need advice from cancer man

i am a cancer woman

but i have a question for the cancer man

if you felt a connection with a woman.

but you met in a professional situation

and its likely you wont see that person again, unless you go look for her

and you only communicate on a professional base

would you make an effort to change that into personal?

or is that moment (in this case two moments) not enough for you to try?

even if there was a very clear connection?

curious

Or would you mind if she made that effort

we are known for our traditional roles

meaning the cancer man likes to be THE man. and i loveee that

Me as a cancer woman AM the woman...i loveee it. i dont do it on purpose...it just really is me

but...........for some reason that doesnt mean at all that i shy away from trying to make contact

however....if the other doesnt make anyyyyyy approach

i am pretty much gone

in my case in about a month

there will be no connection at all professional wise

and then also no reason i can use to speak to him

dont get me wrong

i value his professional opinion

its not just to talk to him

but i am a person that looks for signs and through mail...reading ones emotions ....is just not existence. i believe you can only see this in person

in person? yep......its there...

but through mail..................lets just say...i am the skittle box exploded cancerian...and he is (which i also love though) the very gentleman polite reserved cancerian

but i cant read him this way

soooo that makes me think to just not do anything

but it feels very strongly that it would be a huge great thing missed

but i am DONT chase a man

i just wont