is it love or lust? - aquarius & cancer

Is it love or lust?

it's been around 10 years we contacting each others. He is a cancer and im an aquarius.
We've met about 4-5 times. he treat me nicely and tbh im in love with him since our first met.
our relationship goes strong and i feel comfortable, really.

we never really confess seriously about our feeling so im confuse. but we do enjoy our time together.
i even had sex with him and i feel no shy to show my naked body and he keep complimenting my body and all that.
as i know, cancer is such a caring person, so i dont know if he care because he love me or it's his nature.

the thing is, we keep on talking about sex, sexting.
other than that, we share all things and i bet we got no secrets to hide.
how to know if he love me or he's just want to be with me because of lust?
is it something usual for cancer to get attracted with aquarius because of lust?

should i really confess to him that i love him because i want to make it straight and be honest about my feeling.
it is not all about lust, for me. i really in love with him, his flaws and everything .

should i ask him, his real intention to stick around with me all this while ..
how should i ask?

he said before that im special, but there's no more further explanation and he want me to look for the hints.
im stuck and confuse. i dont know what to do. please help 😢

ya. im confused between libra and cancer.

cancer is my first crush and we still contacting each other.
libra is my first love and i already try to forget him.
it's quite complicated as both are nice but im totally give up with my libra and
move on with what i've for now.

=P

dont take my post as a joke, because i really need your help.
i dont really enjoy sex if that person doesnt love me at all..

Sorry to say but he's just looking for sex. If you want commitment from a man, don't have sex with them b4 you know they love you. It's a great way to weed out those who just want sex and to take the time to get to know each other. Another problem with having sex too soon is the way it intensifies feelings. You don't want to take it to that place before you know the feelings are reciprocated.

Ive just started dating a cancer man, and oooohhhhh myyy it is an amazing connection! At least to me it is. He is so passionate and caring. I have never met such a wonderful guy. 🙂 Our connection may be this strong because of my water moon, Im not sure.

I hope the best for you & really hope that he isnt using you.

Do cancer men use women just for sex? I thought that wasnt a cancer trait? (obviously men will be men, but overall...)

its not all about sexting guys

10 years, on and off . talk about every single thing.

he cried in front of me because of his ex gf died.

he's really such a caring person but , very demanding.

i dont 24/7 sexting with him.

i enjoy our conversation, he do some jokes and even telling me about his sickness and probs.

i guess, he trust me well, so i deeply know his flaws and secret.

thats why i love him so much if only he could notice that i want him more than just a friend.

Posted by Este8
Sorry to say but he's just looking for sex. If you want commitment from a man, don't have sex with them b4 you know they love you. It's a great way to weed out those who just want sex and to take the time to get to know each other. Another problem with having sex too soon is the way it intensifies feelings. You don't want to take it to that place before you know the feelings are reciprocated.

thanks for this.. im about to cry now. if only he know that im truly in love with him... i dont know what else i can do... even he's sometimes can be so mean, but i do love him. a lot. 😢

Posted by ScarletLovers

Posted by Este8
Sorry to say but he's just looking for sex. If you want commitment from a man, don't have sex with them b4 you know they love you. It's a great way to weed out those who just want sex and to take the time to get to know each other. Another problem with having sex too soon is the way it intensifies feelings. You don't want to take it to that place before you know the feelings are reciprocated.

thanks for this.. im about to cry now. if only he know that im truly in love with him... i dont know what else i can do... even he's sometimes can be so mean, but i do love him. a lot. 😢

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I've cried in my beer over a man too. It really sucks when you pin your hopes on the wrong cowboy. From my experiences, I've learned it really is better to hold off on sex b4 you are in a committed relationship b/c what is happening to you has happened to me & all my girlfriends. A man should have a title for you - girlfriend/wife - before you take it to a sexual place. Unless you are just looking for sex but you gotta be clear in yourself that that's all you want b/c bottom line, it's your heart on the line. Men know what to do & chase after what they want. It's up to you to say what you're willing to accept and don't accept the crumbs. Some men just want sex and emotional support but don't want to commit to you because among other things it keeps THEIR options open. I know this sucks but this too shall pass. Experience is the best teach if we're willing to learn. Want a committed man? Don't waste your time on men who aren't courting you and letting their intentions known.