Saggies and their Big Mouthes

Do Saggie's typically say things without being aware that they have offended someone?

My Poor Sag Granny has done this in the past 😢

She was a little sad yesterday but I think I cheered her up. I made see that its just in her nature to be frank and straightforward 🙂

She's a true Saggie (1st decan I think, maybe 2 decan ...) She gets into some trouble because she always says exactly what she is thinking. Whatever pops into her heads comes out of her mouth ... before she thinks. She's just really honest about stuff, well, at least the she sees it. She the type of woman that will say, "you look horrible today, no man would look at you twice" and then in a few minutes, she will say, "if you change the style of your hair, you will improve your appearance.

She doesn't hurt my feelings but because I am sort of like her in many ways 🙂

But she tends to hurt the feelings of other family memebers who take things to heart. My family is made up of water, earth and air along with some cusps here and there so there's no real "fire" but my Grandmother and myself. If there are any on my mom's side, there's very few on then she and myself.

I'm on the Saggie cusp, so I can be very quick to say things too and then I wonder "what did I say wrong?" It would be nice to know what was said wrong right then and there instead being angry with the person.

The ones I know tell the goods of others often.

I definately say things without thinking. I have become far more tactful than when I was younger, however. (I was the Chewy granola bar kid.)

*correction, after some thought.
It's not always that I say things without thinking. I often spend alot of time thinking about what to say, actually. It's just that maybe because I'm not sensitive or easily offended, I assume other people aren't either (when in reality some people may find me too blunt or brutally honest.)

''The ones I know tell the goods of others often''

Found this to be true also - forever optimists

That's how my best friend is. He says some stuff sometimes that's just makes me wanna say "Damn dude, stfu before I shut you the f up." even though he probably doesn't mean it.

I've also noticed that with some Sagi's if you're pretty blunt with them they get upset even though they themselves are pretty blunt.

I've also noticed that with some Sagi's if you're pretty blunt with them they get upset even though they themselves are pretty blunt.

I've noticed that too LOL!!!! I guess the cappy side of me allows me to take it and give it.

a lot of sagittarians i know have a really good heart but dunno where to put it most of the time and rarely show their true tune to their heart. they compliment well and mean well when you most need it, but then arent shy to be straight-forward with you with-out follow ups. they dont expect you to be annoyed/upset about what they said, they meant it and they wouldnt take it back if they could. that doesnt mean they dont care how you feel they just wished you felt the same as they did when they said it. sagittarians arent the best with emotions but that doesnt mean they dont feel it too. i think they feel bad secretly deep down under all that sagginess. dont you?

honestly , my experiences w/sag are so not what everyone is talking about ...

i dont believe that they have big mouths, at all

I guess the cappy side of me allows me to take it and give it.

yeah, i'm very close with a cusper and his cappy side filters the sag side. MOST of the time.

as far as taking what he dishes out, still a little work needed in that department. and not a very good apologizer or an admitting i am wronger either.

Both my dad and his mom are Sags. Do they say the most offensive/inappropriate things ever sometimes?! Absolutely. It's never meant in a negative way, they just forget to not say everything they think. They are both super opinionated, and have the unique ability to speak so loudly, that the phone needs to be approx. one foot from my head while chatting.


Best dad example I can give you:

Wake up in the morning. Monster pimple on the forehead. So bummed. Here comes dad.

He says "WOW! That's a giant zit on your forehead!" and your like "Thanks, I was completely unaware of the second head growing there."


My poor dad. House full of ladies. Gemini wife and daughter, and my Pisces self always pissed at him. 🙂

ok Hi Guys

Can l add a problem lm dealing with regarding a sagi! at the moment ? it's related to alove triangle,and it's really annoying me but l feel l have figured out how to deal with him now . He is 54 Music Manager in another Country , were men are the Rulers , and l am a 38yr old Woman Cancerian from the UK , My problem is l Had this connection with this college of His only young 24 and she is Russian Taurian .

Well here how it goes Shes meet me while l was Holidaying in Egypt last year at christmas with my Fiance, having the most amazing time, drinks following ,last day Boxing day, l stayed up late with a few residents that became friends over my two weeks there. we all went to the bar downed lots of drinks and a singer caught all the mens eye, all of them saying WOW! she's hot! l shouted Yep and GAY! , instinct don' know never saw her in all the time l was there, but apparently she sings in the bar at the Hotel every-night. she came over towards me and l Sh*t myself because l thought she was going to say how dare you say that about me,but she didn't she sat on the arm of my chair and held my hand ,can u imagine!! l was like what now .
Well after that alarming engagement , we had drinks till 4ish in the morning ,thats when l meet this older guy ,she said it was her manager, l thought ok ,but he kept saying to her "marry me" quiet weird !! my guy came to get me and l went to bed with him ,l was pi**ed and also l was glad as she tried to kiss me and followed me like a lost child,until my fiance came for me.

