wow

Everyone on here probably knows about my story with the Cancer Man that I really like well today he got in contact with me after a while but the message was just kisses.... So he's still thinking about me...or it might be bait? Haha

Posted by ramparts
He's 36 years old and that's how he communicates?

Well this time yes...we do have intelligent conversations before so don't judge him by this message like that haha maybe he didn't know how to start

Posted by SensitiveBlues
you're annoying and im trying to be kind.

Really? I'm sure there are more annoying posters here haha

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
When a man wants a woman his intentions will be clear. If you have to ask yourself "is he really into me?" chances are, he's not that into you. Assuming that he's into you at all. This kind of naivety makes my head hurt....

Well he's giving me attention...I didn't text him.

Posted by faceroll
the fact he's not asking to meet up to take you out means he doesn't want you for his girlfriend. you send kissy faces to women you want to string along that you hope you can get sex out of off and on. and they'll disappear again after that and only come back when they have no other options and want sex again.

this isn't complicated stuff.

what you really want is "affection" what you're settling for is attention.

Well fuck maybe Im ready to have sex with him and have something casual. Nothing wrong with that if he wants it too.

Point is We knew each other 3 months before we got intimate...players move faster

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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
When a man wants a woman his intentions will be clear. If you have to ask yourself "is he really into me?" chances are, he's not that into you. Assuming that he's into you at all. This kind of naivety makes my head hurt....

Well he's giving me attention...I didn't text him.

Honey, that does not matter. The kind of "attention" that he's giving you requires VERY little effort on his part. For Christ's sake he sent you a text message of some damn emojis!

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We knew each other 3 months before any kind of intimacy happened. Don't players move faster?

Posted by faceroll
if that's all you wanted you wouldn't be making threads about emjos like it's the most amazing thing that's ever happened to you and you're so surprised he went this deep. you wouldn't be on this board at all because you'd be busy banging him without feelings.

i didn't see any of your other threads. but i assume they prove you have feelings for him and you're fronting with me because i called you out on being an idiot.

Its long distance btw

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Posted by britneybabe26
Point is We knew each other 3 months before we got intimate...players move faster

If you have all the answers why are you here asking?

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Well its for those that read my other posts :-)

Posted by ramparts
And you don't even live in the same state so it's not like you had many options to be intimate but you were intimate the second time you met with him right?

Yes but no sex.

Posted by ramparts
Is that what you want? A casual long distance relationship?

Well I really like him.and I'm young and I don't have anyone else on my radar..I don't sleep around so yeah

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Point is We knew each other 3 months before we got intimate...players move faster

If you have all the answers why are you here asking?

Well its for those that read my other posts :-)

I did read them and you sound
really confused and going back and forth between hating him and being pissed that he's using you for sex and now you're saying you're okay with it

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OK OK you're right. I hate him then I like him when he makes contact. I can't get over him! Fuck and its not like he was my man. Cancer guys are really dreamy. My vice

Posted by faceroll
the single easiest way to NEVER get a relationship is to have sex with a man before he makes things official. the type of man who pushes you for sex is not the type of man who would make a good husband. so if he leaves #bitchbye

a man trades love for sex. a woman trades sex for love.

why should he give you what you want when he's already given what he wants and he hasn't made any effort at all?

Wait hold on...there was no penis to vagina sex.. Only foreplay!

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Posted by ramparts
Is that what you want? A casual long distance relationship?

Well I really like him.and I'm young and I don't have anyone else on my radar..I don't sleep around so yeah

You're gonig to lose your virginity because there's no one else on your radar at the moment?

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Please don't make it about that....its not.. I have feelings for him.

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Point is We knew each other 3 months
before we got intimate...players move faster

If you have all the answers why are you here asking?

Well its for those that read my other posts :-)

I did read them and you sound
really confused and going back and forth between hating him and being pissed that he's using you for sex and now you're saying you're okay with it

OK OK you're right. I hate
him then I like him when he makes contact. I can't get over him! Fuck and its not like he was my man. Cancer guys are really dreamy. My vice

How is he dreamy? All he did was give you enough attention to get you in his bed and then he disappeared?

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He
didn't completely disappear..he kept tabs on my on Facebook and Instagram.

Posted by ramparts
In my next life, I swear to god I'm coming back as a Cancer man

Sorry

Posted by faceroll
that's good then. don't sleep with him until he starts acting right. if he doesn't do more than send you emojis stop responding to him and find someone else who actually seems to want to make the effort.

not every man you meet is a keeper. even if he's hot. even if he seems sweet.

OK thumbs up :-)

Posted by ramparts
lol you're going to do whatever you want to do anyway and we'll all hear about it every step of the way.

