Tell him how I feel ?

I have fallen for a cancer man who only wants a casual relationship. Although I thought I would be okay with this since I rejected him multiple times, as time went on, I realized that I actually like him ALOT. As a Aquarius woman, I don't usually sweat men but it's something about him. I catch myself trying not to be so weird around him & Thinking about him all the time. When he leaves I miss him & he's told me he misses me too but It's hard to believe because he disappears. I want to tell him how I feel but it kind of threw me off when he told me he didn't want anything serious. I don't know how to approach the situation & it's heard to get in touch with him since he likes to disappear. What should I do ? I think I should wait for a face to face sit down but I don't want to scare him away . Help !!

Posted by Juicygirlx5
I have fallen for a cancer man who only wants a casual relationship. Although I thought I would be okay with this since I rejected him multiple times, as time went on, I realized that I actually like him ALOT. As a Aquarius woman, I don't usually sweat men but it's something about him. I catch myself trying not to be so weird around him & Thinking about him all the time. When he leaves I miss him & he's told me he misses me too but It's hard to believe because he disappears. I want to tell him how I feel but it kind of threw me off when he told me he didn't want anything serious. I don't know how to approach the situation & it's heard to get in touch with him since he likes to disappear. What should I do ? I think I should wait for a face to face sit down but I don't want to scare him away . Help !!

Scare him away

"Are relationships always toxic in at least one way for women?"

He is protecting himself, if you rejected him before...... so be cool and dont overreact
he will be yours....
just dont overreact, calm head!!!

Cancer answers > Aquas assumptions

Lolz. Cancer way of thinking is completely different than that of an Aqua. Plainly put, he doesn't trust you anymore. You've rejected him everytime? If so it stung everytime so now he's protecting his heart so that you can't sting it anymore for the next invite you decide to decline. We can get over it yes, but quality time is important to us cancers so rejection after rejection hurts a lot. Especially when we feel for someone we really do feel. At least I do. I don't tag along people that I don't feel anything for. If he's still contacting you to try talking that's a good sign. Even if you have to wait a while for that to happen. Even months. That means his heart is coming back to you and hasn't fully got over you, but that said doesn't mean he'll open up. For starters we LOVE being around our loved ones. I have an Aqua lover and it's a pain because I come across as needy when all I want to do is spend time with him- which scares him away. Cancers not so much. I'm usually all gunhole to an invite to hang out and to do something. Actions speak louder than words. Saying "I love you" or "I have feelings for you" isn't enough. You will need to show it through ways that communicate to him other than words. Don't get me wrong- we love to hear the words a lot but the action speaks to us without complaints. If he's disappearing now then wait it out to see if he comes back. If he does he still likes you. We don't get over a lover that easily if we actually loved them. Then do try to hang out. Every cancer is different. I don't mind the texting and being text a lot from someone I like it as long as I'm not getting nagged about not answering right away or forced to hang out. Not giving up can show that this person does care- although patients is a key. If you're hanging out keep the texting to a minimal then. Do all your communicating in person on a one on one conversation and keep your full attention to him. Otherwise it will hurt even if he doesn't say so. I hope that's good enough advice.