@virgo29
18 Years
Do cancer men lie about how they feel or ask questions to pretend they are interested..
How Cancer Men Show Interest and Feelings
Cancer men often express their feelings through indirect communication and caring gestures rather than straightforward actions. They may ask questions about your family or say they miss you to show interest. However, their tendency to delay plans or not follow through can make their intentions unclear. Understanding their emotional style helps interpret their actions more accurately.
He's got a great relationship with his mom, busy with work alot and he's funny, we met online a while back but I just don't know what's going on with him...
Venus in Gem perhaps?
I'm not a guy, but if I'm really really interested I'm making time to get back to someone. Except if someone isn't very communicative themselves, then I'm more distant and cautious. He seems like he's with one foot in and with one foot out. But that could have several reasons. It could be anything from being a bit nervous to dip his feet into the cold water (we always risk a lot emotionally), to not being sure about his own interest.
Again, I'm speaking as a female cancer, with a cancer Dad and a cancer brother in law.
his birthday is June 24 1981 what moon or venus is that? and what does that mean
im aug 29 1979
is this a match at all?
he also says he's a true a cancer with his moody and all my brother is a cancer and one day we were chatting about him and he said that he's exactly the same as my brother down to a T.
hes a momma boy for sure, 100% admits to it, a homebody but like the outdoors, loves food an his job. super family orientated
lol
Cancer here so if i wasnt interested i wouldnt even bother keeping amy contact with you. But i have kept in touch with someone i was mildly interested in just to have a backup just in case the one i was really interested in wasn't into me.
Just read over last comment and it sounds really bad. But its true. Also about being not interested i usually answer conversations with one word answers as opposed to trying to keep conversation going.
Sooo he’s back 9 months later but this Cancer guy called be out of the blue and left a lengthy message about wanting to see how I was doing and hear my voice blah blah... went text back and forgot h a bit and a few conversations then we went out for dinner and drinks, great night once again, made out in the parking lot then home. He was super sweet during dinner, he came out and apologized for pushing me to the side and said he really liked me but couldn’t really push his Job aside either. He says he’s looking to making time for a relationship and not be so tied to work. After that night we call maybe once twice a week and text every other day.
I’m so lost on the pace of a cancer man but it s this normal?
What do cancer men consider clingy behaviour from a girl?
We haven’t had sex yet but he kisses with a lot of passion and he’s super protective around me.
Can I just call him without him thinking I’m being clingy?
We’ve talk about kids and our wants which is nice.
I want to ask him about his ex/past relationships but do not know how to in a way that isn’t prying but keep re me learning about him because I’ve read learning about a cancer man can come a lot from his past relationships.
Please help......
Cancer men can be very slow, and fickle. He's still not putting 100% into this because if he were you would know it, but that doesn't mean he isn't interested. You will either have to help set a little better of a pace, or drop him. I'm a little suspect about him disappearing on you. History and experience tells me that something or someone else was keeping his attention if he's still being distant in the present.
Yes...Cancer men are very slow, side step all the damn time and will spin you around in circles. They fear getting hurt and rejected so they put their feelers out and then retreat. Rinse and repeat.
Be careful though...as the posters above...sounds like he is half in...but again could be a multitude of reasons why.
Push pull of a cancer male and virgo female...fun times lol.
I love them though but they get on my damn nerves lol.
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kind of' interested in (as in not my first choice, but I'm still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.
There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who is looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
Posted by Crabra
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kinda' interested (as in not my first choice, but still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
I agree with everything you wrote.. even the porn 😅
Posted by Crabra
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kinda' interested (as in not my first choice, but still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
I agree with everything you wrote.. even the porn 😅
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Nice! And a female to boot. I love girls who love porn!
But yeah, very interesting to see a female crab has the same take as a male *high five* 😄
Posted by Crabra
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kinda' interested (as in not my first choice, but still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
I agree with everything you wrote.. even the porn 😅
Nice! And a female to boot. I love girls who love porn!
But yeah, very interesting to see a female crab has the same take as a male *high five* 😄
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Hehe 🙋🏿♀️ "up high!" ain't nothing wrong with it..
