Is this a positive reaction from a cancerian

So In a moment of madness 3 weeks ago. I told him a bunch of messed up stuff. I totally went overboard for no reason and messed up my wonderful 5 year relationship.

And then I tried calling and texting and emailing and apologising and he didn't reply.

So last week he replied saying he gave me the impression he was all those things. And he apologised for that and said we can never ever be together again. Also he doesn't want to speak to me.

So after a few more days of begging me to see me he said no cause he doesn't love me anymore but is still attracted to me.

So I continued begging and he said ok he will see me when he wants to....but he will see me.


Is that a positive reaction....does that mean he wants to make me stew before we get back together.

In the meanwhile....i keep sending grovelling texts and emails. Telling him how wonderful he was.

Sometimes he replies with sarcastic like don't fix this go work on the relationships you claimed I destroyed. ..etc

I love him so much I would do anything to get him back

Heh capricorns are great at destroying relationships

Posted by cappygirl11
So In a moment of madness 3 weeks ago. I told him a bunch of messed up stuff. I totally went overboard for no reason and messed up my wonderful 5 year relationship.

And then I tried calling and texting and emailing and apologising and he didn't reply.

So last week he replied saying he gave me the impression he was all those things. And he apologised for that and said we can never ever be together again. Also he doesn't want to speak to me.

So after a few more days of begging me to see me he said no cause he doesn't love me anymore but is still attracted to me.

So I continued begging and he said ok he will see me when he wants to....but he will see me.


Is that a positive reaction....does that mean he wants to make me stew before we get back together.

In the meanwhile....i keep sending grovelling texts and emails. Telling him how wonderful he was.

Sometimes he replies with sarcastic like don't fix this go work on the relationships you claimed I destroyed. ..etc

I love him so much I would do anything to get him back

heyyyyyyyyy...let's not forget it was a 5 year relationship in which he didn't bother to introduce you to his family/friends

if you said those words/things, it means they were there...in all those 5 years...so...stop romanticising it...it wasn't that good...

you are just scared of being alone/single/stepping into the unknown. it happens after a long term relationship...

stop focusing on him and focus on you...take a sheet of paper and write down the +s and the -s of all these 5 years and then you'll see things with much more clarity...

stop texting...you don't even give him space to miss you...

No.
You not only burned the bridge, but blew up all the roads and alternate routes.
The part about not introducing to family/friends is a little odd and atypical.
Move on.

There was so much more positives that negatives. We truly had something special

Posted by cappygirl11
There was so much more positives that negatives. We truly had something special

we'll talk about that in half a year...