is there any postive stories about long term cance

We here all the questions about cancer men being emotional ..sulking...disappearing... are there positive stories about long term area relationships? What did you do to make it work knowing our ways?

Posted by Rachelannthepisces

Posted by Libralicious72
I've spent the past 2 years deciphering my Cancer man, only to find whilst he is complex, one you've 'cracked the code', so to speak, he's not that complicated after all... :o)

Once you understand a Cancer guy, they're really non of things people describe them as...

Trey, i've read a couple of your responses to other peoples posts and i've found you to be such a positive and helpful guy... I wish more of them would listen to your words of wisdom!

I try to listen to his words of wisdom, but I get confused because then people including you (not saying that offensively you've been very helpful) say something different. Like Trey told me that even though my Cancer doesn't reply to me he'll still appreciate me texting him and then you and others say to not say anything to him at all. So I'm confused lol 😢

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Oh lord rachel I'm in that same conflict as far as texting and giving him the silent treatment. I say you really just clear your mind of other's ideas and JUST BE YOURSELF. Because once the butterflies calm down and the new relationship smell goes away, you're going to be yourself anyways and if it lasted that long just for him to lose interest then, what's the point?

@rachel in my personal opinion, in order for me to move on I need to be 100% certain it's over I would message him and if he responds, just genuinely catch up with how things are going with him. If he doesn't respond, now you have certainty.

Iwill is the queen of hijacking posts lol.

We are really not that hard to understand..we just need support..reassurance lots..lol honesty ..love and affection ..