I had the most amazing and funniest last night , compliments of the booze l may add well after that later that morning Hangover included she was waiting for me outside breakfast , and again wanted to spend the last few hours with me following me ,and asking if she could hang out ,although l tried to brush her off l just thought what the hell were leaving in 3 hours so she can follow me to get a sweater from another hotel ,as a gift for my guy, problem as l was due to discover was that she wanted to sleep with me ! that was a shock!! ,ok now l was panicking, l just said no l am not that way, we talk for hours , and of course by the time l left she was all over me and crying, l eventually told her l would come back and we headed back to our hotel were my coach was waiting, and most importantly my man. anyways she text me for a whole month and phone calls were endless ,until l said l would come over to see her and l did in the New Year Feb ! Yes we ended up intimately!! l cannot believe l did it , but we were could not be separated, don't need to go into detail , l was falling and could not shake her!.
it was then l said don't you have a guy ! and she said yes u meet him, then it turned out to be this older Manager of hers. could not believe it!! he was so Ugly!! , . we kept in touch and phoned each other a lot but the deception and the clingy behavior got to me and l told her lets be friends , to which she went CRAZY !! to so ended our conversations excuse being l betrayed her, it was more like l could not handle her stalkish behavior.
My Problem with the sagi is he constantly would be hanging around me ,no Conversation just watching , was freaking me, then he would try and talk to me , but l felt like he was just trying to work me out ,because his girlfriend was all over me and he could not workout why. .. he told his close friends how he was feeling l could see my presence bothered him, but it was her not me that kept wanting closeness, it got so bad at one point , when l was watching her sing he would have maybe 4-5 men watching over me and glaring, l just had enough.

Whats so funny his he will say to me l like you ! and talk too me , which l know he was doing just to figure me out to find out my weakness , then run back and tell her everything. cheeky thing is he kept doing it , until l have now! worked out what he is doing, she always gets back to me with really angry texts saying why did you say XYZ... cannot believe he his behaving this way an

Way and it got so bad that when l left last time , and me and her are no longer together that way , but there is still a strong attraction and a lot of resentment on her part , which l have accepted now, but he continues to carry News!.

He recently showed her a text's l sent him regarding her and me , and thing's l said , only after he asked me . ,l told him me and her had an affair and she wanted it , saying to him basically u wanna know why she hates me this is why , he smiled and pretended he liked that about her, but l could see it was all front ,and it pretty much killed him ,as she will hold him sleep with him and in Public show her loyalty to him but she does not want him Sexually , that kills him to hear she wanted me so bad, so now he his doing what ever he can to kill any chance of her wanting to go near me again. Her friend from England went there end of August and she asked for me, but so she still likes me l sense that, but he ( Sagi) again even though its been two months since l was there was asking about me to her friend and saying l said this and that ,trying to inject more hate against me,he his on a mission to discredit me , as l do not care anymore ,but l obviously bother him that he wants to make her friends distrust me to . this Women apparently told him, she as not seen me since l was last there , and she did not want to get involved, basically he was trying to see if this woman was in contact with me!! he his so Snake like and presents smiles to your face , but then try's to destroy you with your own information ,by twisting things to this girl he his dotty about , he runs after her every whim , but she uses him like a slave because she can. she use to laugh about it to me, seriously cruel , but thats another reason l stopped seeing her, she was a control freak !! and he cannot see it. he as had to failed marriages, and he almost cryed ! his eyes out last time she said she wanted to leave ,asking me for advice.

My Question is , l am back their in three weeks , and l know he will come over and sit next to me , pretending nothing is wrong although he thought l would never show again, trying his stupid l am your friend tactics again.
Q . what shall l do , ? even though l am saying she is yours l will not talk with her no more , he will still be sniffing around me, it wreaks my Holiday , they work there l am a guest , yet he thinks l am his friend and he hovers over me every-time lm there!! he is like a Bumble Bee drives me CRA

CRAZY HELP!! can you Sagi tell me what to do .? sorry its so long winded. needed you guys to understand the full picture , although there is a lot of detail missing! he is acting like he is Obsessed with her, well he his except she plays on it and basiclly Bi - sexual.

Yup they do. My cousin is one and a dumb bitch. She talks mad shit. We never get along.

I went to North Carolina to see my mom and my sister invited this bitch knowing we don't get along.

She waas talking shit like a dumb alcholic drunk so I punched her in the face and fucked her up.

Boy did she learn her lesson LOL.

Point is they have big mouths and talk lots of shit.

