New pisces gal!

Ive been with a cancer for 15 years, any questions ask away ? Currently having problems as i feel the need to swim away at last, but know him inside out, he has cancer mars and Taurus Venus, i have aeries Venus and sag mars, i finally think we should call it a day, love styles have proved to be too different and frustrating. We are very good friends though overall.

Does he go silent and ignore you. How long does it normally last?

/\ /\ /\ If that is the case then please break up with the guy. Don't be "that ho". 😉

Rabbit is referring to this in the Cap forum:

Posted by piscespoppy
Hi
Ive been reading different topics on this forum and would love to let you all know i have a strange fondness for caps, and a weird connection i have been reading about, but i find it so cool, i can feel it even through the internet..? Anyone else felt this before ? Im Aquarius moon Aries Venus and Sagittarius mars btw.

Sounds like the Fish is looking to cheat, errrrr, swim away.

I just typed out a reply and when i clicked post message it went on to my log in page, then i came back and all my reply's......gone!

Yes my husband ignores me if we have a row, 3 days is the norm, its peaceful..lol! then he will initiate a conversation and we talk and sort it out, then we are friends again, and his next line usually is "whats for dinner"

Rabbit , your comment made me chuckle so hard...i hadn't been intimate with my husband for 8 years until i asked for the divorce in Feb (tried to sort it out) and i never cheated on him and never would, i am very loyal tbh, i am just looking to get a job, a new place and some friends ect, new life hopefully.

Posted by Rabbit
Based on your the other thread you created today, I'm guessing you've grown bored and are looking to hop on some Cap dick and have created an excuse under the disguise of "differing love styles" to justify stepping out.

Or, the differing love styles have frustrated and irritated her so much, she is now bored and wants out?

To hop on a cap dick, that is.

My son is Capricorn which is initially why i find them interesting, we have a strange mental connection i could never fathom when he was growing up a s a child, hes 24 now, cheers me up when im sad, He works like a dog and then goes to the gym for and hour, never stops, he wants to be a wrestler, he is currently training in London every Sunday.

Me and hubby are good friends, that's why no sex for 8 years wasn't such a big problem, until i realized how long it had been and spoke to him about it, initially he came out with some lame excuse saying i said something about an ex which upset him, i lost it and got angry because it was something so petty, then he said what it really was, and yes our love styles are very different, that's just a fact, i am not making excuses.

LOL! I am on the Pisces and this board too at the moment you know Rabbit, just feeling my way around, im new to all this!

That,s why i asked for the divorce in Feb, i felt we were just too far apart by then, but he has been trying to make it work, im 46 btw.
Lots went on in between, his brother died, gave him space (obviously) also his mum previous to that, we nearly lost our house, just lots going on over the course of the the period and just forgot about each others emotional and physical needs i suppose. Obviously we have done a lot of talking, arguing and me staying at my mums, were friends now, but he does not want the divorce.

Go take a vacation somewhere and fuck all day and night.

Lol, good idea!

No I haven't pensive, ill have to
thank you for the advice too x

Posted by piscespoppy
That,s why i asked for the divorce in Feb, i felt we were just too far apart by then, but he has been trying to make it work, im 46 btw.
Lots went on in between, his brother died, gave him space (obviously) also his mum previous to that, we nearly lost our house, just lots going on over the course of the the period and just forgot about each others emotional and physical needs i suppose. Obviously we have done a lot of talking, arguing and me staying at my mums, were friends now, but he does not want the divorce.

Aww that breaks my heart.. and kind bust my bubble a bit... you where the first Pisces in the forum in a long term with cancer... but to be honest... I think before going to divorce which is the ultimate resource IMO, specially if you differences are petty, like boredom.

I would suggest to try, new stuff, after a long run like that things lose excitement due routine, you guy need to spend time apart, like someone mention going on a trip... or joining some sort of couples activities hanging out with other people together, you guys have a son together and an gone through a lot together to give up like that... if y'all don't do anything to break the pattern you are going to start fighting for irrelevant and petty stuff as who left the toilet sea up or down... I would say there is tons of things to try before divorcing, even couple's therapy, need to reignite the sex stuff... besides what will you do once you get single—... is not easy or as glamorous as married people think... even being younger is tough... so why giving up on someone you have spend so much time, memories, emotions, tough time... I've read somewhere that "relationships are like houses, when a light bulb die, you don't go and buy a new house, you go and change the damn light bulb!!!"

Think it as if you where gardening, it takes time for the seeds to germinate, once they do and start growing, you need to be attentive and constant with the care an love for your plant, getting nurturing soil, water, enough light and shadow and if you slack the plant immediately start getting droopy, if you retake the care you can revive it, if not it will die"

We will be talking through things next week, he is on holiday at home for the week, I agreed we would spend our time trying to sort things out, he seems determined to make it right again, so I wiil try to make things ok with him, we have strong friendship, so we can build on that. I don't particularly want to throw everything away, as fullwaterpisces says we have built a lot together and I have lived on my own before, so I know its not a picnic, its also quite lonely at times, I have been giving it lots of thought over the last few weeks, he left me a ripple bar on my computer this morning, which was sweet, he is trying to be more attentive, so I feel I should at least try to reciprocate, ill keep you up to date on how we are getting on, thanks for taking the time to listen and reply xx

Thats the attitude!!! 😄

🙂 🙂