Cancer men make great Husbands?

Scorpio girl asking.
I always read upon this but never fully grsaped why.
The cancer I was with was super romantic, but sometimes I fear if it would still be the same 10 years or 5 years or 7 years down the road.
Anyone married to cancers?

Yes, we are the best forget the rest!

I'm not married but I'm sure we do for the right person.

Posted by MiZLeo
We were together for 7 years b4 getting married and he didn't turn abusive until after we were married btw. You'd think you'd know someone after 7 years but nope. 12 years down the drain.

We all know your one sided sob story now. He is evil, you were an angel and all that.

Please don't pollute every thread with this nonsense.

Posted by MiZLeo

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by MiZLeo
We were together for 7 years b4 getting married and he didn't turn abusive until after we were married btw. You'd think you'd know someone after 7 years but nope. 12 years down the drain.

We all know your one sided sob story now. He is evil, you were an angel and all that.

Please don't pollute every thread with this nonsense.

Never claimed to be an angel. But he was abusive....still is. If you know my story then you'd know my current BF has a moon in cancer and I have a lot of friends who are cancers. I was just letting the OP know my experience in being married to one. Ya'll are not perfect so don't pretend to be. Neither am I but I never claim to be! Love how you dismiss someone who has been abused tho......real sensitive there cancer. Such a winner. Who wouldn't want to marry someone like that.

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I only said that these stories are one sided because we don't know the other person's perspective or what actually happened except what you tell us. I am not questioning whether this person was abusive or not nor do I think Cancers cannot be abusive. But repeating this in every thread about Cancers also holds out the perspective that we are all bad which is certainly not the case.

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by MiZLeo

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by MiZLeo
We were together for 7 years b4 getting married and he didn't turn abusive until after we were married btw. You'd think you'd know someone after 7 years but nope. 12 years down the drain.

We all know your one sided sob story now. He is evil, you were an angel and all that.

Please don't pollute every thread with this nonsense.

Never claimed to be an angel. But he was abusive....still is. If you know my story then you'd know my current BF has a moon in cancer and I have a lot of friends who are cancers. I was just letting the OP know my experience in being married to one. Ya'll are not perfect so don't pretend to be. Neither am I but I never claim to be! Love how you dismiss someone who has been abused tho......real sensitive there cancer. Such a winner. Who wouldn't want to marry someone like that.

I only said that these stories are one sided because we don't know the other person's perspective or what actually happened except what you tell us. I am not questioning whether this person was abusive or not nor do I think Cancers cannot be abusive. But repeating this in every thread about Cancers also holds out the perspective that we are all bad which is certainly not the case.

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You're the one interested in a.cappy right?..how's that going?

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Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by MiZLeo

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by MiZLeo
We were together for 7 years b4 getting married and he didn't turn abusive until after we were married btw. You'd think you'd know someone after 7 years but nope. 12 years down the drain.

We all know your one sided sob story now. He is evil, you were an angel and all that.

Please don't pollute every thread with this nonsense.

Never claimed to be an angel. But he was abusive....still is. If you know my story then you'd know my current BF has a moon in cancer and I have a lot of friends who are cancers. I was just letting the OP know my experience in being married to one. Ya'll are not perfect so don't pretend to be. Neither am I but I never claim to be! Love how you dismiss someone who has been abused tho......real sensitive there cancer. Such a winner. Who wouldn't want to marry someone like that.

I only said that these stories are one sided because we don't know the other person's perspective or what actually happened except what you tell us. I am not questioning whether this person was abusive or not nor do I think Cancers cannot be abusive. But repeating this in every thread about Cancers also holds out the perspective that we are all bad which is certainly not the case.

You're the one interested in a.cappy right?..how's that going?

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Not going anywhere. I am fed up.

Do cancer men prefer women that are homemakers maybe with some work of their own or full on career women? Would a woman absorbed in her career scare them off?
I'm a cancer female so I love being a homemaker it's very natural to me and I do have ambitions/ goals I work toward but so many men these days expect women to grind like they do so I'm curious.

Posted by CalmCrab22
Do cancer men prefer women that are homemakers maybe with some work of their own or full on career women? Would a woman absorbed in her career scare them off?
I'm a cancer female so I love being a homemaker it's very natural to me and I do have ambitions/ goals I work toward but so many men these days expect women to grind like they do so I'm curious.

I honestly think it can go either way, personally I think it should be the lady's choice how she wants to give form to her life.

@incandescentcancer
So from the male prospective you wouldn't walk from a woman that thought you should be the bread winner & she'll keep the home & help make ends meet or add a little $ to the mix?
Or walk from a woman that set out to make as much or more than you?

My father is a Cancer. From my mom's point of view, he wasn't a very loving or warm husband, but he was a very loving father. Then again, my mom is a Virgo, and Virgos make everyone unhappy.

I have a scorpio friend who was married to a cancer man and she left him because he became complacent in their relationship, as well as just a lazy bugger in general. Their birth charts, after I looked into them, were incompatible as fuck, though, so....