TrueTaur57
@TrueTaur57
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Is this a confused Cancer guy?
Well one thing for sure... he is attacted to you so you are not just a friend. I think he's just scared/being cautious. Don't dwell on what he says, but instead look toward his actions as those will tell the truth. Just keep being consistent but don't say you love him or anything else like that... let him think you are fine with taking things slow so he can bring his walls down. This will be frustrating and slow paced with 1step forward, then 2 steps back. Just remind yourself of the big picture and understand this is what he needs from you to be patient and reassure him your love but in actions only until he's ready.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeYes I am the culprit - because I love him. But he is clingy - I know how much he adores me. 🙂
If a person told me they loved me every five minutes that would freak me out and I would run
You sound insane. Like future complete drama
No thanks
Posted by MoonbutterThanks moonbutter. It was an unusual behavior so I thought to ask. Well I won't confess love anymore until and unless he speaks up. And that might be the best to happen to both of us. But he gave me a nice night 🙂
Well one thing for sure... he is attacted to you so you are not just a friend. I think he's just scared/being cautious. Don't dwell on what he says, but instead look toward his actions as those will tell the truth. Just keep being consistent but don't say you love him or anything else like that... let him think you are fine with taking things slow so he can bring his walls down. This will be frustrating and slow paced with 1step forward, then 2 steps back. Just remind yourself of the big picture and understand this is what he needs from you to be patient and reassure him your love but in actions only until he's ready.
Posted by TrueTaur57? That's good... please keep me posted ?Posted by MoonbutterThanks moonbutter. It was an unusual behavior so I thought to ask. Well I won't confess love anymore until and unless he speaks up. And that might be the best to happen to both of us. But he gave me a nice night 🙂
Well one thing for sure... he is attacted to you so you are not just a friend. I think he's just scared/being cautious. Don't dwell on what he says, but instead look toward his actions as those will tell the truth. Just keep being consistent but don't say you love him or anything else like that... let him think you are fine with taking things slow so he can bring his walls down. This will be frustrating and slow paced with 1step forward, then 2 steps back. Just remind yourself of the big picture and understand this is what he needs from you to be patient and reassure him your love but in actions only until he's ready.
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