@yourtypicalcancer
10 Years
A weird situation with an aquarius girl
Understanding Aquarius Girls and Their Communication Patterns
Aquarius women often value independence and can sometimes withdraw when feeling overwhelmed or uncertain. Mixed signals may not indicate disinterest but rather their need for space. Paying attention to their overall behavior and maintaining respectful communication can help clarify their intentions and strengthen your connection.
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Recently she would take the initiative to ask about me and how things were, but then she wouldnt reply a simple good luck text. :/ I am so confused by this aquarius girl and being the cancer that I am I feel like I cant take not talking to her anymore and I have just been missing her too much. :
Aww! What is her moon or her chart vs. yours?
Posted by aquarius09
Aww! What is her moon or her chart vs. yours?
im not sure about hers because she told me she doesnt believe in signs, but I am Cancer and my moon is cancer too
My romantic history is filled with cancerians, so I'll tell you the problem that this pairing faces and that's take off. Cancerians will be nice and do nice things, which you do with others as well. Aquas don't know what to make of your nice gestures: "are you nice with everyone, which you are, or just me?" We need clearrrrrr indication of romantic interest otherwise we don't get it and move on. We don't get stuck on crushes the way cancers do. All the cancerian guys that had a crush on me in the past didn't communicate their interest in me. They did incredibly nice things for me and I had an idea that perhaps they liked me, , but I never acted on my intuition because it's just a gut feeling, nothing concrete. I do nice things for people without liking them and so unless someone explicitly tells me they like me, I don't assume they have a crush on me. Anyway, cancerians never explicitly told me and I got tired and we drifted apart. Then, years later when I came across these guys, they would tell me how they had a crush on me but couldn't communicate it to me out of shyness or fear of rejection. You snooze, you lose. Tell her you like her. We are direct communicators and love it when people tell us clearly what they want.
Posted by aquarius09
My romantic history is filled with cancerians, so I'll tell you the problem that this pairing faces and that's take off. Cancerians will be nice and do nice things, which you do with others as well. Aquas don't know what to make of your nice gestures: "are you nice with everyone, which you are, or just me?" We need clearrrrrr indication of romantic interest otherwise we don't get it and move on. We don't get stuck on crushes the way cancers do. All the cancerian guys that had a crush on me in the past didn't communicate their interest in me. They did incredibly nice things for me and I had an idea that perhaps they liked me, , but I never acted on my intuition because it's just a gut feeling, nothing concrete. I do nice things for people without liking them and so unless someone explicitly tells me they like me, I don't assume they have a crush on me. Anyway, cancerians never explicitly told me and I got tired and we drifted apart. Then, years later when I came across these guys, they would tell me how they had a crush on me but couldn't communicate it to me out of shyness or fear of rejection. You snooze, you lose. Tell her you like her. We are direct communicators and love it when people tell us clearly what they want.
you must have a strong 4th house and/or 7th, aqua09....since you like cancers/libra combo. 😄
Posted by aquarius09
My romantic history is filled with cancerians, so I'll tell you the problem that this pairing faces and that's take off. Cancerians will be nice and do nice things, which you do with others as well. Aquas don't know what to make of your nice gestures: "are you nice with everyone, which you are, or just me?" We need clearrrrrr indication of romantic interest otherwise we don't get it and move on. We don't get stuck on crushes the way cancers do. All the cancerian guys that had a crush on me in the past didn't communicate their interest in me. They did incredibly nice things for me and I had an idea that perhaps they liked me, , but I never acted on my intuition because it's just a gut feeling, nothing concrete. I do nice things for people without liking them and so unless someone explicitly tells me they like me, I don't assume they have a crush on me. Anyway, cancerians never explicitly told me and I got tired and we drifted apart. Then, years later when I came across these guys, they would tell me how they had a crush on me but couldn't communicate it to me out of shyness or fear of rejection. You snooze, you lose. Tell her you like her. We are direct communicators and love it when people tell us clearly what they want.you must have a strong 4th house and/or 7th, aqua09....since you like cancers/libra combo. 😄
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Yeah, I like men in general irrespective of their sign. The market I attract the most is comprised of libras and cancers. The last guy before I met my Aries was a cancer sun and libra moon. I was getting both in one package. LOL. That's why nothing came of that one.
