I always seem to over think everything and I sometime think I ruin a lot of things for myself.. Especially in relationships.. Who else does this? I am always have to break down every litte detail and make sure whatever decision I mae is the rioght one but maybe I take it to extremes.
over analyzing everything am I alone on this
Soory about typos am on my crappy cell

You are not alone I am an aries so I don't know if your asking specifically for cancer but...I do the very same. I think about conversations I have with people. I think about things "he" says and how he said them.
I do a lot of over analyzing but mostly because I am sincere and emotional.
I do a lot of over analyzing but mostly because I am sincere and emotional.
I meant in general it don't matter what sign.. I just so happen to put this up on a cancer forum because I'm a cancer. I too am emotonal but I usually keep that under tight control. I think about everything too much even when I'm ordering food... Lol I think damn if I order a salad then I will be healthy but If I order a burger it will taste a bit better, then I think how I can work that off in the gym with my crazy work schedule...lol
Lately in relationships I find myself dropping men like flies... I over think about the events of our time spent together and think well can he still meet up to my high expectations, can he fullfill my needs emotionally, sexually, intellectually..etc. If one of those are not met I drop em. Then I think about all the things that could have gone better and all the things that went wrong.. Ohh man right now I'm not even making sense because I'm running on 4 hours sleep.. Lol don't judge me hahaha.
Lately in relationships I find myself dropping men like flies... I over think about the events of our time spent together and think well can he still meet up to my high expectations, can he fullfill my needs emotionally, sexually, intellectually..etc. If one of those are not met I drop em. Then I think about all the things that could have gone better and all the things that went wrong.. Ohh man right now I'm not even making sense because I'm running on 4 hours sleep.. Lol don't judge me hahaha.

I do this too I'm a cancer, I tryed to find ths in my chart but I don't remember seeing this, I'm aleo rising but I think I may be off on my chart if so I could have a virgo rising that would have cause me to overanalzies things.
I break things down in to pieaces , I would drive myself crazy,
I break things down in to pieaces , I would drive myself crazy,

My crab and I (Aries) both do this. I think he's worse than me though.

I definitely do this. I over analyze every single thing in my life. Which I think can be good and bad, I do a lot of self-analysis, which I think can be healthy and helpful. But I do the same thing when it comes to a simple food order as well.
I definitely don't see anythng wrong with the way you analyze though. Like capgirl75 said, you know what you want.
I definitely don't see anythng wrong with the way you analyze though. Like capgirl75 said, you know what you want.

Its a part of you...embrace it 🙂
oh girl, I'm a virgo, need I say anymore? analyze is our being.. lol. i have just learned that analyzing a person or situation with the person is very counter-productive. if we could all just RELAX and let things flow, we will get the answer we are looking for. analyze something else that you like, like work, hobbies, etc. Easier said than done, I know. Have faith that the chips will fall how they are suppose to and they DO work out that way for a reason. I do catch myself analyzing thing when I REALLY like someone.. and start thinking if they would fit the mold or not. BUT just because one thing is off, doesnt mean that I don't want to get to know them better.. especially if there is a great connection.
I think my rising is virgo if that means anything I don't know much about that stuff. I just know I think tooo damn much.. Lol
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