Pisces,How would you like 1st date to end?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by shyleo92 on Thursday, May 7, 2015 and has 15 replies.

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@shyleo92
11 Years

Assuming the date went well and you liked the guy/girl would you want a kiss on the lips? or is that too much do you prefer kiss on cheek or hug.

From what I know about Pisces I know they like to take things slow & like a mysterious person that keeps them guessing and isn't obvious. So I'm wondering if a kiss on the mouth is too obvious/too forward.

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@estellajones
15 Years

I think my answer will be different from most Pisces but, it honestly depends on how much I like the guy and yes I do like a mysterious man so if he gives me a kiss or shall I say peck I would be happy with that, if it's a guy who I know likes me and is interested then I would want him to be mysterious and leave me guessing after, so a hug will do the trick lol

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@Adreamuponwaking
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Depends on the chemistry that I have with the person I'm on the date with but generally no... as I'm not sure if a date is sufficient enough for me to decide if I actually like them enough to pursue even a kiss ,or hook up , let alone a relationship.

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@GalOnTheCusp
11 Years

If there's good chemistry, I want a full make-out session.

Best way to see if there's physical compatibility, because if there isn't, I want nothing more than friendship.

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@aquapiscesmoon
11 Years

I've been on very few 'dates'.
Apparently I'm 'hard to please' lol

I tend to be doing something/working/traveling somewhere, meet someone I was meant to meet and the day is shared.
99% of time i can sense immediately from her eyes if we're gonna be going out.
If right there I want to know everything about her - and she me.
So dates like that take time.
A few years usually lol

My 20s were a bit different...

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@aquapiscesmoon
11 Years

hey 88..funny huh? all true...🙂

Listen - I see you have venus in aries...I know someone with that placement (+Aries Sun/Virgo Moon), but cannot figure her out.
Tell me please what are 5 ways a ViA person will react when very serious about someone.
I mean when not friending/flirting, which I guess can be a ViA trait?

What you think?

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@aquapiscesmoon
11 Years

Hey 88 thats super helpful - thanks!!

Maybe I can ask another few q's? 🙂

Like...If ViA is in a (tough. loving, but challenged) relationship...
And they had recently met a new friend. and there was huge chemistry...something unusual...

Would they
Txt the 'Friend' between 'hangouts'? Regularly? including v late at night? With occasional xs / sweet dreams etc?
Text requests for contact if no contact for 2 or 3 days?
Text 'sorry' a lot for things which are no big deal (Sorry I had to go/ sorry I hope i didn't.../ sorry I didn't mean to...etc etc)
Constantly offer the friend home cooked food? Cake? Drinks? in a kind of motherly way?
say 'what do You Think? about stuff a lot?
Beam obviously from ear to ear when they see you?
share something (like an anxiety) which their bf didn't know, and respectfully ask to not tell bf please?
preen/twist/stretch (very subtly) their bodies whilst talking? lol
invite you to hang with them only (not bf) whilst 'doing something' work related?
When their bf calls and they are with a [friend] plus a girlfriend - say they are only with one person (not the 'friend')
Suggest they could totally take a trip together to an like-minded event (just 2, without bf)? Before pausing and realising thats...not...sensible...lol
Talk about their desirability to others? (When I was in NYU guys used to be really bother me but I just...or "I used to be i better shape but..."
Invite the 'friend' to their tai chi class, without others?
Ask opinions out of the blue on moral issues 'what do you think about gay...)
Sit, rub a recent scar, and ask you to examine it- "touch it - see how painful it is??" lol
After spending some friend time, and (single) friend is going, raising eyebrows, Really—
When Friend arrives at her home (work related) , she says "So you only came here for the notes?" as the friend leaves?

I guess their rhetorical questions, sorry. But I REALLY would like to know your ViA opinion...
Is this a loyal responsible person who's somehow fallen for someone they're not with - or a 'desperate housewife'?
Can all this sh1t be turned off suddenly? Like a tap?

And should a friend like that, wait dutifully for a long time whilst the 'chase' continues, to get a promotion do you think? 🙂
Its Tough... i can tell you, when you have to be so diplomatic as we are just - 'friends' - and people could get hurt if we weren't so mindful.

Its like double entendre-town.
Psychic soulmate subway
Hidden meaning heave

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@aquapiscesmoon
11 Years

Thanks 88. Much appreciated.
I guess its just a friend thing for her...

Now - where's that case of Tequila I've been saving for a rainy day...lol