The feeling of feeling dumb

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Wanderlustcancerian24
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Yeah, I definitely feel dumb. So I work with this gemini guy, and I think he’s cute (most of them are) lol. Anyway, he’s kind of flirty with me, and I have seen him like that with any other girl..... but i do realize just have a flirty nature. So he sends me a private message on our work app asking for hours of operation and it kind of confused me as to why he asked me, when his good friend works with us or he could’ve just simply asked the group. He adds me on FB the same day which was weird to me, because I hadn’t even known him but a few days. So it thought that was really friendly but whatever. Well last week we add each other on snapchat and after our shift I asked if he wanted to get a drink with me. His response was that he was already headed back home or he’d totally be up for it, but he would like to rain check. So my libra friend comes by the my job to see me the other day and she asked what was up with me and that guy and I asked what she meant. She stated he was flirting with me and asked if I was into him and I played it off but she could tell I was. She tells me to go for it and I’m a little hesitant but she stated to atleast try. I get that dating people you work with can be messy, so idk why I sent him what I did. But I send him this funny meme that says “guess who thinks you’re cute” and the stick figure is pointing to itself. He read it and didn’t respond. Lol so basically now he knows I think he’s cute, which I think he’s known that but I just confirmed it🤦🏾‍♀️. I feel dumb, and obviously I was curved. I’m so awkward that I’m not sure how to act when I see him again at work. Obviously I’m not going to bring it up... but I’m really bad at pretending things never happened lol. What’s the best way to avoid any awkwardness!? I’m more so venting, so I thank anyone who took the time to read this. Lol