@LazyK
9 Years1,000+ Posts
Do you want to? I don't think Virgo and Cancer speak the same language, so I don't think the frustration will go away for either of you. In the end it boils down to patience.
But if the good your cancer brings to the table can't outweigh the emotional shitshow it comes with...
Aww I love virgo guys

So sexy...
But to answer your question... Just be as patient as you can... We are moody but the moods can go just as quick as they come if she still craves your presence even when she grouchy that's a really good sign... 😄
Posted by LePetitFisk
Let them vent and bitch. Just try not to completely tune them out because there will be a surprise quiz about what she just said at the end. And it's not multiple choice answers.
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There are literally 3 stages to Cancer and mood swings
1: I will randomly start to sulk and pout around
2: if you ignore this (not recommended in response to your question) I will become really passive aggressive
3: Finally I will become aggressive and let you have it!
I would say most Cancers want someone to be by their side even when they are this way but a healthy space like let me be angry but be there for me in case I want to talk!
The new age Virguy can definitely make it work just be yourself, and let her know your here for her!
Posted by LePetitFisk
Let them vent and bitch. Just try not to completely tune them out because there will be a surprise quiz about what she just said at the end. And it's not multiple choice answers.
Not to worry.
I prepare by writing everything down on 3x5 just in case I have to cheat ?
So basically ur saying there's no way to fix the problem & this is something I'll have to deal with for the rest of my life if I choose to
Sounds so depressing
yet exciting at the same time
If I'm in a bad mood that has nothing to do with you then just let me be and I'll get over it. Worst thing you can do is harass or patronize a crabby crab ?
Posted by LazyK
So basically ur saying there's no way to fix the problem & this is something I'll have to deal with for the rest of my life if I choose toSounds so depressing
yet exciting at the same time
how is it exciting at the same time?
did you write that by accident?
Definitely don't ignore them! I will say there is a bigger bulk to astrological personalities so find out yours and hers different planet signs to get a better viewing of her indepth personality, but going just by canceranians do not ignore them! Don't push anything though, try to coo what is wrong from them in a gentle manner, because when in a bad mood we'll retract into our shells.
we don't express it, but we truly want our partners or those who've caused us pain to take the initiative to find out what's wrong and help even if we don't say so, or show it at all, it shows us you do care even if we push away which will probably help get her out of her shell, it's a big show of trust. This is for sadness by the way.
If she's angry and it's something you did, she'll probably be passive aggressive and not show what's exactly wrong, so definitely be intuitive on the beginnings of an anger spout. If this anger goes unresolved it can become an ugly mess of tears and rage. If it isn't something you did, she may want to vent to you. DEFINITELY LISTEN. Once she's done and she's still not too cool, look for signs of retreating into her shell. If so, leave her be for a bit but don't go too far away. If she isn't retreating, she probably wants some comfort. I hope this helps you!
Posted by LazyK
So basically ur saying there's no way to fix the problem & this is something I'll have to deal with for the rest of my life if I choose toSounds so depressing
yet exciting at the same time
how is it exciting at the same time?
did you write that by accident?
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Funny make me laugh
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
I'm not moodyPpl take my need for quiet as being moody
Maybe stfu once in awhile
Fuking chatterbox
I guess I'll just sit in a corner Indian style until your ready for
Maybe if u put out I would shut up ?
Me
Posted by LazyK
So basically ur saying there's no way to fix the problem & this is something I'll have to deal with for the rest of my life if I choose toSounds so depressing
yet exciting at the same time
Just focus on the positives..for example, compassionate and best boobs in the zodiac —
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Virgo focusing on all of the positives lol
Posted by LazyK
So basically ur saying there's no way to fix the problem & this is something I'll have to deal with for the rest of my life if I choose toSounds so depressing
yet exciting at the same time
I don't think so. What they're saying is you can't just turn off the mood swings. It's what comes with this placement in nearly every crab-case. However, the love they give tends to make up for the bad times. It can be frustrating, but you should know that if a crab is moody with you, they care about you enough to let you see this side to them. They have a tough shell and powerful pincers that make them quite formidable defensively, but underneath all of that are those soft and extremely vulnerable insides. If you think it's tough to get these women to open up initially, you're really not going to like how much more difficult it is to get them to do it again if you fvck up.
Mmmm cancer women are babes they have such beautiful eyes that I could stare at all day one can clutch onto me anytime
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I love cancer women, but I don't know how to deal with them day in & day out. So much stress ?
Should I just ignore them when they mood swing?
problem is they still want me around even when they're irritated
Give me ideas on how to ❤️ U ? in a bucket
I'm Virgo btw