I was dating a cancer man for almost 3 months. During that time we became very close. Ive done his daughters hair, helped him pack his house to move, watched his puppy and tons of other things. We saw each other almost everyday even if it was just him stopping by for a few. He also would stay over night with me several nights a week. Recently he spent 4 nights in a row with me...leaving to go to class and work but he returned at night. Well for one week he had a lot going on..he had an accident, family in from out of town..etc. well at least that's what he says. Lol. I felt that after the 4 nights in a row I wanted to know where things were headed because I felt that we were getting in pretty deep. So I asked. He told me that we were just friends, he doesn't want a girlfriend and he understand my emotions but I should learn to control them. Lol. I was shocked. He was always the one initiating everything. I never pressured him or asked him to do anything. There was even once when he was on the phone he told the person on the other line that he was with his girlfriend. Is this type of behavior typical of cancer men? Do they do these things with women who are just friends? I am so confused. I told him after that conversation that I felt that we had more and because I want more I can't be involved because we aren't in the same page.