And I couldn't have said it any better myself. This is how we date or at least how me myself and you date lol
Not all cancers blah blah blah..
Well said my crabby brother
Posted by Crabra
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kind of' interested in (as in not my first choice, but I'm still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who is looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
This is an honest post. Cancer with air moons are honest with their intentions. Take it or leave it unlike some people who lead a woman on without making their intentions clear. They make the woman believe like they could commit long-term and keep her around in the hopes of getting a solid commitment. However, I do feel women need to be more discerning here.
Posted by Crabra
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kind of' interested in (as in not my first choice, but I'm still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who is looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
This is an honest post. Cancer with air moons are honest with their intentions. Take it or leave it unlike some people who lead a woman on without making their intentions clear. They make the woman believe like they could commit long-term and keep her around in the hopes of getting a solid commitment. However, I do feel women need to be more discerning here.
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I don't comprehend the lack of honesty. It could do with me being reclusive, and preferring my own company, but I just don't want them thinking my interest is greater than what it actually is. I think it is atrocious to allow and even nurture someone's emotional connection to grow when he knows full well that his is stagnant. It's a horrible thing to do to someone.
True that women can be more discerning, but I also believe their inner sirens are still going off. But they choose to ignore the red flags, and let a person's words instead of their actions influence their decisions.
Posted by Crabra
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kind of' interested in (as in not my first choice, but I'm still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who is looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
This is an honest post. Cancer with air moons are honest with their intentions. Take it or leave it unlike some people who lead a woman on without making their intentions clear. They make the woman believe like they could commit long-term and keep her around in the hopes of getting a solid commitment. However, I do feel women need to be more discerning here.
I don't comprehend the lack of honesty. It could do with me being reclusive, and preferring my own company, but I just don't want them thinking my interest is greater than what it actually is. I think it is atrocious to allow and even nurture someone's emotional connection to grow when he knows full well that his is stagnant. It's a horrible thing to do to someone.
True that women can be more discerning, but I also believe their inner sirens are still going off. But they choose to ignore the red flags, and let a person's words instead of their actions influence their decisions.
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It’s sad but women will take what they can get, when really what they should be doing when a man is stagnant in his actions or reclusive, is to shut the door on his face.LOL. But loneliness is a killer. So I can see why they entertain these types of guys.
Posted by Crabra
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kind of' interested in (as in not my first choice, but I'm still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who is looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
This is an honest post. Cancer with air moons are honest with their intentions. Take it or leave it unlike some people who lead a woman on without making their intentions clear. They make the woman believe like they could commit long-term and keep her around in the hopes of getting a solid commitment. However, I do feel women need to be more discerning here.
I don't comprehend the lack of honesty. It could do with me being reclusive, and preferring my own company, but I just don't want them thinking my interest is greater than what it actually is. I think it is atrocious to allow and even nurture someone's emotional connection to grow when he knows full well that his is stagnant. It's a horrible thing to do to someone.
True that women can be more discerning, but I also believe their inner sirens are still going off. But they choose to ignore the red flags, and let a person's words instead of their actions influence their decisions.
It’s sad but women will take what they can get, when really what they should be doing when a man is stagnant in his actions or reclusive, is to shut the door on his face.LOL. But loneliness is a killer. So I can see why they entertain these types of guys.
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It is really funny that you mention this. Just yesterday I was at the store, and I caught the eye of a girl who was seriously top-shelf. We exchanged an innocent smile, and just this gutter rat of a man approaches me and says, "Get a good look? Yeah... keep on walking motherfvcker!" It reminded me of a hot girl walking her overly aggressive and ugly chiguagua.
This guys douchery isn't what got to me though. It was how on this fvcking planet did this girl find this guy attractive?
You comment basically brings this whole thread full circle. They are taking what they can get. This fvckhead being with this absolutely drop dead gorgeous girl basically puts the proof in the pudding that really hot girls are NOT getting asked out.
Guys.... the good ones.... get your balls out of the freezer and get your asses out there. These girls are having these guy's fvcking kids!
