My guy - need insight

Hey everyone how're you all?? My current beau is a Sag but he has a cancer asc and cancer moon and his dominant planet is the moon too. I reckon he's more cancer than even he knows minus the mood swings but I make up for that as my sun is in the 4th house, cancer's.

Anway, I'd be grateful for a little info as to what is a typical cancerian thing to do such as giving me a lovebite before he goes away for the weekend, hmmm I felt like it was a marking his territory type thing would that be close?? And then this I want to marry you and then backing off and actually retracting the sentiment?? How about him making the same sort of commitment say last week but not saying marriage just "I want to be with you and this time I mean it" and being sooo intense and then this week well it's not the same...

And then he wants me to dress up for the bedroom a la sexy stuff but then kind of gets weird when he sees you did and the connection is lost and the sex is "off" I am deeply hurt with this and tell him he didn't like the outfit. He says he did but nobody ever did anything like that for him before and he just didn't know how to react— Despite knowing I would be lying on my bed trussed up like a turkey waiting on him— And the fact he wanted the works?? Suspenders, stockings etc.

He knows it hurt me, he knows I'm hurt and he is avoiding me just a little waiting for me to calm down I guess. But thing is, I know what he's thinking and feeling at any one time. I don't know how I know I just do. I know when he's lying but I rarely accuse him of this because he will never admit it.

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The thing is, this latest incident has shocked me and wounded me deeply, is it cancerian?? Or is that his cap in venus?? Cuz he has mars in scorpio so I wouldn't have thought sexy underwear would put him off—

Confused is an understatement. Maybe it's just him. But I tell you it's almost put me off sex with him, how can I face that kind of rejection again?? I mean he was in and out of mine in under one hour, he had other things to do but still. And also the on/off feelings is that Cancerian?? I thought it was just cappy's that did that?? He is calling me tomorrow but I can't even face talking to him right now.

I would appreciate some advice since he does have a lot of cancerian traits, how do I handle this— Thanx in advance. :-)

No no no no a thought just popped into my head. It had better not be this, could it be he was not amused at the size of the vibro I had been using— Could that have bruised his very fragile ego enough to completely put him off kilter??

He broke up with me once, said I deserved better because he had a couple of bad episodes when he couldn't finish the job. If he broke up with me because of that this scenario would make sense to me. Anyone agree??

Holy moly he is one complicated man, his ego does need feeding constantly but what about mine?? If it is this do I say it?? No I guess I couldn't so I'm still stuck with how to handle it.

okay i'm a caner now we say things truthful but we dont mean to hurt anyone like virgo do its hard for us to control and another thing cancers are the biggest closet freak and we have crazy fantasy about things thats prob wat he wants to do but the outfit turning him off u guys shud go out and shop for things that he likes u to wear behind closed doors and his statement he didnt mean to hurt u he just want to make his happy friend down there happy lol

o yes u do need to feed cancers ego becuz they r the most insecure sign i feel like that sumtimes thats understandable just feed his ego and dont take his comments to serious

he is a SAG and yet you are asking about every sign EXCEPT sag - you need to understand that he is a sag and that is why he is acting like a SAG. He is not a cancer or a capricorn - he is a sag.Bottom line. And all of this is SAG behavior. SAG SAG SAG SAG SAG.

thanks