Ive got a question for cancers...

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Eleventh
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Please be honest because I need to know

In a lot of the jobs I have worked in I have worked with a cancer that always has something against me, they will always try and intimidate me or say things to belittle me and make me feel like shit...

I'm the happy go lucky guy at work that everyone likes, the staff parties don't start until I arrive.

All the cancers I have worked with are super stress heads and it's like they see me all happy go lucky and they come for me...

The type of job that I do I always have to be happy and smiling and I find it really hard when these cancers come up to me and fuck me around like that.

Can anyone give me an insight on what's going on?

I hate it when people intimidate me, I'm not afraid of them, I just don't like people painting themselves as something stupid.

Anyways please give me insights

Literally every problem I have in work places has been from cancers
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I work really hard though, I do my job well and with a smile and I look forward to coming into work.

This cancer guy has a look on his face that he wants to kill people. Then he acts all sweet and acts innocent and ditzy and then he turns and acts like a jerk to me and this is what all the cancers I work with have in common

. He's my supervisor and he's always going out for ciggerette breaks, even right before I'm supposed to have my break after working for 5 hours he will have the audacity to say " oh babe I'm just gonna have a cig before you go on your break" for some reason it's like he's playing games with my head.

Like last night I went out for a cig and I had a big head spin and I was just collecting myself and he says "are you ok babe' and I'm like yeh I'm fine, thinking "oh he's concerned" and then he's like "you need to snap out of it I need you to be on the ball" mind you I carried the whole bar pretty much by myself while he's up stairs hanging out with his boyfrkend. I'm gonna snap I just know it
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I work in a gay bar, we are all really close I'm best friends with the bosses and everyone loves me not to mention I do the most work and I work even after I've finished I stay back a few hours, it sounds crazy I know but my train doesn't come till 5am and I finish at 3:30 so I stick around and help the bosses count tills or help the gambling girls count their money.

I remember when we were at our first staff party I remember him coming up to me and saying "everyone loves you" and he said "Robbie loves you" he's my manager and I remember thinking it was weird for him to say that because it came out of nowhere...

I think maybe he's really competitive.....

The thing is he's not consistent with his temperament , and I can't act fake around people , this Sunday is my bosses birthday and he's buying a huge bag of coke, ketamine and caps and he's been planning this with me for ages and now I'm scared to go because I might get fucked up and all my anger issuses might come out and I might beat the shit out of this guy and make a fool of myself ,
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When a Cancer belittles you, if you get defensive, they'll manipulate it to make you feel bad. Aquarius on the other hand, is always right and never does anything wrong. So try to agree and say yeah I am like that, it's bad isn't it? But don't say it sarcastically and see what happens.

With regards to his breaks and whatever, he probably takes more, but he also probably works twice as many hours. So stop looking at it that way because your probably giving off jealous and resentful vibes. Water signs pick up on that stuff.