Posted by Crabra
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kind of' interested in (as in not my first choice, but I'm still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who is looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
This is an honest post. Cancer with air moons are honest with their intentions. Take it or leave it unlike some people who lead a woman on without making their intentions clear. They make the woman believe like they could commit long-term and keep her around in the hopes of getting a solid commitment. However, I do feel women need to be more discerning here.
I don't comprehend the lack of honesty. It could do with me being reclusive, and preferring my own company, but I just don't want them thinking my interest is greater than what it actually is. I think it is atrocious to allow and even nurture someone's emotional connection to grow when he knows full well that his is stagnant. It's a horrible thing to do to someone.
True that women can be more discerning, but I also believe their inner sirens are still going off. But they choose to ignore the red flags, and let a person's words instead of their actions influence their decisions.
It’s sad but women will take what they can get, when really what they should be doing when a man is stagnant in his actions or reclusive, is to shut the door on his face.LOL. But loneliness is a killer. So I can see why they entertain these types of guys.
It is really funny that you mention this. Just yesterday I was at the store, and I caught the eye of a girl who was seriously top-shelf. We exchanged an innocent smile, and just this gutter rat of a man approaches me and says, "Get a good look? Yeah... keep on walking motherfvcker!" It reminded me of a hot girl walking her overly aggressive and ugly chiguagua.
This guys douchery isn't what got to me though. It was how on this fvcking planet did this girl find this guy attractive?
You comment basically brings this whole thread full circle. They are taking what they can get. This fvckhead being with this absolutely drop dead gorgeous girl basically puts the proof in the pudding that really hot girls are NOT getting asked out.
Guys.... the good ones.... get your balls out of the freezer and get your asses out there. These girls are having these guy's fvcking kids!
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Hot girls don’t get asked out from decent to hot guys nor get genuine love from women. Women are just competitive and petty. Women will easily drop a compliment for women they aren’t intimidated or threatened by. Hot guys have their pickings but they pick the avg. because they are a less headache and a more secure bet in terms of fidelity...or so they think. The avg looker male appreciates good looks because it’s the whole you appreciate what you don’t have yourself. Good looking women are perceived as stuck up,m and high maintenance. The struggle is real.
Posted by Crabra
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kind of' interested in (as in not my first choice, but I'm still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who is looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
This is an honest post. Cancer with air moons are honest with their intentions. Take it or leave it unlike some people who lead a woman on without making their intentions clear. They make the woman believe like they could commit long-term and keep her around in the hopes of getting a solid commitment. However, I do feel women need to be more discerning here.
I don't comprehend the lack of honesty. It could do with me being reclusive, and preferring my own company, but I just don't want them thinking my interest is greater than what it actually is. I think it is atrocious to allow and even nurture someone's emotional connection to grow when he knows full well that his is stagnant. It's a horrible thing to do to someone.
True that women can be more discerning, but I also believe their inner sirens are still going off. But they choose to ignore the red flags, and let a person's words instead of their actions influence their decisions.
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You're a rareeee type of Cancer. I respect the way you do things.
Crabra gives me hope. Maybe they're not all bad like I thought. Lol
Posted by Crabra
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kind of' interested in (as in not my first choice, but I'm still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who is looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
This is an honest post. Cancer with air moons are honest with their intentions. Take it or leave it unlike some people who lead a woman on without making their intentions clear. They make the woman believe like they could commit long-term and keep her around in the hopes of getting a solid commitment. However, I do feel women need to be more discerning here.
I don't comprehend the lack of honesty. It could do with me being reclusive, and preferring my own company, but I just don't want them thinking my interest is greater than what it actually is. I think it is atrocious to allow and even nurture someone's emotional connection to grow when he knows full well that his is stagnant. It's a horrible thing to do to someone.
True that women can be more discerning, but I also believe their inner sirens are still going off. But they choose to ignore the red flags, and let a person's words instead of their actions influence their decisions.
You're a rareeee type of Cancer. I respect the way you do things.
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Aww! Well, I thank you kindly.
