So all of these means what?

"If a cancer man truly loves you, but is embroiled in emotional turmoil related to past loves, childhood issues, etc, etc, can he and does he have the capacity to overcome this if he truly loves you?"

he will NEVER overcome this.....that is why they are so mysterious - and why they test test test.....they need you to understand where they are coming from and love and accept them the way that they are - any woman who truly loves a cancer man will have to be patient and sympathetic. Their standards are hard to live up to - but they are just being themselves.....

we definitely get true love that is why we are so cautious and guarded with our feelings. yes we do get the concept but the question we pose to ourselves is does the person we are interested in also get the concept. what makes things difficult for us is the fact that are very romantic and sometimes mix up romantic love from consummate love. my personal experience i have not regretted leaving anyone. did i love them? do i still care about them? of course. but never regrets because every situation i have been in i have learned something from it. yes i might have regretted the way i handled things but for me i know things happen for reasons. sorry i went off on a tangent but yes we know what true love is. it basically comes down to each individual and their life experiences as to whether they are willing to open themselves up for that kind of committment. this being cancer or whoever..

cansir - other signs may be upset with me for saying so - but I think cancer "gets it" better than anyone else :0)

who cares what other signs think this is the cancer board..lol..and thanks xangelfishx..

true and yet there seem to be so few actual cancers here :0)

you're welcome

i know it is loaded with all the women we are screwing up..haha..

LOL !!

bad boys.......and yet we love you

I think what we are both saying [and of course I will not speak FOR anyone so cansir can correct me....] is that a cancer man will truly love a woman who truly loves him back !

xangelfishx pretty much summed it up. if you can show us you love us and really show you care and we can trust you we are capable of anything..especially love..

hey krobe! i knew you couldn't stay away from me for long :-)

I think krobe is [not so]secretly in love with you cansir.....I think she's using her cancer man as a test subject ;0)

i think she is too but she is a leo. way to strong for my sensitive feelings..lol..

yes.... I think she would rip you apart with her claws.... me too if I'm not careful !!

LOL@Krobe

Cansir come over here and get you some Aqua LOL!! Oooops wait you can't have this or maybe you can...nah you can't LOL!!!

tiki it is probably better that way because i know you couldn't handle this cancer 😉

Krobe I wanna delve into your chart, I bet you have a few air signs in there, Gem's and Aqua's are fellow air signs, thats why I'm so attracted to your mental state hmmmm now I wonder what else is swirling around there....oh and I learned today that if a person has 3 or more planets with the same numbers, this literally means that this person is a soul mate, now this doesn't mean that its a good thing but it does mean that you were meant to play something out. I also learned that if a person has a particular number in a planet, say 7 degrees of Aquarius or 18 degress of Libra for example and they meet another person with the same placement you will be more drawn to that person than say a person with a number placement 21 degrees of Aquarius or 9 degrees of Libra in there chart, thats why some people can be in a room full of people and never connect with anyone, this isn't by happenstance.

Astrology is becoming a huge hobby for me

My leo and I have 3 placemens thus far and opposite moon signs, I haven't done our full charts but if there are 3 placements with the same sign and same number then this was a union that was meant to happen, also if a person has scorpio, Aqua, Pisces and Cancer (thinking I'm missing a sign) in there chart they should be mindful of all that negativity energy that swirls around these signs, keep your auro clear of negative energy because these signs tend to fixate, become depressed easily or obsessive/habitual more easily than others.

Okay I got off track but I'm learning so much!!

puhleeeze cansIR, I was visiting a friend and had the opportunity to be with a cancer...we spent a whole week together, lets just say he hasn't been the same since, everyone said what did you do to this guy, he used be shy and quiet now he's over the top, not shy at all. Now granted there was no lovey dovey stuff going on and I changed him without it LOL!! Jus think what I would have done with it LOL!!

Bring it Cansir...Come ON LOL!!

on second thought, I'm too good for a Cancer...oh well catch me on a good day LOL

hmm, to good for a cancer? well your actions speak a little differently since you spend a lot of time on our board..lol..ah come on tiki i like you aqua's..my mom is one :-)

LOL@Cansir

I like Cancers, I'm not that experienced with them but the time I have had with one was surreal, we just mixed well, no fights just lots and lots of fun and the funny thing is we hung out for hours, more like all day and he was so easy going, the walking, talking, just being together, doing what I wanted to do, no nervous energy at all, it was nice....

are you making an offer? *giggling*

don't be scurred (:

oh and you can't have this LOL!!

the horror!

p.s.

I see why women fall hard for Cancers, they literally make love to you without the act, its an all day love making session, this can go on for days...literally

The talking for hours, listening for hours, walking for hours, unspoken words of love and affection for hours, holding hands type love making, whew!! Good luck girls LMAO!!

I love the Cancer board and I am not a Cancer. U guys R the only ones that seem 2 keep my interest. And IF, U can do that. U R a bad arse MF! LOL!

Oh NO Tikki,
NO NO, Cansir is mines. However, I will share him if U want. He will just need 2 add a couple more men. LOL!