Posted by aquarius09
My romantic history is filled with cancerians, so I'll tell you the problem that this pairing faces and that's take off. Cancerians will be nice and do nice things, which you do with others as well. Aquas don't know what to make of your nice gestures: "are you nice with everyone, which you are, or just me?" We need clearrrrrr indication of romantic interest otherwise we don't get it and move on. We don't get stuck on crushes the way cancers do. All the cancerian guys that had a crush on me in the past didn't communicate their interest in me. They did incredibly nice things for me and I had an idea that perhaps they liked me, , but I never acted on my intuition because it's just a gut feeling, nothing concrete. I do nice things for people without liking them and so unless someone explicitly tells me they like me, I don't assume they have a crush on me. Anyway, cancerians never explicitly told me and I got tired and we drifted apart. Then, years later when I came across these guys, they would tell me how they had a crush on me but couldn't communicate it to me out of shyness or fear of rejection. You snooze, you lose. Tell her you like her. We are direct communicators and love it when people tell us clearly what they want.
I think I have been pretty clear. But perhaps it was only clear in the perspective of a cancer :< It took a lot of courage for me to always initiate conversation with her and to ask her out to a 1:1 hangout too and from my personal perspective that is pretty obvious because we are clearly not the closest friend with each other. Things I did for her to show her that I care would be being super attentive to her and every detail of her and offering her cough drop when shes sick, offering her sport tape when I saw her injure herself, sending A LOT of love songs, waking up at 7 am to wake her up for an appointment she had and.
and just a curious question how do Aqua girls show that they are attracted to a guy? Or do they even :/ ?
Posted by aquarius09
My romantic history is filled with cancerians, so I'll tell you the problem that this pairing faces and that's take off. Cancerians will be nice and do nice things, which you do with others as well. Aquas don't know what to make of your nice gestures: "are you nice with everyone, which you are, or just me?" We need clearrrrrr indication of romantic interest otherwise we don't get it and move on. We don't get stuck on crushes the way cancers do. All the cancerian guys that had a crush on me in the past didn't communicate their interest in me. They did incredibly nice things for me and I had an idea that perhaps they liked me, , but I never acted on my intuition because it's just a gut feeling, nothing concrete. I do nice things for people without liking them and so unless someone explicitly tells me they like me, I don't assume they have a crush on me. Anyway, cancerians never explicitly told me and I got tired and we drifted apart. Then, years later when I came across these guys, they would tell me how they had a crush on me but couldn't communicate it to me out of shyness or fear of rejection. You snooze, you lose. Tell her you like her. We are direct communicators and love it when people tell us clearly what they want.click to expandI think I have been pretty clear. But perhaps it was only clear in the perspective of a cancer :
I'd say you're pretty obvious and I've had cancer dudes who were doing the things you're doing but I still needed them to explicitly say "I like you" for me to understand that they weren't just being kind, but rather had an interest in me. I would advise you to tell her. The asking her to hang out thing can be seen as just being friendly because I've asked men of the opposite gender to hang out with me out of sheer interest in friendship with them.
Posted by yourtypicalcancer
and just a curious question how do Aqua girls show that they are attracted to a guy? Or do they even :/ ?
Well, I can only speak for myself. When I was younger, I was painfully shy and didn't show or do anything that exposed my interest. Now, I'm a completely different person. If I like someone, I tell them straight up that I find them attractive and would like to have coffee with them or whatever hang out because I don't want to leave any room for guessing. This way either I know for sure the guy likes me or he doesn't.
