i had to say goodbye to my crab today

our project together at work is finished and it was always our excuse to bump into each other and now there is no project and i had to tell my crab goodbye and he wont even look at me. usually he'd stare and look back but this time he didn't.

we never made it to friends even. both of us were too scared to go there. there was too much of a pull and push. when i was brave enough, he pulled away and when he was ready, it was me who pulled away.

Posted by piranhaparadise
why don't you give him your number or email ? with a note saying
have a chat over coffee/drink sometime...
if you are too shy then just slip it in one of his folders or books.

we run and hide when we get too close. we talk but we cant be around each other for long because it gets quiet. its like that for a year. it is sad but i think ive pushed this too much. its prob not meant to happen for us.

i would just come right out and ask can we hang out.. cancer men love feamles who take the lead.... one time i posted on my facebook so many people want to be treated right and then when someone comes along who does they push them away.. and my cancer male commented and said is there pushing you away pull them with you..think about it... this is when i started to pursue him more and i got him now.... not w/o problems of course but i will rather have problems with him than be without him.

Posted by SEXYSHANA
i would just come right out and ask can we hang out.. cancer men love feamles who take the lead.... one time i posted on my facebook so many people want to be treated right and then when someone comes along who does they push them away.. and my cancer male commented and said is there pushing you away pull them with you..think about it... this is when i started to pursue him more and i got him now.... not w/o problems of course but i will rather have problems with him than be without him.

Hmmm i like this... my cancer girl wanted our relationship to happen so much that i gave in then when i started to tell her my feelings like i miss you and all that she starting pushing me away although she is the one who wants to know my feelings

Posted by Noosiekins

Posted by theleoman

Posted by SEXYSHANA
i would just come right out and ask can we hang out.. cancer men love feamles who take the lead.... one time i posted on my facebook so many people want to be treated right and then when someone comes along who does they push them away.. and my cancer male commented and said is there pushing you away pull them with you..think about it... this is when i started to pursue him more and i got him now.... not w/o problems of course but i will rather have problems with him than be without him.

Hmmm i like this... my cancer girl wanted our relationship to happen so much that i gave in then when i started to tell her my feelings like i miss you and all that she starting pushing me away although she is the one who wants to know my feelings

I think they're just like that. cuz mine, when I tell him that I love him, he said "don't get too addicted"

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This is what I'm talking about... you tell your man that you love him and his response is,"don't get too addicted"?(!) Doesn't that give you enough proof of your situation? Men are not like women. Women will often say things like that but mean something else. Men are not that complicated. Listen to him when he tells you things straight up. The chances are high that he really means it.

they rarely say i love you too or i miss you too as a direct response