Sharing some LOVE for Cancers

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I read on one of the posts that one of you Adorable Cancer men felt like you are hated because of all the negative posts about Cancer Men. In my opinion I don't think it's hate, it's a simple frustration or confusion when you do your cute little side step. And a want on our part to simply understand what our wonderful complex Cancer men need for themselves and possibly from us as partners.

It broke my heart to read that you felt hate as hate is powerful and no one should ever feel hated. And so I'm starting this post so that all who LOVE Cancers like me can share and spread the LOVE!!!! I'll start with some cute little pics I found.


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Posted by WildHHeartGemini
I read on one of the posts that one of you Adorable Cancer men felt like you are hated because of all the negative posts about Cancer Men. In my opinion I don't think it's hate, it's a simple frustration or confusion when you do your cute little side step. And a want on our part to simply understand what our wonderful complex Cancer men need for themselves and possibly from us as partners.

It broke my heart to read that you felt hate as hate is powerful and no one should ever feel hated. And so I'm starting this post so that all who LOVE Cancers like me can share and spread the LOVE!!!! I'll start with some cute little pics I found.


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LMAOOOO. cute little side step. ahahhahahahaha .
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The pics made me smile 😄
(((hugs)))

Some dxpers consistently spew hate. Is it because they were hurt by one or couldn't manipulate the cancer man to take them back?

Some posters imply the cancer man scurried off for no reasons, but as details unfold, you find out *something* did happen and that's why he's acting that way. So why go out of your way to make us look skiddish?

Other posters just can't handle the slow pace. Understandable, but then the cancer man is not the one for you. Move on instead of trying to force us to be something we're not.

I appreciate those posters who are just looking for understanding. They tend to be more genuine on the onset anyway.
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"Cute".... chile.......ain't s**t "cute" or adorable about a grown a $ $ man that don't who don't know who they are or what they want, and becoming an inconsiderate a $ $ whole b/c of it in the process... U girls breastfeeding taxpayers then have the nerve to wonder & whine why y'all stay in the same place for years & years with these "wute wittle wabbiesss" ...chile please. Why would they do better when u excuse then inexcusable . Its no one's job to be some grown "man's" second momma cause their own clearly skipped some steps while raising them, exempting them from consequences to their b**chmade ways.

The immature "men" of this sign don't need coddling.....they need cussing and u sticking to it. And THEY need to accept people as they are, not try to force us to be some thing we'rere not or should have to be through their whining guilt trips and victim mentality cause they can't handle criticism ..... Their soft ignorant a $ $ mommma!!! THEY'RE the ones who run the last I checked

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Posted by rudescorpscorp01
"Cute".... chile.......ain't s**t "cute" or adorable about a grown a $ $ man that don't who don't know who they are or what they want, and becoming an inconsiderate a $ $ whole b/c of it in the process... U girls breastfeeding taxpayers then have the nerve to wonder & whine why y'all stay in the same place for years & years with these "wute wittle wabbiesss" ...chile please. Why would they do better when u excuse then inexcusable . Its no one's job to be some grown "man's" second momma cause their own clearly skipped some steps while raising them, exempting them from consequences to their b**chmade ways.

The immature "men" of this sign don't need coddling.....they need cussing and u sticking to it. And THEY need to accept people as they are, not try to force us to be some thing we'rere not or should have to be through their whining guilt trips and victim mentality cause they can't handle criticism ..... Their soft ignorant a $ $ mommma!!! THEY'RE the ones who run the last I checked


Ok Mr.Rude check your rude treetrunkin' attitude! In case you missed it this thread was about a little bit of positivity to negate some of the negative energy floating around. You've basically pointed out exactly one of the reasons I made this thread in the first place. So a round of applause for the man please ladies and gentlemen. People are going around attacking people for no good reason. I believe speaking to others about different topics including communication can be very beneficial to all who are open minded and mature enough to have a discussion about it to perhaps gain a perspective that differs from their own. To help them grow as an individual and learn to relate to different people with different communication styles. With different wants and needs other than their own. It's about understanding and insight for some of us who want to grow as individuals and better our relationships through what we can offer to the people in our lives. And perhaps better ourselves. It's about selflessness and taking a look at how we are perhaps not communicating effectively. Gain new skills by speaking to others on an intellectual level. It's about taking ownership and knowing that finger pointing is counterproducti
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counterproductive and sometimes we should be pointing that finger back at ourselves and see what we are doing that is affecting the people in our lives the way it may be. And improving upon that. But perhaps you aren't quite evolved or mature enough to understand that just yet. A little respect goes a long way, in my opinion. So if all you're going to do is start spewing that Scorp Venom around then go find a thread about trash talking and Narcissistic Pathological sociopaths who have nothing better to do than to find people to drag down to their level when their feeling ticked off about something personal. Just like a Scorp to take out their anger on others rather than direct it where it's deserved or better yet, take a moment, chill and deal with it in a productive manner. Again just in my opinion of course (insert sarcastic tone here) 😉 That's where you could learn something from the CUTE Cancer scuttle. They do that usually when they are dealing with something. It's actually a healthy thing to do in my opinion. Instead of lashing out at someone they take a moment to process what's happening so that they can approach it with a little tact. Where most get confused is simply that they don't say that they need a moment, but in all honestly when I think about it, my Cancer moon makes me do the same thing and the reason I don't say anything before stepping aside is because perhaps I am upset and don't want to say something I'll regret later or don't actually mean. But I digress.

I apologize for that little rant, perhaps that's the protective side of my personality. Did I mention that not only am I Gemini Sun, Cancer Moon but even better I have Ascending Scorp and it's decided to come sting your a $ $ for attacking us for no good reason other than to stroke your own stinger. I don't like to do it and it doesn't come out often but seriously buddy perhaps you should think longer than 30 seconds before you start attacking people. Especially when it's not warranted. What you wrote was simply spiteful and completely unnecessary.

Aaaaanyways! LOL! Where were we? Oh Yeah!

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Posted by rudescorpscorp01
"Cute".... chile.......ain't s**t "cute" or adorable about a grown a $ $ man that don't who don't know who they are or what they want, and becoming an inconsiderate a $ $ whole b/c of it in the process... U girls breastfeeding taxpayers then have the nerve to wonder & whine why y'all stay in the same place for years & years with these "wute wittle wabbiesss" ...chile please. Why would they do better when u excuse then inexcusable . Its no one's job to be some grown "man's" second momma cause their own clearly skipped some steps while raising them, exempting them from consequences to their b**chmade ways.

The immature "men" of this sign don't need coddling.....they need cussing and u sticking to it. And THEY need to accept people as they are, not try to force us to be some thing we'rere not or should have to be through their whining guilt trips and victim mentality cause they can't handle criticism ..... Their soft ignorant a $ $ mommma!!! THEY'RE the ones who run the last I checked


So I'm guessing you got that cancer dude from that fat Taurus?

You don't sound happy.
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I'm thinking she didn't..............
Hence the vitriol.