Cancer Man/Lover disappeared /Blocked from media

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by JJ141214 on Wednesday, January 7, 2015 and has 12 replies.

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@JJ141214
11 Years

I had a whirlwind romance with a cancer man who told me he was in love with me.We have known each other for over a year. Things where getting serious and I wasn't completely honest about my past and I held information from him . He slowly started to detached by being short with text and availability. In my irritation sent him an angry text pretty much accusing him of playing games and that I was going to block him from all social media (I did ) but then regretted it and unblocked him..... to my surprise he then blocked me and its not answering his phone ...i haven't heard from him in 1 week.... have I lost him for good—? is there anything I can do to get him to respond.... is a friendship out of the equation—I have texted him like everyday ...called ...left him messages....I am scared I have lost him .....please any cancer man ....shed some light...I need to know if I should wait or give myself closure.... going out of my mind....

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@Namy
11 YearsCancer

Posted by JJ141214
I had a whirlwind romance with a cancer man who told me he was in love with me.We have known each other for over a year. Things where getting serious and I wasn't completely honest about my past and I held information from him . He slowly started to detached by being short with text and availability. In my irritation sent him an angry text pretty much accusing him of playing games and that I was going to block him from all social media (I did ) but then regretted it and unblocked him..... to my surprise he then blocked me and its not answering his phone ...i haven't heard from him in 1 week.... have I lost him for good—? is there anything I can do to get him to respond.... is a friendship out of the equation—I have texted him like everyday ...called ...left him messages....I am scared I have lost him .....please any cancer man ....shed some light...I need to know if I should wait or give myself closure.... going out of my mind....

Why did you block him, if you knew you'd regret this much? what was your game plan? That he'd wait till you're ready to unblock him? Just wait, he's playing your game.

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@JJ141214
11 Years

@Nanny..... I am Scorpio girl ...and my impatience got the best of me..... guess not used to someone being hot and cold and it scared me...I tend to make rash decisions as well based on emotions ...and I guess cancers and scorpions are similar in many ways and we have vivid imagination and we can created a fictitious scenario and believe it and turn out to be just in our head..... and we make the fatal mistake to act upon these vain imaginations ? .....thats what I did .....

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@JJ141214
11 Years

@Arrielle ...secretive....yes to a fault.....I don't disclose everything in a platter on the first go.... especially if is something I'm not too particularly proud of....I do eventually but I have to feel a level of safety..... high maintenance....I dont know I guess it depends on what..... loL but I guess yes I don't do well with one word answers...

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@Este8
13 Years1,000+ Posts

The chickens always come home to roost. That's why it never pays to withhold important information. And if there's a whiff of any man hanging around you, your typical Cancer male will be gone like a fart in the wind. Games about when you're not being honest and women rarely win these games. Next time, realize that honesty is the only policy if you're going to move forward with a man.

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@JJ141214
11 Years

So this is soooooo weird! Just now for a brief moment he unblocked me on whatsapp and check my last messages which just asked him if we could talk ....then unblocked again.... so obviously he just checked on me.... please someone tell me that this is a good sign that at least he is thinking about me—

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@JJ141214
11 Years

I have done wrong..... throw my hands up.....I have never lied to him... as when he asked me I told the truth ...with my head burried in my hands but I told the truth. Where I went wrong was when I withheld that information and also when I acted rashly and blocked him and harsh with my words... I need advice on how to make this right— Should I let him come to me ...or should I keep reaching out to make amends...I m not to proud to pursue him ...if is to right a wrong a..but I am unsure of the best approach.... it the least I dont want to loose his friendship ..because he is that amazing!!I need the best approach to make him want to re consider ....but if I have crossed the point of no return I need to know so that I force myself to let go....

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@JJ141214
11 Years

@fullwater Pisces.....I pray there is way to rectify this ....i can't imagine not having him in my life a...we are both musicians and we had so many goals together as well as memories...___

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@fullwaterpisces
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by JJ141214
@fullwater Pisces.....I pray there is way to rectify this ....i can't imagine not having him in my life a...we are both musicians and we had so many goals together as well as memories...___

I really hope you can fix this... i lost hope... and i been crushed ever since, I love her dearly,we had so much in common and bla bla bla... but cancer are slow and patience, and for me 6 months is a long time and sign she is not coming back to me... 😢

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@Stihl46
11 Years1,000+ Posts

You tree trunking Scorpios hide schit all the time never hide anything from a cancer man we will find out. Yes I know about Scorpio women acting before they think.

Will he cut you off completely? Maybe or he may not. I'm a Cancer man when a woman that I'm close to p*sses me off I will use emotional jabs. I know how to cut to the core.