How do you make a cancer woman fall for you?

I'm a cancer woman myself, but I'm not sure I can pinpoint the exact things that make me fall for someone. When I fell in love with my ex I fell in love cause I felt reassured that she wouldn't leave and I felt safe with her, but then she still left.. Now I'm not sure. I want to hear what you other Cancer girls think. 🙂

I'm not a Cancer female, but it's my understanding that the way to her heart is to first become her best friend.

Not sure!

For me it was a connection I felt that I couldn't escape from!

I still feel the same way 5 years later and we're not even together.

In the past... It was their mind Id say.. how they spoke, what they spoke about, did it relate to me? How did they treat other people? etc..

exactly what you wrote the other way around

assure us you will never leave we have a terrible fear of abandonment

make us not have to guess how you are feeling reassure us constantly and make us FEEL amazing and loved

as i have said many times on the cancer board its all in how you MAKE US FEEL ideally better than anyone else ever before that is the key to our heart

So I can't speak for all cancers

..but that things that make fall you...

Humor... I love a man that has a good sense of humor...

Intellect.

It's something truly that is not appreciated today

Emotional intelligence... Probably more important than the other two.... Nothing worse than a smart cute guy that's a rude asshole. Cause he doesn't posses any emotional intelligence -_-

These are the most import things... Connect with my mind and heart and my body will almost always follow...

Unfortunately... Alot of people thinks it works the other way around and it doesn't -_-

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Im also not sure. I think the person needs to stick around for a long time and take care of me mentally and physically. They need to always be there when i need them and never let me down. Ever.

When i say long time i mean years. I think i have only loved one time. And it took me like 5 years.

What's your Venus?

Be nice to her mother. That's always a good start. Then constantly reassure her that you are the sweetest guy in earth by being thoughtful and kind. That should do it!