Posted by Crabra
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kind of' interested in (as in not my first choice, but I'm still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who is looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
This is an honest post. Cancer with air moons are honest with their intentions. Take it or leave it unlike some people who lead a woman on without making their intentions clear. They make the woman believe like they could commit long-term and keep her around in the hopes of getting a solid commitment. However, I do feel women need to be more discerning here.
I don't comprehend the lack of honesty. It could do with me being reclusive, and preferring my own company, but I just don't want them thinking my interest is greater than what it actually is. I think it is atrocious to allow and even nurture someone's emotional connection to grow when he knows full well that his is stagnant. It's a horrible thing to do to someone.
True that women can be more discerning, but I also believe their inner sirens are still going off. But they choose to ignore the red flags, and let a person's words instead of their actions influence their decisions.
It’s sad but women will take what they can get, when really what they should be doing when a man is stagnant in his actions or reclusive, is to shut the door on his face.LOL. But loneliness is a killer. So I can see why they entertain these types of guys.
It is really funny that you mention this. Just yesterday I was at the store, and I caught the eye of a girl who was seriously top-shelf. We exchanged an innocent smile, and just this gutter rat of a man approaches me and says, "Get a good look? Yeah... keep on walking motherfvcker!" It reminded me of a hot girl walking her overly aggressive and ugly chiguagua.
This guys douchery isn't what got to me though. It was how on this fvcking planet did this girl find this guy attractive?
You comment basically brings this whole thread full circle. They are taking what they can get. This fvckhead being with this absolutely drop dead gorgeous girl basically puts the proof in the pudding that really hot girls are NOT getting asked out.
Guys.... the good ones.... get your balls out of the freezer and get your asses out there. These girls are having these guy's fvcking kids!
Hot girls don’t get asked out from decent to hot guys nor get genuine love from women. Women are just competitive and petty. Women will easily drop a compliment for women they aren’t intimidated or threatened by. Hot guys have their pickings but they pick the avg. because they are a less headache and a more secure bet in terms of fidelity...or so they think. The avg looker male appreciates good looks because it’s the whole you appreciate what you don’t have yourself. Good looking women are perceived as stuck up,m and high maintenance. The struggle is real.
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Well, it sounds like being gorgeous is pretty tough for the ladies. Perhaps I can make it easier for them if willing to give me the time of day and aren't already locked up with some loser.
Posted by Crabra
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kind of' interested in (as in not my first choice, but I'm still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who is looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
This is an honest post. Cancer with air moons are honest with their intentions. Take it or leave it unlike some people who lead a woman on without making their intentions clear. They make the woman believe like they could commit long-term and keep her around in the hopes of getting a solid commitment. However, I do feel women need to be more discerning here.
I don't comprehend the lack of honesty. It could do with me being reclusive, and preferring my own company, but I just don't want them thinking my interest is greater than what it actually is. I think it is atrocious to allow and even nurture someone's emotional connection to grow when he knows full well that his is stagnant. It's a horrible thing to do to someone.
True that women can be more discerning, but I also believe their inner sirens are still going off. But they choose to ignore the red flags, and let a person's words instead of their actions influence their decisions.
It’s sad but women will take what they can get, when really what they should be doing when a man is stagnant in his actions or reclusive, is to shut the door on his face.LOL. But loneliness is a killer. So I can see why they entertain these types of guys.
It is really funny that you mention this. Just yesterday I was at the store, and I caught the eye of a girl who was seriously top-shelf. We exchanged an innocent smile, and just this gutter rat of a man approaches me and says, "Get a good look? Yeah... keep on walking motherfvcker!" It reminded me of a hot girl walking her overly aggressive and ugly chiguagua.
This guys douchery isn't what got to me though. It was how on this fvcking planet did this girl find this guy attractive?
You comment basically brings this whole thread full circle. They are taking what they can get. This fvckhead being with this absolutely drop dead gorgeous girl basically puts the proof in the pudding that really hot girls are NOT getting asked out.
Guys.... the good ones.... get your balls out of the freezer and get your asses out there. These girls are having these guy's fvcking kids!