No I think I should stop posting about this hahaha

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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
When a man wants a woman his intentions will be clear. If you have to ask yourself "is he really into me?" chances are, he's not that into you. Assuming that he's into you at all. This kind of naivety makes my head hurt....

Well he's giving me attention...I didn't text him.

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He's texting you because he's probably bored and lonely. The mere fact that he's not consistent shows he's not interested. Please have some self respect and cut him lose.

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lol you're going to do whatever you want to do anyway and we'll all hear about it every step of the way.

No I think I should stop posting about this hahaha

britneybabe26 two weeks later: "Ok so remember that Cancer guy I've talked about plenty of times before? Well he actually told me he loved me last night! He sent me THREE heart emojis!"

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Oh come on...don't hate me. Its the simple things that make me smile. 😉

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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
When a man wants a woman his intentions will be clear. If you have to ask yourself "is he really into me?" chances are, he's not that into you. Assuming that he's into you at all. This kind of naivety makes my head hurt....

Well he's giving me attention...I didn't text him.

He's texting you because he's probably bored and lonely. The mere fact that he's not consistent shows he's not interested. Please have some self respect and cut him lose.

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You know what..whatever is meant to be will be...its not like im waiting for him...So if he's texting then OK. Wow.he'snot asking for nudes...some people need to lighten up

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Posted by ramparts
lol you're going to do whatever you want to do anyway and we'll all hear about it every step of the way.

No I think I should stop posting about this hahaha

britneybabe26 two weeks later: "Ok so remember that Cancer guy I've talked about plenty of times

before? Well he actually told me he loved me last night! He sent me THREE heart emojis!"

Oh come on...don't hate me. Its the simple things that make me smile. 😉

Girl, I don't hate you. You're just so naive it's frustrating.

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And yet he didn't actually fuck me! So I'm not that naive huh

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Posted by ramparts
lol you're going to do whatever you want to do anyway and we'll all hear about it
every step of the way.

No I think I should stop posting about this hahaha

britneybabe26 two weeks later: "Ok so remember that Cancer guy I've talked about plenty of times

before? Well he actually told me he loved me last night! He sent me THREE heart emojis!"

Oh come on...don't hate me. Its the simple things
that make me smile. 😉

Girl, I don't hate you. You're just so naive it's frustrating.

And yet he didn't actually fuck me! So I'm not that naive huh

The fact that he's so heavy on your mind that you're posting about him online shows that he's penetrated your mind. Penetration isn't just physical and to be honest, you probably would let him penetrate you physically
. Just by the way you gush about him.

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Oh man now you're getting philosophical on me? I'm not waiting around him..its nice to get attention. He reached out cool...he didn't ask for nudes or said anything vulgur. Anyway that's that

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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
When a man wants a woman his intentions will be clear. If you have to ask yourself "is he really into me?" chances are, he's not that into you. Assuming that he's into you at all. This kind of naivety makes my head hurt....

Well he's giving me attention...I didn't text him.

He's texting you because he's probably bored and lonely. The mere fact that he's not consistent shows he's not interested. Please have some self respect and cut him lose.

You know what..whatever is meant to be will be...its not like im waiting for him...So if he's texting then OK. Wow.he'snot asking for nudes...some people need to lighten up

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Right, it could always be worse. However, when you enlist our help or advice on your situation you will get heartfelt pleas to just stop being another victim. It's frustrating to see a young lady ask for advice, then shoo it away and say "whatever." It's frustrating that yet again another guy has used a naive young girl and she bats her eyes helplessly. You sit at your computer with your LOLs and contradicting yourself with every breath. Yeah, so if nothing else THIS is frustrating. Go ahead and be used, reduced and recycled by this guy and it probably won't be the last.

as the strong, independent women (who cry themselves to sleep at night) often say:

your yoni is more than a jar of honey
that he can open with just a few emojis
make him earn what's concealed by your bra
if he hurts you, have him beat up by your bro
be strong, your intuition is what matters
remember to boycott marshall matters

Okay, here's my advice: Don't respond to him.

You are so sure you want to give up your V card to this guy... the guy who just "likes" your stuff on FB. Do nothing. Let him chase you. Ignore the emojis. If Cancer folklore is correct, he will step up his game, be perplexed you didn't answer, and try with something else. Do NOTHING until he asks an actual question. Even then, give it a half a day before you respond.

If that happens, entice him; start a dialogue. Make sure he texts last - you don't answer, so you have something to say the next day to keep buoying the conversation.

When a few weeks of consistent contact has passed, ask him out. You want this guy, BB26, go get him. Drive or do whatever to get where he is; make up a reason you'll be nearby. Ask him to meet.

Have sex with him this time.

Then, please do not ask why he never contacts you again. Do not become a Stage 5 Clinger. Just remind yourself that you got what you wanted.

Posted by GalOnTheCusp
Okay, here's my advice: Don't respond to him.