Now when they fuck with the wrong person...they get fucked up 🙂

^^^ Wow.

sounds like Sag style nagging.

Hmmm I dunno I think I'm pretty tactful most of the time. Exception is when I have a few drinks...then I really should have a muzzle on.

I don't think we're nags.
Most of my friends are fellow sagittariuses (funny how that works) and they're all the farthest thing from nags: they're more like "to each their own." They just really don't worry much about what other people are doing - which is why I like them so much.

I do find myself getting naggy with my boyfriend though, which annoys me. Because he thinks because he's a soldier and spent a year in Iraq, he can bitch about the government for hours on end and swear really loudly in public. (He's a libra, so I'm confused as to why he's ok with making such scenes.) But I despise negativity so I'm constantly like "shhh." "shhhhhhhhhhhhhshh!" Kind of naggy I guess?

"And now most of the time I say nothing at all. I'm so scared I'm going to hurt their feelings, and I want to just hide from the world, and from all the people who love me."

Aw. 😢
I would say you absolutely do not have to hide from/be someone else around the people who do know you and love you because, they KNOW you. Plain and simple. They already accept who you are and know not to get offended because they know very well you're not saying things to hurt anyone's feelings - you're not evil. You are just brutally honest. Trust me, there are some people who appreciate that.
Chances are those more sensitive types are just not for you. Keep casual relationships with those who are easily offended. And maybe upon first meeting someone just feel them out before opening up all the way and getting too comfortable with the verbal diarrhea disorder that we Saggies seem to have. 🙂

Somehow, I think it just gives us character, and makes us all the more loveable to those who appreciate it.

Thats sooo true. My sister is a sag an says shit out loud an you know what? she gets it now she hurts my feelings becuase im a pisces so she learns to be nice with me. haha but other people its hilarious the stuff she says.

YES THEY HAVE BIG MOUTHS AND DIARRHEA OF THE MOUTH A LOT! My mom is a Sag and Boyyyyyy was it hard growing up under her cause She has a heart of Gold but can say some FOUL shieeeaaaatt. She still tries ti but I raise hell back with her and she still never learns. It's like they have no TACT at all. Bless their hearts!

Yeah it's pretty unfortunate for us that we have little/no tact.
But certainly more unfortunate for those who can't handle it.


*shrugs*

I'm sorry. I really don't give a shit what people think I'll say whatever the fuck I want. Can't take it? Your a pussy grow up🙂

"and they're all the farthest thing from nags: they're more like "to each their own." They just really don't worry much about what other people are doing - which is why I like them so much." Right. I could not give less of a shit what other people do.I really think everyones buss is their buss. The funny thing is tho with sags all the freedom and space we give other people, they never give back to us, unless they are another saggy I have noticed really. It's quite sad😢

Just had one more F.I.M.S (Foot in mouth Syndrome) moment...

There is this girl in our MBA programme who is very studious....everytime i see her she is with her books...and needless to say is amongst the top performers of our batch AFA grades are concerned.

We were sitting in the computer center along with a few other guys...and i for God knows what reason ended up asking her how many friends she had in our batch. And then how many "good" friends she had in our batch; to make matters worse.

She said she didnt have anyone close and then i realized 2 mins later that i had ended up hurting her. Fast forward...there is total silence in the lab...and she started sobbing...

Didnt know how to react....tried consoling her(as usual it made things worse and there was no point in justifying anything anyways)....

felt horribly mad at myself for screwing up yet again....but then as luck wud have it she realized i meant no harm and stopped sobbing.The dumb ass i am i was pissed at myself...and it showed in my behaviour....i told her i had no right to say something like this to her and was pissed at myself...she said it wasnt my fault...but i couldnt face her.

ironically funny in a way...!

Lol. Well you know you didn't have bad intentions.

Chicane, I know the situation and I feel so much sorry that you experienced it (once again).

Sometimes when rationalizing my escapes from people it comes to my mind "at least they are protected against my mouth and my TRUTH for a while".

You Are 56% Brutally Honest.

Cat/Rabbit is diplomatic.

You Are 36% Brutally Honest


HAHAHA!!! Well, theres a time and a place for everything 😄

You Are 68% Brutally Honest




Most of the time, you tell it like it is. Even if it's hard for people to hear.

Sometimes you hold back though, because you never want your honesty to be hurtful.

How Brutally Honest Are You?

I'm extremely blunt and I say whatever I want and most of the time I don't care. I like my Sag friends because they are the same way. We are rude and we like it

You Are 40% Brutally Honest




Honesty is nice, but only when it's convenient. You rather be nice than honest.

You figure it's important to be honest about the big stuff, but little lies never hurt anyone!

How Brutally Honest Are You?

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