Need Cancerian Male advice, Heartbroken Pisces

Help! Confused about Cancer actions. My and my now ex have been off and on for 1.5 year. He obviously did his hide and seek game when we would argue or didnt like something I said. One time he stopped talking to me for 4 months and the other time for 3 weeks. The first time I worked hard to apologize and get him back because i believed other peoples input(a trusted friend who we are no longer friends) since our relationship is long distance. The second time he realized he was wrong and came looking for me. Hes always been very loving affectionate ive met all of his family on both sides weve traveled together ive visted him several times. However this last time he reached out and mind you went through his mom to get my number as me and his mom have a great relationship and talk 3x a weeke even when me and him were off. Well we got back together everything was like it was before we were planning our life lovey dovey planning out upcoming bday trips marriage kids whole schabang. Video calls late night convos everything when one day he says. Babe i have news. And me all excited asked what kind of new. He tells me he is pregnant and about to get married soon 😳. At first i thought it was a joke and played along like oh really how far along are you when is this wedding and he says a month and i ask subsquent questions which later makeme realize he is NOT joking. My heart sinks and I am totally confused. Instead of my initial reaction of going off, i congratualted asked him how he felt and told him godbless his new family blah blah blah. I asked him if they bern together for long he says no My question:

1. Why would he continue to look for me and make everything go back to normal. Create this illusion of something he wanted when he already had it?

2. How can he spend all day and night talking to me videoing even at night events n clubs with his friends etc.

3. We have always been open and honest why would he wait so late to say whats going on

4. Since I obviously lied about how happy I was for him. Ive been very uneasy. Should i tell him how hurt I am by this. Will it even matter or just drive him even further away since im surprised I havent been blocked by him yet. I also would have thought after breaking the news to me he would have felt safe to start posting stuff or changing his profile pic with his future wife and or baby but he has done neither.

A close mutual friends mentioned that he was unsure what was going on and was just as shocked as me but said it could have been a person he was not so serious about and had a slip up nd wants to take responsibility. But i dont believe that cuz most cancers dont seem like the fling type.



Thanks for advice

Cancer guys are a big pain in the *you know what* because their low confidence make them manipulate people to gain self esteem. They are low by nature and they will always have this tendency to be emotional parasites. And also because they are guys you can't just stop this stuff by becoming the strong emotional support the Cancer needs because THEY HAVE TO MAN UP BY THEMSELVES. A cancer guy will avoid this process tho, until everyone realise who they are and they are forced to do it.

So send him a very, very harsh and honest goodbye message and move on. Just tell him trough messages what a jerk it was and how much he hurt you but without using offensive language, just be honest and let it be a lesson for him. It my seem bad but it will do good for both, because he will hopefully get thetrigger she need to grow up and you can vent and move on. Then stop all comunication and avoid all his attempts to take control of you again, because he will come back and promise the moon and the stars if you start to show some backbone.

Find yourself a good man then, pisces is a sweet sign,you deserve someone that can take care of you not a kid that play you for his own interest.

Posted by AceOfFlames
Cancer guys are a big pain in the *you know what* because their low confidence make them manipulate people to gain self esteem. They are low by nature and they will always have this tendency to be emotional parasites. And also because they are guys you can't just stop this stuff by becoming the strong emotional support the Cancer needs because THEY HAVE TO MAN UP BY THEMSELVES. A cancer guy will avoid this process tho, until everyone realise who they are and they are forced to do it.

So send him a very, very harsh and honest goodbye message and move on. Just tell him trough messages what a jerk it was and how much he hurt you but without using offensive language, just be honest and let it be a lesson for him. It my seem bad but it will do good for both, because he will hopefully get thetrigger she need to grow up and you can vent and move on. Then stop all comunication and avoid all his attempts to take control of you again, because he will come back and promise the moon and the stars if you start to show some backbone.

Find yourself a good man then, pisces is a sweet sign,you deserve someone that can take care of you not a kid that play you for his own interest.

I’m a Cancer an I totally agree with this.

Don't just express how hurt you are also express your anger and move on. He has huge lessons to learn and you deserve better.

I wish you well.