Posted by aquarius09
My romantic history is filled with cancerians, so I'll tell you the problem that this pairing faces and that's take off. Cancerians will be nice and do nice things, which you do with others as well. Aquas don't know what to make of your nice gestures: "are you nice with everyone, which you are, or just me?" We need clearrrrrr indication of romantic interest otherwise we don't get it and move on. We don't get stuck on crushes the way cancers do. All the cancerian guys that had a crush on me in the past didn't communicate their interest in me. They did incredibly nice things for me and I had an idea that perhaps they liked me, , but I never acted on my intuition because it's just a gut feeling, nothing concrete. I do nice things for people without liking them and so unless someone explicitly tells me they like me, I don't assume they have a crush on me. Anyway, cancerians never explicitly told me and I got tired and we drifted apart. Then, years later when I came across these guys, they would tell me how they had a crush on me but couldn't communicate it to me out of shyness or fear of rejection. You snooze, you lose. Tell her you like her. We are direct communicators and love it when people tell us clearly what they want.you must have a strong 4th house and/or 7th, aqua09....since you like cancers/libra combo. 😄
Yeah, I like men in general irrespective of their sign. The market I attract the most is comprised of libras and cancers. The last guy before I met my Aries was a cancer sun and libra moon. I was getting both in one package. LOL. That's why nothing came of that one.
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it's either Sylvestor Stallone type of cancer/libra OR Alan Turing type, also cancer/libra
both so DIFFERENT. lol
ops 2X stallone lol
this is Alan Turing:
Posted by yourtypicalcancer
and just a curious question how do Aqua girls show that they are attracted to a guy? Or do they even :/ ?
i need a connection in my case.
when i first laid eyes on my first husband (Pisces sun, mercury, mars, aries venus/leo moon) i fell in love the first time in my lfe!!!!
i knew deep down i was gonna marry him. and i did.
my current husband i just also knew....i had this "connection" ....that i knew him from a past life. that i was meant to be with him. and it's true.
Posted by lisabethur8
ops 2X stallone lolthis is Alan Turing:
The cancer libra I knew last was Alan Turing type. He was Stallone type, I wouldn't have given up so easily.
That explains why I am so attracted to Sly Stallone!
My main love for life will be RObert Downey Jr. I believe he's an aries stellium.
Posted by aquarius09
That explains why I am so attracted to Sly Stallone!
the genius Alan Turing does nothing?? 😛
he's aqua dominant. 😄
Posted by lisabethur8
ops 2X stallone lolthis is Alan Turing:
The cancer libra I knew last was Alan Turing type. He was Stallone type, I wouldn't have given up so easily.
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guess not. 😆
zzzzzzz
Posted by aquarius09
That explains why I am so attracted to Sly Stallone!the genius Alan Turing does nothing?? 😛
he's aqua dominant. 😄
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It's said that Aqua dominant people are a bore. I guess it's true. I'm more a RObert Downey personality minus the drugs and jail time. LOL. That's why RDJ appeals to me.
Posted by aquarius09
That explains why I am so attracted to Sly Stallone!the genius Alan Turing does nothing?? 😛
he's aqua dominant. 😄
It's said that Aqua dominant people are a bore. I guess it's true. I'm more a RObert Downey personality minus the drugs and jail time. LOL. That's why RDJ appeals to me.
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it's PART of the package with Downey Jr.
he got that way to prison and drugs because of who he is....
something some guys dont have. 😛
Posted by aquarius09
That explains why I am so attracted to Sly Stallone!the genius Alan Turing does nothing?? 😛
he's aqua dominant. 😄
It's said that Aqua dominant people are a bore. I guess it's true. I'm more a RObert Downey personality minus the drugs and jail time. LOL. That's why RDJ appeals to me.
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pooor Alan Turing....
he is a good guy though.
he was a real gentleman in the film and treated people really great.
*ahem*
i hope OP got some good info in here.
we still haven't gotten his personal planets, except for cancer moon and what's his lady love?
Posted by aquarius09
My romantic history is filled with cancerians, so I'll tell you the problem that this pairing faces and that's take off. Cancerians will be nice and do nice things, which you do with others as well. Aquas don't know what to make of your nice gestures: "are you nice with everyone, which you are, or just me?" We need clearrrrrr indication of romantic interest otherwise we don't get it and move on. We don't get stuck on crushes the way cancers do. All the cancerian guys that had a crush on me in the past didn't communicate their interest in me. They did incredibly nice things for me and I had an idea that perhaps they liked me, , but I never acted on my intuition because it's just a gut feeling, nothing concrete. I do nice things for people without liking them and so unless someone explicitly tells me they like me, I don't assume they have a crush on me. Anyway, cancerians never explicitly told me and I got tired and we drifted apart. Then, years later when I came across these guys, they would tell me how they had a crush on me but couldn't communicate it to me out of shyness or fear of rejection. You snooze, you lose. Tell her you like her. We are direct communicators and love it when people tell us clearly what they want.you must have a strong 4th house and/or 7th, aqua09....since you like cancers/libra combo. 😄
Yeah, I like men in general irrespective of their sign. The market I attract the most is comprised of libras and cancers. The last guy before I met my Aries was a cancer sun and libra moon. I was getting both in one package. LOL. That's why nothing came of that one.
