I may have hurt or upset my cancer man

Hey there my fellow Cancers, quick question. I'm dating a Cancer man, I'm a Leo, I may have made him upset. I've gave him a sincere apology. I kinda bit off his head, I had no intentions of doing that, as shitty as it sounds, I went into attack mode and he happened to be on the phone with me. He hung up on me, and then I realized what a douche I was to him and immediately apologized. That's been about 3 days ago. Haven't heard from him. Please don't tell me I've lost him for good. We've been dating a couple of months already, nothing like this has happened. Any input?

Input : stop being a bitch

Posted by FantasyShell
Input : stop being a bitch

Lol that was the first and last time. I just hope he understands I'm human as I understand his moods.

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Posted by TyTy99
Hey there my fellow Cancers, quick question. I'm dating a Cancer man, I'm a Leo, I may have made him upset. I've gave him a sincere apology. I kinda bit off his head, I had no intentions of doing that, as shitty as it sounds, I went into attack mode and he happened to be on the phone with me. He hung up on me, and then I realized what a douche I was to him and immediately apologized. That's been about 3 days ago. Haven't heard from him. Please don't tell me I've lost him for good. We've been dating a couple of months already, nothing like this has happened. Any input?

go blow him and make him a sandwich

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Only if it was that easy

Posted by Arielle83
Why did u get mad at him?

Over what?

It was a combination of alot of different situations/emotions kinda built up, not just with him, with work, home.. Stuff like that.. It was my fault. And I did apologize.

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Posted by FantasyShell
Input : stop being a bitch

Lol that was the first and last time. I just hope he understands I'm human as I understand his moods.

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Cancers tend to retreat into their shell when upset, confused, hurt, overwhelmed, etc.

Call him. It will go to vm. Leave him a message telling him that you are sorry, you care about him deeply, and understand if he needs some time to be alone and away from you. Assure him that your not going anywhere.

Then, and this is the hard part, you need to give him his space. Don't call, txt, etc.

He will contact you when he is ready. You haven't lost him. If he cares about you at all, he will call you when he is ready.

Posted by 91crbby

Posted by TyTy99

Posted by 91crbby

Posted by TyTy99
Hey there my fellow Cancers, quick question. I'm dating a Cancer man, I'm a Leo, I may have made him upset. I've gave him a sincere apology. I kinda bit off his head, I had no intentions of doing that, as shitty as it sounds, I went into attack mode and he happened to be on the phone with me. He hung up on me, and then I realized what a douche I was to him and immediately apologized. That's been about 3 days ago. Haven't heard from him. Please don't tell me I've lost him for good. We've been dating a couple of months already, nothing like this has happened. Any input?

go blow him and make him a sandwich

Only if it was that easy

how do you look like

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5'2, 152 lbs, yes thick.. Hispanic, thick long black hair, sleeved out, tattoo addiction... Why?

Posted by LadyNeptune

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Posted by FantasyShell
Input : stop being a bitch

Lol that was the first and last time. I just hope he understands I'm human as I understand his moods.

Cancers tend to retreat into their shell when upset, confused, hurt, overwhelmed, etc.

Call him. It will go to vm. Leave him a message telling him that you are sorry, you care about him deeply, and understand if he needs some time to be alone and away from you. Assure him that your not going anywhere.

Then, and this is the hard part, you need to give him his space. Don't call, txt, etc.

He will contact you when he is ready. You haven't lost him. If he cares about you at all, he will call you when he is ready.

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I've read that, and I hope so. I left him a long heart felt text message stating I wasng going anywhere, I'm afraid if I call him, I'd be smothering him... :/

I'm a gemini lady dating a cancer man and I've never gone off on him/yelled at him or anything like that but most of the times we fight he usually says it's my fault. He always gives me the silent treatment for a day or so after we argue. I'm a communicator so I like to solve things then and there but he's the complete opposite. He has to have space to calm down or else he'll end up saying something he'll regret later. I think that holds true for most cancer men. Just give him his space.. I'm guessing he hasn't responded to you? I'd recommend calling him just once and leaving him the voicemail like LadyNeptune said. I don't think it's smothering, I think it will be more heartfelt than a text will perhaps. Good luck!

Posted by geminisyndrome
I'm a gemini lady dating a cancer man and I've never gone off on him/yelled at him or anything like that but most of the times we fight he usually says it's my fault. He always gives me the silent treatment for a day or so after we argue. I'm a communicator so I like to solve things then and there but he's the complete opposite. He has to have space to calm down or else he'll end up saying something he'll regret later. I think that holds true for most cancer men. Just give him his space.. I'm guessing he hasn't responded to you? I'd recommend calling him just once and leaving him the voicemail like LadyNeptune said. I don't think it's smothering, I think it will be more heartfelt than a text will perhaps. Good luck!

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