Should I stay or should I go

About six months ago I met a cancer man over the phone and then we connected on social media. We've been talking ever since and slowly but surely I've been falling for this guy you live very far away from one another and I am able to be able to go see him but I was going to be in about four months however some of my insecurities surface looking for confirmations of his affections for me he's a very reserved man from being hurt and I'm afraid I scared them away by expressing my affections for him and what I want from this relationship I know he knows how much I care for I know I need to give him space do cancer men come back

I am a cancer and once we notice something about someone that we don't like, it's pretty much a done deal. We will not look back. We might talk to you just to be nice but don't expect us to try to get back with you or take things the way they once were. We also don't like when people beg for us, it pushes us away

He's only been in bad relationships and he's been hurt. He said it's not me or anything that I did he says he's afraid he can't give me what I want. The longest distance hard.

He's come back once before. When I actually did do something that he didn't like.

It has to be something we really really do not like in order to not talk to you. We are very understanding but we have a limit and once it's crossed that's pretty much it. Another thing, since we don't like to express our actually feelings to people, many times we will just make up excuses as to why it won't work out instead of telling you up front. So the long distance thing isn't really it. Like my ex lives in Kuwait and I live in Miami and I'm going to jump on a plane for the first time in my life to go find him. So when we really love you we will not let go for anything in this world