As mentioned above, my ex and I were on LDR (he is in Europe and I Asia)and I broke up with him in June. I apologised to him after 2 weeks. He didn't reply. After another 30 days NC, I contacted him, he replied. He apologised on his part but also said he couldn't take care of me and someone will. I said I respected his decision. We still sent texts to reach other randomly. And slowly we exchanged our feelings left over towards each other. Then he suggested we go for another holiday somewhere together. I agreed and the date was set in 2nd week Oct. My father suddenly passed away on Wed. As he sent me text asking how I was, I told him my father passed away. He had been closely contacting me giving me support words. I expressed my gratitude to him. Last night he replied me said thanks to my nice words about him, then he said he had been thinking a lot about me and us. Said he had no clue where and how this relationship is called. And that he does know I am a very special friend to him and very close in mind. I replied him suggested we try a new relationship and take it slow. He has not replied. But I regretted I suggested that I think it's premature for it yet. It may just trigger his reactance. What shall I do now? Send him another message to say I understand and let's take time to figure out or just leave it to wait for his reply?
