Do Cancer's feel threatened by other men so much they will not chase?

Eg. He likes you and wants to take things further. If a cancer saw another man with you would he literally be so scared he'd rather not try anymore and rather run?

Or will he come around and still chase you if he likes you enough?

It's possible. It's also possible it will make him spring into action with passionate fervor. It can also be anything inbetween -- it depends on your crab.

It might discourage him but he wont stop talking to you or anything.

Depends, if he's a friend then nothing should happen, but if you're dating....I don't know how anyone else, but i'd take off, wouldn't chase and go the other way, if i'm dating a girl or have a relationship with one, i want to be the only one, dating someone else would look like playing and wasting my time so i wouldn't bother, it rly depends on how you look at things, others might be more driven to get you if you're married or dating, me? not so much, i prefer to be the only one, and i think people should never chase love, attention or affection because it it's not given freely by another person, it isn't worth having. 🙂

This may depend on other planetary placements & full terms of relationship.

I prefer to find out the reason I saw them together. Just bc 2 ppl are in each other's company doesn't mean they're having relations. Once I know the facts I will cut them off for good bc I can be with someone stupid enough to think there is an option other than me or I will fight with all I have.

Unless the person I'm seeing makes it clear they do not want to be with me & they want to move on. I won't entertain that at all.

3 cancers I know are almost exactly the same.

You can ask the cancer. We may not tell you immediately but we will tell you when we feel ready (sometimes immediately). If we never talk to you again then we didn't see anything worth fighting for.

If he cares about you, he'll be upset. If he just has you there because he wants security, he'll be indifferent.

My Cancer is jealous.

From about the first day we met, his first question was "how much competition do I have to deal with?"

When we were "on a break" if he so much as thought I was anywhere near another man, even a friend, he would incessantly text me like a petulant child because he figured if he was monopolising my attention then the other guy would not be able to bond with me.

If someone else asks me out, or even if I do something with a male friend he gets so mad he will not tlak to me for a few days.

I have dated Scorpio, Taurus....nothing prepared me for how jealous a cancer is, and yes, if I was with someone else I think he would literally spring into action and do whatever was required to stop me going with the other guy.

BUT, there's also a sense of pride and ego at play and I am 100% sure that if I were TRYING to make him jealous or if i made him feel in any way like I was interested in someone else - he would forget me and move on. He wants my devotion...anything less would be a big turn off for him.

I don't think Cancer men are indifferent or not possessive unless they don't care about you that much.

Depends on how YOU act around this other man. If your overly flirty and touchy feely the cancer may decide your not gf material.

OP a lot of this answer depends on where you are with him in your relationship, which stage are you? Just met? dating? long time companions? etc

Posted by LadyNeptune
Depends on how YOU act around this other man. If your overly flirty and touchy feely the cancer may decide your not gf material.

Yes, honestly....I think if I did that, my Cancer would lose all feelings for me completely.