You are so sure you want to give up your V card to this guy... the guy who just "likes" your stuff on FB. Do nothing. Let him chase you. Ignore the emojis. If Cancer folklore is correct, he will step up his game, be perplexed you didn't answer, and try with something else. Do NOTHING until he asks an actual question. Even then, give it a half a day before you respond.

If that happens, entice him; start a dialogue. Make sure he texts last - you don't answer, so you have something to say the next day to keep buoying the conversation.

When a few weeks of consistent contact has passed, ask him out. You want this
guy, BB26, go get him. Drive or do whatever to get where he is; make up a reason you'll be nearby. Ask him to meet.

Have sex with him this time.

Then, please do not ask why he never contacts you again. Do not become a Stage 5 Clinger. Just remind yourself that you got what you wanted.

Thanks..I've been thinking about this and you know what I've come to the conclusion I don't care that he wants something casual anymore. If we will meet again so be it .if I have sex with him why the fuck not? I will just not expect anything from him after. I will have a good time. He's a successful guy who wasn't overly sexual..he did t touch me, grope me, he didn't promise me anything. We just had nice convos and great time on the time he took me out. So what not? Case closed. I'm not going to be writing about this anymore.

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Posted by faceroll

what you really want is "affection" what you're settling for is attention.

**Lightbulb moment**

Patent this advice and put it into every thread.

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Some of you talk like never met anyone who you were attracted to on another level and never had a heat of the moment with! This is the first to me. Guys come on to me all the time but I don't want them. I met someone I like after a long time and I got intimate but I didn't give it up yet to him...

He's horny.

How long had it been since you spoke? Did you respond?

Posted by faceroll
the fact he's not asking to meet up to take you out means he doesn't want you for his girlfriend. you send kissy faces to women you want to string along that you hope you can get sex out of off and on. and they'll disappear again after that and only come back when they have no other options and want sex again.

this isn't complicated stuff.

what you really want is "affection" what you're settling for is attention.

Exactly!!

Any kind of texting as a form of communication is such a cop out. He could be texting you while also watching porn at the same time, or taking a shit, or getting a bj from his main chick. Texting is the laziest form of communication.

Don't think that your special cause he sends you some kissie faces. He probably is sending them to every chick in his contacts list + the females on tinder he's sweating.

Posted by britneybabe26
Point is We knew each other 3 months before we got intimate...players move faster

That's not how the game works.

Players move at the exact right speed to get what they want and get away cleanly.

If your a wait-until-I've-known-the-guy-for-a-year kinda girl he will put in the ground work in order to get the pussy all while sexing other chicks during that time.

Don't think that just because you make a dude call you his gf that your his only girl. A guy can just as easily fuck you over if you fuck him on the first date or if you wait until the 20th date.

It's up to YOU to qualify him as the type of guy you want to be with. And from your earlier threads the answer would be a big fat NO.

Posted by Arielle83
True, I always text while watching porn.

And I'm a wo-man!

Lmbo!!!

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
you're annoying and im trying to be kind.

Really? I'm sure there are more annoying posters here haha

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not really

What's really funny here is that you made sure to counsel a woman about ldr's in saying that they work wonderfully ... when the reality is = you can't even handle your own.

How ridiculous of you ..... and it doesn't get much more annoying then a douche telling another something they cannot even handle themselves.

Oh wait ... that was someone else.

My bad .... sorry ...

Posted by Arielle83
True, I always text while watching porn.

And I'm a wo-man!

Totally! I'm eating stove top popcorn so that's a lot of background noise.

Posted by Arielle83
True, I always text while watching porn.

And I'm a wo-man!

Your a woman after my own heart

Who gives a shit if she txt's and watches porn? A man would take pride in it and give zero fucks while being commended..she can do whatever she wants. No "slut" shaming!!

Posted by Finbuff
Leave Britney to her own decisions. So far all this guy has done is get with her naked, with no penetration. He was a perfect gentlemen. They do not live in close proximity, so meeting is problematic. She likes him, so she's giving him every chance to impress her. Saying "heh" in a text is manipulating her? Don't think so.

I appreciate you and this...thank you!i

After the kisses yes he asked how am I and was flirty.

I was talking about Arielle...and yea stop judging this poor girl. Help her or let her be!

Not you donnaelvira..everyone else.

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He'll sacrifice my posts*

He is pretty unpleasant. It's obvious.

Ya guard your daughters!
Finbuff is coming to perv with his rigid conservative outlook on life, but pedophilia is ok cuz he's an old fat bastard.

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Hide your daughters, hide your wife..heck even hide your dog 😛

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Posted by britneybabe26
After the kisses yes he asked how am I and was flirty.

Do what you feel is best for you then. :-) Good luck. I still think he is an ass :-P

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God bless xx