it's either Sylvestor Stallone type of cancer/libra OR Alan Turing type, also cancer/libra
both so DIFFERENT. lol
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but Alan Turing's side part tho
Posted by yourtypicalcancer
I have been crushing on this aquarius girl for like 4 months now and at first we were talking a lot and she went out of her way to care for me and i was happy and everything. I thought that maybe this time this bond could grow without all the sadness. I was wrong. She left for camp for the weekend during the end of November and then everything slowed down. We stopped talking to each other daily, sometimes we just dont talk at all. Although I asked her to hangout with me individually and she did during the end of december, but we dont talk to each other when we see each other at school. I text her from time to time and so times her replies are really "conversation-ending". We were supposed to hang out this weekend but she cancelled it and decided to stay home and chill instead of seeing me. Is this a good sign 😢?Honestly, if someone wants to spend time with you they will otherwise they probably don't care that much about you. I'd let it go.
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ya i was thinking about that which made me upset :
Posted by lisabethur8
*ahem*i hope OP got some good info in here.
we still haven't gotten his personal planets, except for cancer moon and what's his lady love?
Thanks for staying on topic xD
Here is my chart
Sun: Cancer
Moon: Cancer
Mercury: Leo
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Cancer
Jupiter: Pisces
Saturn: Taurus
Uranus: Aqua
Neptune: Aqua
Pluto: Sagit
Lilith: Libra
Ascnode: Virgo
And for her, I never really did bother asking for hers because she told me she doesnt believe in it :/
Posted by lisabethur8
*ahem*i hope OP got some good info in here.
we still haven't gotten his personal planets, except for cancer moon and what's his lady love?
Thanks for staying on topic xD
Here is my chart
Sun: Cancer
Moon: Cancer
Mercury: Leo
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Cancer
Jupiter: Pisces
Saturn: Taurus
Uranus: Aqua
Neptune: Aqua
Pluto: Sagit
Lilith: Libra
Ascnode: VirgoAnd for her, I never really did bother asking for hers because she told me she doesnt believe in it :/
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well you can just put her bday on astrotheme or astro.com or cafeastrology.com,
Posted by lisabethur8
*ahem*i hope OP got some good info in here.
we still haven't gotten his personal planets, except for cancer moon and what's his lady love?
Thanks for staying on topic xD
Here is my chart
Sun: Cancer
Moon: Cancer
Mercury: Leo
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Cancer
Jupiter: Pisces
Saturn: Taurus
Uranus: Aqua
Neptune: Aqua
Pluto: Sagit
Lilith: Libra
Ascnode: VirgoAnd for her, I never really did bother asking for hers because she told me she doesnt believe in it :/
well you can just put her bday on astrotheme or astro.com or cafeastrology.com,
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without knowing her specific birth time this is wat i have gotten out of cafeastrology
Sun: Aqua
Moon: Leo
Mercury: Aqua
Venus: Capri
Mars: Pisces
Jupiter: Pisces
Saturn: Aries
Uranus: Aqua
Neptune: Aqua
Pluto: Sagit
Lilith: Libra
Ascnode: Virgo
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Peaced
I dont want to let go so :< r u also cancer?
