pregnant by cancer man who is playing mind games with me

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Oh no you better not move in with him.
Oh no what a douche, he gambles, oh lord.
And he is mean and unsupportable. Fuck.
I am staying single forever. But you my darling you have to detach right now. Seriously.

Go back to your family and you may have to raise your kiddo by yourself, and it's okay to too. At least you have your family supporting you though. Right?
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Well now I feel bad.
Hopefully cancerprancer doesn't read this. 😱
Way ahead of you, partner.

I have a scorched earth policy for camp 2 cancers like this guy.
Are there specific birthdates for camp 2 cancers...I want to make sure I don't ever run into one. Lol.
Buuut cearly my posts are making no impact😄 Oh well, I guess we all just really really REALLY need explanations for everything that happens. Lord knows I do! I just get my fix in another totally fabricated way 😄
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You're preaching to the choir! Some want to live in delusion land and to get only the strokes that they feel validate them, and if they don't get those strokes then suddenly you're an asshole.....I mean camp 2 whatever......or asshole......

God forbid we reveal the truth in any way, shape or form! Hiss, boo and to the stake with you!! Pretty sure that's witchcraft, or feminism, or a gay agenda, or socialism, or communism, or...... 😛
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Posted by thinktoomuch
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Well now I feel bad.
Hopefully cancerprancer doesn't read this. 😱
Way ahead of you, partner.

I have a scorched earth policy for camp 2 cancers like this guy.
Are there specific birthdates for camp 2 cancers...I want to make sure I don't ever run into one. Lol.
Buuut cearly my posts are making no impact😄 Oh well, I guess we all just really really REALLY need explanations for everything that happens. Lord knows I do! I just get my fix in another totally fabricated way 😄
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Hey I'm just getting into all this stuff, so i want to know if theRe is. I use my intuition and it's a very good one to get me through life. Camp 1 or Camp 2 doesn't matter, if they're shitty people, they're going into the freezer.
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Greentea, that's how it should be: toss the shitty people aside, keep those who aren't shitty. The reality is there's shitty people in all signs, in all walks of life, in every country, etc. The reasons for a person being an asshole are varied: maybe they have a personality disorder, or they're insecure, or they were raised that way, or they haven't evolved emotionally, etc.....but it doesn't matter. The proof is in the pudding, as they say.
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so this morning we were sleep and this pops up to his moms house trying to kick the door down. me and her have met before a few months ago and she said she was just his friend giving him a ride and I told her we were together and having a child. this morning she went nuts... tried to beat the door down. he went outside told her to leave and never to contact him again and she started saying your doing this for her etc. she is a leo by the way... then he comes in the house and says he is running to the store to get a smoke. the girl acts like she is leaving and then when he leaves she pulls back up with her friend and busts his moms house windows out trying to get to me. and I called him back to the house and they ended up fighting... its a huge ass mess... ive only dated cancer men and all three relationships there was a psychotic leo woman draining the hell out of my energy...till I walked away. and each one of them come running back to me to get married.

I am sorry to say, but this must be a troll post........ and nearly all the responses in this thread confirmed, that nobody takes seriously the opening post......

OP, just come clean, this is not real, it cannot be, no way....... dont take the piss, there are lots of people with real problems, you made up a situation, which would be a real hard one, if it would be genuine.......

OP, nobody believes you
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This is not a troll message and anyway who has time to make up such a miserable situation... I came here for help not to be attacked about my story being fake smh... Anyway I have decided to take a break from the cancer. I can not deal with his emotional roller coaster every other day. he has been calling and texting saying he loves me and all this but I no longer believe him... so as of now I will be raising my daughter alone 😢
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Second-nd!!! I feel so bad for you guys, and am just waiting around for when he comes up with a theory of scary scorpios and sweet scorpios, or likeable lions and loseable lions etc....
Nope, just Cancers, because he got spurned by one and he has an obsession with crabs. 😛
Camp 1 Pisces are the open and honest metaphysical type

Camp 2 Pisces are the closed minded, dishonest and insecure victims.

Camp 1 is always happy, and content, open and giving. Non-judgemental and wouldn't hurt a fly.

Camp 2 are the cheaters and liars and sluts.

I've come across both in my life and I am certain there are two distinct types.

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Hehehehe, yes! This is true! Since accepting that there are assholes in any group, and those that aren't is too difficult for some we'll just have to label them as camp 1 and camp 2. Don't forget that Camp 2 pisces are also druggies/alcoholics, have mental problems, are abusive, and have stalking tendencies. Camp 1 pisces are well adjusted and able to handle their emotions.
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Posted by blossombonnie
so this morning we were sleep and this pops up to his moms house trying to kick the door down. me and her have met before a few months ago and she said she was just his friend giving him a ride and I told her we were together and having a child. this morning she went nuts... tried to beat the door down. he went outside told her to leave and never to contact him again and she started saying your doing this for her etc. she is a leo by the way... then he comes in the house and says he is running to the store to get a smoke. the girl acts like she is leaving and then when he leaves she pulls back up with her friend and busts his moms house windows out trying to get to me. and I called him back to the house and they ended up fighting... its a huge ass mess... ive only dated cancer men and all three relationships there was a psychotic leo woman draining the hell out of my energy...till I walked away. and each one of them come running back to me to get married.
There is always three sides to a story.
His version of the truth.
The ex Leo's version of the truth.
...And the distorted/cloudy version you were given.

Call it a gut instinct.
But something tells me the initial set up was a threes-a-crowd on a merry go round.
He chose the woman who was pregnant with his child. A convenient option, not a voluntary option.
This may possibly explain his conflicting behavior.

Leos are dramatic, but not crazy. There is a difference.
She's responding and reacting on what she's been told.
Thus, the reason for her ambush!

She may have been in the picture longer than you think, considering the two of you dated VERY briefly.
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she said they were only dating two months before him and I started.... not much time invested on neither of our ends... before the she popped up to his moms house I had saw her a few months before in her car with him and I asked at that moment what was going on and she stated she was just his friend it was nothing like that he just called her for a ride so I never thought anything else of it being that he spent all the holidays with me completely never left my sight for Halloween thanksgiving Christmas and new years... then she comes to his moms house and im like damn she said they were just friends and I told her I was pregnant that day so why is she acting lost
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So today is 1/25/16... update: we have been living together for a week and a half now and so far so good. He has not missed a night of coming home and he has been very helpful in many ways to make things easier on me. He is being the loving affectionate person I met months ago. He has even named our daughter already. I went into his phone the other night which is something I know I shouldn't do however I was over curious; and I did see messages between him and leo girl but it wasn't what I expected.... he wasn't being very harsh but he was throwing her curve balls explaining why he could never be back in a relationship with her also it seemed as if she was trying to make him mad by saying " hey can you let everyone know we are not together anymore because I am trying to move on and im tired of everyone thinking we are still together" he responded with you don't need my help last time I checked you had been moved on anyway so save the drama... She keeps sending me messages on instagram calling me fat which im not im just pregnant and she says im faking my pregnancy to take him away because he wants a family and that she bets when I turn 7 months im going to lie and say I lost the baby because its all lies.... I blocked her messages cause I don't feel like going back and forward with this little 22 year old!!!! little does she know he has never missed any of my doctors appointments and everyone else knows im pregnant except for her delusional mind... im over her she wants to be played and lied to so be it