it actually works

Ladies my cancer guy texted me last night after like 2 months ( we don't live in the same state) when am I coming back to see him. I couldn't believe it. After our date I though things will be good but I wasn't sure...I never texted him first and never chased him..just commented to each other on social media and he actually came back and texted me.
So its true Cancers need to process you for quit some time before moving on with you.

You were probably his backup plan

Two months is a long time to "process."

:/

But, if you're happy... good. 🙂

But in between we talked on social media? Does that count? Omg now I feel stupid

As long as you kept communication opened... some cancers shut down fully and you get nuthin for a few yrs.

Posted by Weeds
As long as you kept communication opened... some cancers shut down fully and you get nuthin for a few yrs.

Yes we keep in touch by Instagram and Facebook and when In sent him a bday message he said he hopes to see me sooner than later. So I'm thinking good signs but obviously I'm cautious. But of he didn't like me he wouldn't want me to travel to him right?

Thats fine be cautious.
thats is the healthiest thing to do going in.
No need to question things of like or interest your too early into it. Keep it calm and cool.

Posted by britneybabe26
But in between we talked on social media? Does that count? Omg now I feel stupid

Don't feel stupid lol

Sorry... yeah, I guess that's the norm, but I have one BIG question:

Why would YOU be driving to see HIM, and not the other way around?

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Posted by britneybabe26
But in between we talked on social media? Does that count? Omg now I feel stupid

Don't feel stupid lol

Sorry... yeah, I guess that's the norm, but I have one BIG question:

Why would YOU be driving to see HIM, and not the other way around?

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Because I have business there anyway. Is that foolish? He wants to show me around. I already seen his home

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Posted by britneybabe26
But in between we talked on social media? Does that count? Omg now I feel stupid

Don't feel stupid lol

Sorry... yeah, I guess that's the norm, but I have one BIG question:

Why would YOU be driving to see HIM, and not the other way around?

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Yes.. Good question.

She is throwing herself..

Posted by M143

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by britneybabe26
But in between we talked on social media? Does that count? Omg now I feel stupid

Don't feel stupid lol

Sorry... yeah, I guess that's the norm, but I have one BIG question:

Why would YOU be driving to see HIM, and not the other way around?

Yes.. Good question.

She is throwing herself..

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How? He's the one who invited and initiated contact.

I flew to Switzerland to meet a guy and we had our first date on Lake Zurich, while sailing on a boat.
Why did I fly to him first instead of him to me?
Because I wanted it that way!
It was more of a vacation, I wanted to visit Germany and be on his turf.
It was HIGHLY romantic and adventurous; because he knew where to take me and all I had to do was show up.
I was completely taken care of.
He cooked for me and we cooked together. Met his mom and his friends. He had a sexy Virgo friend.

My concern with OP is the fact that no matter how great this may go, there is still the elephant in the room.
Long distance relationships are tough.

Good luck OP, have fun and do go expecting anything more than getting to know him better.

Posted by Arielle83
So if a woman drives to meet a man in another area code, she is throwing herself?

Jebus Christ, I guess you cows lack a sense of adventure. Or are you the lot who sits on their fat asses and waits for a man to come to them?

Don't give advice then! You obviously don't know cancer men. They want someone who is down to earth and easy going. Not an effin delusional "queen".

Love you babe!! God Bless xoxo

Posted by LunarMaiden
I flew to Switzerland to meet a guy and we had our first date on Lake Zurich, while sailing on a boat.
Why did I fly to him first instead of him to me?
Because I wanted it that way!
It was more of a vacation, I wanted to visit Germany and be on his turf.
It was HIGHLY romantic and adventurous; because he knew where to take me and all I had to do was show up.
I was completely taken care of.
He cooked for me and we cooked together. Met his mom and his friends. He had a sexy Virgo friend.

My concern with OP is the fact that no matter how great this may go, there is still the elephant in the room.
Long distance relationships are tough.

Good luck OP, have fun and do go expecting anything more than getting to know him better.

Exactly! What's wrong with us women sometimes taking the big step if both of us want it. :-)
Life is short. I love to travel anyway.

Thank you babe and good luck to you as well

Arielle83, you are too defensive. what the heck... This is why I cannot stand cancer people. too dramatic for me to handle. I am done.