Posted by yourtypicalcancer
I have been crushing on this aquarius girl for like 4 months now and at first we were talking a lot and she went out of her way to care for me and i was happy and everything. I thought that maybe this time this bond could grow without all the sadness. I was wrong. She left for camp for the weekend during the end of November and then everything slowed down. We stopped talking to each other daily, sometimes we just dont talk at all. Although I asked her to hangout with me individually and she did during the end of december, but we dont talk to each other when we see each other at school. I text her from time to time and so times her replies are really "conversation-ending". We were supposed to hang out this weekend but she cancelled it and decided to stay home and chill instead of seeing me. Is this a good sign 😢?Honestly, if someone wants to spend time with you they will otherwise they probably don't care that much about you. I'd let it go.
click to expandya i was thinking about that which made me upset :
wellllllllll......*sigh*
she is not fervently wanting to be with you....
that's not a good sign.
i know you dont want to let go....but if you keep this up you will just end up hurt.
Posted by yourtypicalcancer
I have been crushing on this aquarius girl for like 4 months now and at first we were talking a lot and she went out of her way to care for me and i was happy and everything. I thought that maybe this time this bond could grow without all the sadness. I was wrong. She left for camp for the weekend during the end of November and then everything slowed down. We stopped talking to each other daily, sometimes we just dont talk at all. Although I asked her to hangout with me individually and she did during the end of december, but we dont talk to each other when we see each other at school. I text her from time to time and so times her replies are really "conversation-ending". We were supposed to hang out this weekend but she cancelled it and decided to stay home and chill instead of seeing me. Is this a good sign 😢?Honestly, if someone wants to spend time with you they will otherwise they probably don't care that much about you. I'd let it go.
ya i was thinking about that which made me upset :
wellllllllll......*sigh*
she is not fervently wanting to be with you....
that's not a good sign.
i know you dont want to let go....but if you keep this up you will just end up hurt.
click to expandits just that i find myself reminiscing about the good times and sweet times that we have shared. And I find it hard to let go of good memories
i know...but you can try and be persistent if you want.
if she comes around, she will.
she has that mars pisces...she will appreciate a sensitive sweet man who cares.
leo moon...well... for a woman..not sure.
Posted by lisabethur8
i know...but you can try and be persistent if you want.if she comes around, she will.
she has that mars pisces...she will appreciate a sensitive sweet man who cares.
leo moon...well... for a woman..not sure.
I feel like she comes around for like 2 days and leaves for 2 years... Thats the thing with her and that is why I find it hard to keep her around to let things grow.
Why?
cause she would rather chill alone than to see me.
but i know that a lot of aqua need their space so :/
for example I have this one aqua male friend who would literally block everyone off and including his gf at times when he needs his space
Why?
cause she would rather chill alone than to see me.
but i know that a lot of aqua need their space so :/
for example I have this one aqua male friend who would literally block everyone off and including his gf at times when he needs his space
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alot of people do that. not just this sign.
my husband, if he wants his alone time, space, he just doesn't have to say anything. he wants to be left alone. I mean he is home, with me, but he wants to be alone. but also he doesn't want to be away from me.
your girl is not with you though....
so she needs to make an EFFORT to be with you anyway.
some reciprocation.
Posted by lisabethur8
i know...but you can try and be persistent if you want.if she comes around, she will.
she has that mars pisces...she will appreciate a sensitive sweet man who cares.
leo moon...well... for a woman..not sure.
I feel like she comes around for like 2 days and leaves for 2 years... Thats the thing with her and that is why I find it hard to keep her around to let things grow.
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Yeah, I'm like that with cancerians. I'll see them once or twice and then they'll see me like 6 months later. The reason is you guys are too passive for aquas. You need to do something or say something to intrigue our curiosity for us to come back for more. You don't do that and we see you once in a while. The least you can do is ask for her to come back and visit you or whatever. If she doesn't reciprocate, then you gotta go bold and tell her straight up that you're interested in her. If she doesn't reciprocate that, then move on.
Posted by lisabethur8
i know...but you can try and be persistent if you want.if she comes around, she will.
she has that mars pisces...she will appreciate a sensitive sweet man who cares.
leo moon...well... for a woman..not sure.
I feel like she comes around for like 2 days and leaves for 2 years... Thats the thing with her and that is why I find it hard to keep her around to let things grow.
