Should I keep trying?

So as some of you know I've been seeing this cancer guy for a few months now aka fucking for a few months now. And well, I have these feelings for him or whatever that I haven't told him about. Lately I've been texting him randomly stuff like "Hope all is well with you." And he responds "Yeah things are good, hope the same for you". Then I end the convo.

Should I quit texting him? He usually initiates our interactions but it's pretty much only when it's time to knock some boots. I want to pursue him but I'm hella proud and don't want to look like a needy loser. Is it a bad idea to chop his dick off the next time we meet?

I did say we should hang out and drink (I actually said smoke, but ya know) sometime as it would be fun. He said yeah that would be fun. If we "drink" together my inhibitions will disappear completely and I will literally turn into that PsychoAries I try so hard to subdue--just meaning my mouth will become loose and my feelings will be right there on the table.

Wouldn't keep typing here if I didn't need help. I read somewhere that Aries are pretty simple people and it's hard for us to understand that others are complicated. WELL COMPLICATED SUCKS! 😱

Firstly thanks for all of the insight! The other thing is I can't erase my past but he doesn't know my past all. I spent age 16-22 in a monogamous relationship with someone I now have zero contact with, should I tell him about that? Otherwise I have a lot going for me. I am On my way to med school and have a full time job and am nice looking and in shape. I also am big on providing for and protecting those I love.

I agree with what was being said above as well...

Cancers some times can have problems with confidence though... So he is testing and feeling the waters. I think you should give him a bit more line and he will come running.

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So... he actually called me for the first time ever. Usually our conversations are short and via text but today we spoke. He called me and told me about how he only gets intimate with people he trusts, and I said we should talk more often and hangout outside of sex to build a rapport with one another and he thought it was an excellent idea! Had me smiling from ear to ear. He also mentioned that I am the only person he is seeing at all--which I hardly believe--but just the thought of it made my heart melt lol.

Any insight?

They nees to hear you say straight up that you want them. You will never look needy for expressing how much you want them. They live for that.

He's taken a big step in calling you for the first time. Don't drop the ball! He's still watching and testing the waters, and the moment you try and pull back, he will do the same. If you say you only want him for sex, he will reciprocate...even if he feels more. If you tell him you want to know him more outside of that, he will go with the flow.

But don't pressure....it's going to be a slow uphill battle, so don't let your Aries head get the best of you. I'm a Taurus, patient and calm as the earth, and my Cancer dude is STILL a trip lol. Just keep letting him know your interested and he will latch on.

And you're right...you probably aren't the only lady in his life. BUT don't take his affections lightly. A good Cancer, a good man in general, focuses on one special woman at a time. That's not to say if it doesn't work out with you, he doesn't have a runner up waiting. That is their security blanket. But at this moment in time, he's chosen to open up to you, and that means the world.

Good luck!!

stop sleeping with him and you will see where he stands on a friendship level.