HELP with my TAURUS

Hi everyone, I am new to this site and I think I posted wrong, but please help. I'm an Aquarius girl (26)
I met a Taurus man (32) at his Christmas party (2014) and he immediately was attracted to me, but I was in a relationship.Taurus and I remained friends and my relationship ended in February (2015). In August (2015) I let him know that I was interested and we started dating. Everything was great, we have good chemistry, an intimate connection, same outlook in life, but at his New Year's party I got really wasted. I was swinging at him and I hit him and his friend. I started crying, I was very emotional and I finally passed out. The next day, when I woke up he asked me to leave his house. Later, he texted me saying that "we are done" and he ended with "I don't have feelings for you anymore, Good bye". Please, I truly deeply care for this man and I can see myself growing old with him. I don't know how to show him how terribly sorry I am and how I want to work things out.

need a little more context here.....why did you hit him? what was it over? do u remember?

lots of Aqua/Bull pairings on this board lately....very strange...

I have no real reason for hitting him or his friend. I was very drunk and I'm going through a lot, being homeless, unemployed, stuff like that, and it got the best of me. I'm not making an excuse for my actions though. I take full responsibility. I didn't mean to hit anyone :/

Yikes ;/

@koniucha I didnt. I was just flapping my arms, like slapping down on something. It was very disrespectful, since I not only hit him, I also hit his friend :/ what can i do?

i've apologized a lot. before he ended with the "i dont have feelings for you anymore" he just told me to take it as a learning experience. he said if you know you get a certain way when you drink then dont drink too much, and he said to be proactive. i never replied because i didnt know what else to say.

I think he is just embarrassed about what happened. he's even said, "if i take you back, what will that say about me? i can't". but you're right. i just didn't want to move from this, but i'm too scared to make contact cuz i dont want to annoy him either. 😢

This is off the topic but are you the girl who made a cover to Climax by Usher??

And when it comes to the topic i think you should apologise one time sincerely taking full responsibility and leave it at that. Not much you can do.

@seezythescorpion lolol I am not I wish i could sing and play more instruments. All i do is play guitar.

I've apologized, i guess the ball is in his court. Where are the taurus men?! 😭 help me get this awesome dude back. what a bad start to a new year.

You're right. Thank you Koniucha. I just have to suck it up and get on with my life.

Posted by berrywiddle
@seezythescorpion lolol I am not I wish i could sing and play more instruments. All i do is play guitar.

I've apologized, i guess the ball is in his court. Where are the taurus men?! 😭 help me get this awesome dude back. what a bad start to a new year.

Ohh okay🙂) you look like her alot. Was just wondering.

I guess you should back off and try keep calm if you have already apologised more than once. Its still fresh. Dont remind him of what happened over and over again.

Good luck.

Posted by Koniucha
Unfortunately, there is nothing more to say. I would just move on. Nothing tragic happened. If he really cares about you, he will come back. But I would just back off completely.

+ 1

you apologized
now just wait it out until he contacts you....

did you apologized to his friend as well?

taurus men too busy eating or so lol. thank you ladies for your help. i appreciate it!

@Pandora101 yes i apologized to his friend and his friend has forgiven me. I'm not jumping to talk to her because i want to give him space with everything thats happened.

If he's going to act that way and end things over something trivial then I'd question his interest and loyalty. If your relationship can't stand and hold firm through the basics then it's not a steady enough foundation to continue building on, it fell down at the first hurdle. So you got drunk and made a twat out of yourself. I've seen worse! Life can be a struggle and as you say you have some pressure there but instead of stepping up to support you he's backed away and favours what 'other' people might think of 'him' if you were to remain together. Sounds selfish to me.

there is something about this story that just doesn't ring like the whole truth and nothing but. i need more context.

@jeane it really is the whole story. The night was great, beer pong, cheers, the countdown, the kiss. I just got so hammered and emotional and I guess violent .:/ I don't think I hit him or his friend hard, maybe just slapping down on them.

@AgentP911 you're right! You and Koniucha. There's nothing more I can do. I just woke up with that heavy feeling in my

Heart

Smdh wow really? And you wonder why he's not interested in you. Lol. Yup you answered your own question. Suck it up and get on with life. And never do that shit again. Take care@OP

@Impulsv yes i did. sigh, i think i just have to move on. i shouldn't have hit him or his friend. i shouldn't have been a stupid drunk. i have to learn now. 😢

Posted by berrywiddle
@jeane it really is the whole story. The night was great, beer pong, cheers, the countdown, the kiss. I just got so hammered and emotional and I guess violent .:/ I don't think I hit him or his friend hard, maybe just slapping down on them.

@AgentP911 you're right! You and Koniucha. There's nothing more I can do. I just woke up with that heavy feeling in my

So the friend was a girl? maybe you felt jealous and thats why you hit them? do you remember how you got emotional? what was the trigger?

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by berrywiddle
@jeane it really is the whole story. The night was great, beer pong, cheers, the countdown, the kiss. I just got so hammered and emotional and I guess violent .:/ I don't think I hit him or his friend hard, maybe just slapping down on them.

@AgentP911 you're right! You and Koniucha. There's nothing more I can do. I just woke up with that heavy feeling in my

So the friend was a girl? maybe you felt jealous and thats why you hit them? do you remember how you got emotional? what was the trigger?

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So the friend was a girl? maybe you felt jealous and thats why you hit them? do you remember how you got emotional? what was the trigger?

I still think that if the friend was a girl, you got somehow jealous and thats why you hit them? it is easy to get this impression when one is drunk.....

Posted by Pandora101
I still think that if the friend was a girl, you got somehow jealous and thats why you hit them? it is easy to get this impression when one is drunk.....

THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR RESPONSES
mean or nice or supportive etc, i really appreciate it : )
coming on here i wasnt sure if anyone would notice.
I AM NOT JEALOUS OF HIS FRIEND at all. His Best Friend is a girl and when they first met they talked for a bit a long time ago when he was going through shitty stuff. And now she's with another mutual friend of theirs. BUT That's another story. lol. The girl I hit is another friend of ours and I did not hit her intentionally. I was swinging my arms around like a big baby saying get away from me, slapping my hands down, hitting him in the face, and she happened to be there so i found out i hit her in the arm. ughhhh. truly sucks. i am giving myself maybe 2 weeks to grieve, cry, and all that depressing stuff. Then hopefully i will feel better about it.

Also, I am in school now and am happy to announce I will be starting the RN program next year at CSULB : )

Hm some one going to Rn school shouldn't be like this.

You just added more dumbbells to your stupidity..
I wouldn't be friends regardless of how long we've been friends. Mercury retrograde in affect. Lol.

@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 his birthday is 0426. I know I shouldn't have been that way. I was a fool.