Yeah, I'm like that with cancerians. I'll see them once or twice and then they'll see me like 6 months later. The reason is you guys are too passive for aquas. You need to do something or say something to intrigue our curiosity for us to come back for more. You don't do that and we see you once in a while. The least you can do is ask for her to come back and visit you or whatever. If she doesn't reciprocate, then you gotta go bold and tell her straight up that you're interested in her. If she doesn't reciprocate that, then move on.
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the aqua girl he's with has pisces mars....
and cap venus.
leo moon is not passive...
but pisces mars of hers, will WANT a sensitive sweet guy. I know from my sister's choice with her pisces mars, and from researching other celebs, peeps who have pisces mars... they NEED the sensitive sweet guys..
12th house mars act similar. and she doesn't have an aries venus, so her flirting style is NOT aggressive/assertive.
there is something else that is not connecting.
oooohhhhhhhh the combination of her leo moon and cap venus may not like you, OP....
maybe because you dont make her PROUD of you.
like there is something about you she dont like or approve or just dont find that connect that would APPEASE her.
capricorn loves someone who can be there, for her, supportive, (go to cap forum)
and leo (go to leo forum) from what i've noticed, they want to be with someone they are PROUD of....it could be anything ....proud of your accomplishments, proud of you as a person, ANYTHING that makes them happy.
and honestly i dont think you're fitting the bill 😢
Posted by lisabethur8
i know...but you can try and be persistent if you want.if she comes around, she will.
she has that mars pisces...she will appreciate a sensitive sweet man who cares.
leo moon...well... for a woman..not sure.
I feel like she comes around for like 2 days and leaves for 2 years... Thats the thing with her and that is why I find it hard to keep her around to let things grow.
Yeah, I'm like that with cancerians. I'll see them once or twice and then they'll see me like 6 months later. The reason is you guys are too passive for aquas. You need to do something or say something to intrigue our curiosity for us to come back for more. You don't do that and we see you once in a while. The least you can do is ask for her to come back and visit you or whatever. If she doesn't reciprocate, then you gotta go bold and tell her straight up that you're interested in her. If she doesn't reciprocate that, then move on.
the aqua girl he's with has pisces mars....
and cap venus.leo moon is not passive...
but pisces mars of hers, will WANT a sensitive sweet guy. I know from my sister's choice with her pisces mars, and from researching other celebs, peeps who have pisces mars... they NEED the sensitive sweet guys..
12th house mars act similar. and she doesn't have an aries venus, so her flirting style is NOT aggressive/assertive.
there is something else that is not connecting.
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I like sweet, sensitive guys as well, but these guys are usually veryyyyyyyy shy, inhibited and passive that the ship sails away or the attraction fades away. He needs to seize the moment, own it.
Given that there's physical attraction and emotional, a woman can be attracted to any type of guy: confident and assertive or shy and quiet. It's how you approach the situation that makes or breaks the deal.
Posted by lisabethur8
i know...but you can try and be persistent if you want.if she comes around, she will.
she has that mars pisces...she will appreciate a sensitive sweet man who cares.
leo moon...well... for a woman..not sure.
I feel like she comes around for like 2 days and leaves for 2 years... Thats the thing with her and that is why I find it hard to keep her around to let things grow.
Yeah, I'm like that with cancerians. I'll see them once or twice and then they'll see me like 6 months later. The reason is you guys are too passive for aquas. You need to do something or say something to intrigue our curiosity for us to come back for more. You don't do that and we see you once in a while. The least you can do is ask for her to come back and visit you or whatever. If she doesn't reciprocate, then you gotta go bold and tell her straight up that you're interested in her. If she doesn't reciprocate that, then move on.
the aqua girl he's with has pisces mars....
and cap venus.leo moon is not passive...
but pisces mars of hers, will WANT a sensitive sweet guy. I know from my sister's choice with her pisces mars, and from researching other celebs, peeps who have pisces mars... they NEED the sensitive sweet guys..
12th house mars act similar. and she doesn't have an aries venus, so her flirting style is NOT aggressive/assertive.
there is something else that is not connecting.
I like sweet, sensitive guys as well, but these guys are usually veryyyyyyyy shy, inhibited and passive that the ship sails away or the attraction fades away. He needs to seize the moment, own it.
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ooooh... hmm OP isn't very fiery is he??