Posted by M143
Arielle83, you are too defensive. what the heck... This is why I cannot stand cancer people. too dramatic for me to handle. I am done.

Scorpio's can't handle Cancers. We are just way to intense for you guys.

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Posted by LunarMaiden
I flew to Switzerland to meet a guy and we had our first date on Lake Zurich, while sailing on a boat.
Why did I fly to him first instead of him to me?
Because I wanted it that way!
It was more of a vacation, I wanted to visit Germany and be on his turf.
It was HIGHLY romantic and adventurous; because he knew where to take me and all I had to do was show up.
I was completely taken care of.
He cooked for me and we cooked together. Met his mom and his friends. He had a sexy Virgo friend.

My concern with OP is the fact that no matter how great this may go, there is still the elephant in the room.
Long distance relationships are tough.

Good luck OP, have fun and do go expecting anything more than getting to know him better.

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Exactly!

I flew to Belfast in 2002 for a guy who I knew for 6 years and am still close with today, 13 years on. Then I flew to perth, Australia in 2010 for a guy. I ended up married as a result of that last trip, down the line. Maybe I have a romantic sense of adventure.

Sitting around waiting gets you no where.

If you want something, you have to get it.

That's amazing and beautiful. Finding love is different for all of us.

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Posted by M143
Arielle83, you are too defensive. what the heck... This is why I cannot stand cancer people. too dramatic for me to handle. I am done.

Scorpio's can't handle Cancers. We are just way to intense for you guys.

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oh well it's not intense. There is no enough respect for other's opinion. Scorpio will just leave because we understand you cancers clearly.
I find Scorpio extremely intense but will leave you enough respect. not being rude.. If I could spill amount of rudeness I can but would I do that, I am not a bitter person on this earth. I have a cancer office mate - he is rude and talks and talks... one day I spilled the word in front of his face.. until now he cannot move on. He kept talking how I hurt him. I only react once.. but sure it breaks the bone.

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Posted by M143
Arielle83, you are too defensive. what the heck... This is why I cannot stand cancer people. too dramatic for me to handle. I am done.

Oh why because my opinion differs from yours?

You poor wittle muffin.

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really.. I will block you now. I don't need force interaction. Goodbye.

You worry, doubt and fret too much. Start doubting him and he will pull back - I know I would. He will worry enough for the both of you Haha, so no need for you to add to it.

Most people can't handle our tendency to pull back from time to time. You went with the flow. Good. Have a life you live too and let him be himself and you be yourself.

Go see him and enjoy yourself. If you just fucking relax, go with the flow and try not to be so damn unsure when you're around him, he'll want more of you. Stress him the fuck out, he'll pull back.

Posted by Arielle83
I've noticed fixed signed women expect to put out little effort, and get big returns.

Cardinal energy women just go out and get it.

Idk. My gf is a leo - is that s fixed sign? She goes for what she wants, but has balance - sure of herself yet not pushy or running around like a chicken with their head cutoff!.

Posted by M143
Arielle83, you are too defensive. what the heck... This is why I cannot stand cancer people. too dramatic for me to handle. I am done.

Well I wouldn't go "blaming" all Cancers with this trait, however the ones with Asc Aries? Yes m'am, and I am one of the "fighters" as well. The difference between us and other Cancers is we stick up for people and if that seems too rough, then so be it. We are the Zodiac Warriors! lol

Posted by britneybabe26
Ladies my cancer guy texted me last night after like 2 months ( we don't live in the same state) when am I coming back to see him. I couldn't believe it. After our date I though things will be good but I wasn't sure...I never texted him first and never chased him..just commented to each other on social media and he actually came back and texted me.
So its true Cancers need to process you for quit some time before moving on with you.

You sound very optimistic. I wish you the best. Hopefully his communication will increase AND be more consistent.

I flew across country for the guy I was seeing. Have fun girl!

Thank you for the positive comments! I will surely update all of you how the trip went.

Xoxo

Posted by Arielle83
I've seen a pattern. The women who don't chase always refer to themselves as some prize or they're a queen.

It's like playing make believe or something.

A true queen or prize knows it and everybody else too. No need to scream it on top of a fucking mountain. I find it interesting my gf rejected every guy that chased after her. Go figure!

Thank you!