I've had so many water signs in and out of my life and they're all different. So I really don't want to give you the wrong advice. Have you found out anything else about her chart. Like what's her rising sign, etc.?

Thank you for popping in here haffo.Yes,it is a big guessing game.The ones I know are very practical and logical in thier reasoning behind thier actions.They just don't explain things in a very direct way IF they even do try to attempt it anyways,or an expression could be just a way to say they understand where your coming from.They do tend to be very expressionate but thats just due to when they do care about you even if it is just friends it's just that they want to help.If you want someone to say pisces/cancer good match go for it but I just get the feeling theres mixed messages here at this point.The keep in mind thing is that if it's not what she means I do know pisces females who will crack a guy one if he grabs her thinking this or that when shes just being herself.Talking to her is the way to go from what you've said so far.

Tiamat:

Actually we care about everybody, and that makes our decisions difficult to make. It is only the people themself who makes us careless towards them. So, in a nutshell; we try to be expressive all the time, you just need to know how to not this urge turned off.

This girl isnt married yet and she can stop her engagement whenever she wants. If you look at this situation from that perspective, then there is no big moral problem. Of course it is logical to think like that, if this girl thinks that she made a mistake when engaged with that man and dont want to double it by marrying him.

Tiamat:

Yes you may have very strong reasons for your guesses. I do not deny it. You may even be right. But, we do not have enough informaiton to make theses guessess yet. Yes you mentioned that. Therefore, this is not a correct way of action to "guess" about her when we do not have information about her. I would prefer to ask questions before "guess" things about her. After all, you load people with preconceptions that may lead them to ask wrong questions.

Yeah,yeah,yeah,I know that and don't care about the moral issues but she could,and you can just straight out tell me to shut up sometimes I don't mind.Ignore me and talk deep water current okay.

Besides I sorta kinda already know what happened from the other post.

you guys just forgot the issue and started a diff thing altogether nt a good thing guys Anyway thanks for all your opinions on this post and lets us see what happens.
Ultimately, I believe that one can do his best and be ready for the worst!!!

Thanks Haffo,Thanks tiamat,
Thank you all!!