Hot girls don’t get asked out from decent to hot guys nor get genuine love from women. Women are just competitive and petty. Women will easily drop a compliment for women they aren’t intimidated or threatened by. Hot guys have their pickings but they pick the avg. because they are a less headache and a more secure bet in terms of fidelity...or so they think. The avg looker male appreciates good looks because it’s the whole you appreciate what you don’t have yourself. Good looking women are perceived as stuck up,m and high maintenance. The struggle is real.
Well, it sounds like being gorgeous is pretty tough for the ladies. Perhaps I can make it easier for them if willing to give me the time of day and aren't already locked up with some loser.
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LOL! You should always try. Don’t be such a Cancerian and you know exactly what I mean there.
Posted by Crabra
As a Cancer male, I can definitely say that if there is someone interested in me that I am just 'kind of' interested in (as in not my first choice, but I'm still down), I will show just enough interest to keep them hooked. It's kind of messed up, but I always let them know that I am not looking for anything serious, but I am still interested in them enough to hang out once in a while.There is definitely no kind of obsession going on here with these women. If they decided to cut the line and look for someone who is looking for something more solid, that is just fine with me. Back to the porn.
This is an honest post. Cancer with air moons are honest with their intentions. Take it or leave it unlike some people who lead a woman on without making their intentions clear. They make the woman believe like they could commit long-term and keep her around in the hopes of getting a solid commitment. However, I do feel women need to be more discerning here.
I don't comprehend the lack of honesty. It could do with me being reclusive, and preferring my own company, but I just don't want them thinking my interest is greater than what it actually is. I think it is atrocious to allow and even nurture someone's emotional connection to grow when he knows full well that his is stagnant. It's a horrible thing to do to someone.
True that women can be more discerning, but I also believe their inner sirens are still going off. But they choose to ignore the red flags, and let a person's words instead of their actions influence their decisions.
It’s sad but women will take what they can get, when really what they should be doing when a man is stagnant in his actions or reclusive, is to shut the door on his face.LOL. But loneliness is a killer. So I can see why they entertain these types of guys.
It is really funny that you mention this. Just yesterday I was at the store, and I caught the eye of a girl who was seriously top-shelf. We exchanged an innocent smile, and just this gutter rat of a man approaches me and says, "Get a good look? Yeah... keep on walking motherfvcker!" It reminded me of a hot girl walking her overly aggressive and ugly chiguagua.
This guys douchery isn't what got to me though. It was how on this fvcking planet did this girl find this guy attractive?
You comment basically brings this whole thread full circle. They are taking what they can get. This fvckhead being with this absolutely drop dead gorgeous girl basically puts the proof in the pudding that really hot girls are NOT getting asked out.
Guys.... the good ones.... get your balls out of the freezer and get your asses out there. These girls are having these guy's fvcking kids!
Hot girls don’t get asked out from decent to hot guys nor get genuine love from women. Women are just competitive and petty. Women will easily drop a compliment for women they aren’t intimidated or threatened by. Hot guys have their pickings but they pick the avg. because they are a less headache and a more secure bet in terms of fidelity...or so they think. The avg looker male appreciates good looks because it’s the whole you appreciate what you don’t have yourself. Good looking women are perceived as stuck up,m and high maintenance. The struggle is real.
Well, it sounds like being gorgeous is pretty tough for the ladies. Perhaps I can make it easier for them if willing to give me the time of day and aren't already locked up with some loser.
LOL! You should always try. Don’t be such a Cancerian and you know exactly what I mean there.
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I'm afraid I know all too well lol. I'll have to tap into my energy that's a little more direct and confident.
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I started seeing this cancer guy and even though he takes his sweet old time to call, when he does, he will say things like:
I missed you; or
will ask me about my dad (dad was in the hospital a while a go); or
will say when am i going to see you and then doesn't follow through on firming up plans; or
He'll say we'll talk tomorrow but then i don't hear from him the next day at a few days even;
talks about his family, job and mom
is this guy just shooting the shit with me on the phone or is he interested at all...
I know they take forever to call or text so I'm not to concerned about that but it's nice when I do hear from him.