Op, are your planets in a fire house? that would HELP alot.
well it doesn't matter cause he isn't doing anything....so null.
Posted by lisabethur8
well it doesn't matter cause he isn't doing anything....so null.
That's usually the problem with cancer men. They'll do all these nice things for you and expect you to assume that they like you from that. Meanwhile, aquas do nice things for people without liking them so it doesn't even occur to them that "Hey, perhaps he likes me and that's why he's doing those nice things for me."
Posted by lisabethur8
well it doesn't matter cause he isn't doing anything....so null.That's usually the problem with cancer men. They'll do all these nice things for you and expect you to assume that they like you from that. Meanwhile, aquas do nice things for people without liking them so it doesn't even occur to them that "Hey, perhaps he likes me and that's why he's doing those nice things for me."
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but cancer is a cardinal sign, and he's got ALOT of cancer in him. lol
and he's gonna do something.
i dunno...
my man is a 4th house dominant. lol
but he is fire dominant so he chased me down and never gave up. but then again, i showed interest, or else he wouldnt bother.
😛
it's hard to pinpoint. cause every guy is different.
the title is so appropriate 😛
"weird" situation is "weird" 😆
Posted by lisabethur8
well it doesn't matter cause he isn't doing anything....so null.That's usually the problem with cancer men. They'll do all these nice things for you and expect you to assume that they like you from that. Meanwhile, aquas do nice things for people without liking them so it doesn't even occur to them that "Hey, perhaps he likes me and that's why he's doing those nice things for me."
but cancer is a cardinal sign, and he's got ALOT of cancer in him. lol
and he's gonna do something.
i dunno...
my man is a 4th house dominant. lol
but he is fire dominant so he chased me down and never gave up. but then again, i showed interest, or else he wouldnt bother.
😛it's hard to pinpoint. cause every guy is different.
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Surprisingly, cancers are cardinal and so are Libras and I just don't get how!!! To be cardinal, you have to take charge and I find neither sign takes charge. Both signs are freaking indecisive as hell. Almost always on the fence or second guessing themselves and need reassurances to take charge.
Posted by aquarius09
My romantic history is filled with cancerians, so I'll tell you the problem that this pairing faces and that's take off. Cancerians will be nice and do nice things, which you do with others as well. Aquas don't know what to make of your nice gestures: "are you nice with everyone, which you are, or just me?" We need clearrrrrr indication of romantic interest otherwise we don't get it and move on. We don't get stuck on crushes the way cancers do. All the cancerian guys that had a crush on me in the past didn't communicate their interest in me. They did incredibly nice things for me and I had an idea that perhaps they liked me, , but I never acted on my intuition because it's just a gut feeling, nothing concrete. I do nice things for people without liking them and so unless someone explicitly tells me they like me, I don't assume they have a crush on me. Anyway, cancerians never explicitly told me and I got tired and we drifted apart. Then, years later when I came across these guys, they would tell me how they had a crush on me but couldn't communicate it to me out of shyness or fear of rejection. You snooze, you lose. Tell her you like her. We are direct communicators and love it when people tell us clearly what they want.you must have a strong 4th house and/or 7th, aqua09....since you like cancers/libra combo. 😄
Yeah, I like men in general irrespective of their sign. The market I attract the most is comprised of libras and cancers. The last guy before I met my Aries was a cancer sun and libra moon. I was getting both in one package. LOL. That's why nothing came of that one.
Aries now huh? lol
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Yeah, Aries took charge and I obliged. The cancer just danced around me and my interest dissipated.
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I have been crushing on this aquarius girl for like 4 months now and at first we were talking a lot and she went out of her way to care for me and i was happy and everything. I thought that maybe this time this bond could grow without all the sadness. I was wrong. She left for camp for the weekend during the end of November and then everything slowed down. We stopped talking to each other daily, sometimes we just dont talk at all. Although I asked her to hangout with me individually and she did during the end of december, but we dont talk to each other when we see each other at school. I text her from time to time and so times her replies are really "conversation-ending". We were supposed to hang out this weekend but she cancelled it and decided to stay home and chill instead of seeing me. Is this a good sign 😢?