I need some advice on how to help my cancer friend.At her job she's responsible for 6 or 7 patients who are psychotic and 2 of them are stressing her out more because they hit her, throw things at her and do crazy shit to themselves and others that's making her job a lot harder than it should be. She was summoned to court for one of them last month because the patient literally peeled her own skin off-wtf and also beat another patient up real bad. She wasn't on duty with them and still got summoned anyway. Plus this famous judge she used to work for called her back to work on a project under the direction of Obama. Now she has her regular job and now she's back with the judge and he expects her to work 24/7 no matter what. She told him she has a good job and good networks there and doesn't want to quit it at the moment-he said that's fine you can come anytime after or before work and gave her her old office back and the keys to the hall. He also expects her to write programs and shit and coordinate with meetings and things where she will be working alongside top notch politicians (and she seems intimidated by this). Plus she has a book deal and is supposed to be finished this book by mid October and the book is crazy philosophical and something you need a lot of time ad dedication to write. I really don't know what I could do for her. She has been working around the clock and in the past week alone she has noticeably lost maybe 10lbs. She still looks good and is her usual self but I know that is a front and I know she's hurting. If she keeps going on like this she will burnout. She took me out for my birthday and we stayed out late-she still had to be at her job by 8am. Instead of going to sleep for a little she got straight to writing and then went to work. Then after work went to work with the judge then came home, spent time with her daughter and stayed up writing her book. How much can one person really take? She's always been ambitious and overactice but this just worries me. How can I get her to slow down? What can I do?
How can I help her?

Uh just be there? From what you posted seems she signed up for all of that. Sometimes the job comes with psychos and assclowns.
Kissmygrits, I know it's her choosing but she's focused on her dreams. But how can I help her?
Elle, no this is most definitely not myself I'm talking about and is in fact my cancer friend...who talks to me about everything.
Elle, no this is most definitely not myself I'm talking about and is in fact my cancer friend...who talks to me about everything.
Can't help to worry. Why do you cancer women always have to be so strong and independent all of the time? Let me love you.
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