The reason this Cancer males stays single

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LOL!

How goes it with the Aries?

@Ram416

Same-o, same-o with the Aries girl. Our careers keep us on opposite ends of the state, but I'm trying to convince her to join my online game so we could spend more time together. She's more into shooters than the dragon slaying fantasy games I am into though, but I'm not giving up!

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@Ram416

Same-o, same-o with the Aries girl. Our careers keep us on opposite ends of the state, but I'm trying to convince her to join my online game so we could spend more time together. She's more into shooters than the dragon slaying fantasy games I am into though, but I'm not giving up!

Shooter games are more fun though 😢

But keep trying!

I don't get it.

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@Ram416

Same-o, same-o with the Aries girl. Our careers keep us on opposite ends of the state, but I'm trying to convince her to join my online game so we could spend more time together. She's more into shooters than the dragon slaying fantasy games I am into though, but I'm not giving up!

Shooter games are more fun though 😢

But keep trying!

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Those were her exact words!

I told her to at least try the free 30-day subscription, and to give me that time to win her over. She is interested in tanking and PvP. What a surprise there, right? Such an Aries that woman.

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@Ram416

Same-o, same-o with the Aries girl. Our careers keep us on opposite ends of the state, but I'm trying to convince her to join my online game so we could spend more time together. She's more into shooters than the dragon slaying fantasy games I am into though, but I'm not giving up!

Shooter games are more fun though 😢

But keep trying!

Those were her exact words!

I told her to at least try the free 30-day subscription, and to give me that time to win her over. She is interested in tanking and PvP. What a surprise there, right? Such an Aries that woman.

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Damn, dude. I'm Aries as well but wasn't really into tanking. Was mostly DPS/support with occasional offside tanking. Never MT.

You have a keeper!

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@Ram416

Same-o, same-o with the Aries girl. Our careers keep us on opposite ends of the state, but I'm trying to convince her to join my online game so we could spend more time together. She's more into shooters than the dragon slaying fantasy games I am into though, but I'm not giving up!

Are you trying to pursue an aries girl? how's it going??

I'm currently trying to pursue a cancer guy but he is a very tough shell to crack! Can be kind of mean sometimes too :/ Not sure if it's a defence mechanism of his or something

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Kinda. It's very casual between her and I. Both her and I have done the long distance thing before, and know to be careful how much to invest emotionally. She's gorgeous though, and drives me nuts. Her British accent and sass does not help. I'd be lying if I said I'm not already somewhat emotionally invested in her. Just don't tell her that! My biggest worry with her is she talks about going back home. It's what holds me back.

Many people underestimate just how aggressive a Cancer sun placement can be. Yes, they can be the most loving creatures you've ever had in your life, but dem claws tho. If you carry the sensitive characteristic your sign is known for, a Cancerian can come off quite mean from time to time. However, I should warn that Cancers are emotionally intelligent, and the pain they inflict is usually intentional even if they say it wasn't.

The fact that they can be so loving, and in a snap become this cold, dark, someone else is very hurtful. The toughness of the shell is fortified from what the crab has gone through. The more they've been hurt, the tougher the shell. And they get hurt by misplaced trust. Keep that in mind. You'll know when you're in when he allows himself to be vulnerable with you.

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@Ram416

Same-o, same-o with the Aries girl. Our careers keep us on opposite ends of the state, but I'm trying to convince her to join my online game so we could spend more time together. She's more into shooters than the dragon slaying fantasy games I am into though, but I'm not giving up!

Shooter games are more fun though 😢

But keep trying!

Those were her exact words!

I told her to at least try the free 30-day subscription, and to give me that time to win her over. She is interested in tanking and PvP. What a surprise there, right? Such an Aries that woman.

Damn, dude. I'm Aries as well but wasn't really into tanking. Was mostly DPS/support with occasional offside tanking. Never MT.

You have a keeper!

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In this game, she is interested in the warrior class, which is an off tank. It's known for dealing out ridiculous damage while OT, but can switch to a defensive MT on the fly that STILL deals ridiculous damage. She says most tanks are too slow, and she always steals hate as DPS anyway, so might as well be a tank. I've seen her in action too, and I feel really bad for her opposition, whoever it is. I'm not kidding.

I might win this one because she initially thought I would want her to be a healer/support of some sort, but needless to say, this is the role I prefer. But she is like you, and likes to cause ridiculous amounts of damage. She also can't deal with cast times, so prefers melee classes, which are typically DPS as well.

Believe me man, it's taking a lot to keep the emotional level at the point she is comfortable with. Otherwise I would move WAY too fast. She could be gone on a 'morrows notice.

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@Ram416

Same-o, same-o with the Aries girl. Our careers keep us on opposite ends of the state, but I'm trying to convince her to join my online game so we could spend more time together. She's more into shooters than the dragon slaying fantasy games I am into though, but I'm not giving up!

Are you trying to pursue an aries girl? how's it going??

I'm currently trying to pursue a cancer guy but he is a very tough shell to crack! Can be kind of mean sometimes too :/ Not sure if it's a defence mechanism of his or something

Kinda. It's very casual between her and I. Both her and I have done the long distance thing before, and know to be careful how much to invest emotionally. She's gorgeous though, and drives me nuts. Her British accent and sass does not help. I'd be lying if I said I'm not already somewhat emotionally invested in her. Just don't tell her that! My biggest worry with her is she talks about going back home. It's what holds me back.

Many people underestimate just how aggressive a Cancer sun placement can be. Yes, they can be the most loving creatures you've ever had in your life, but dem claws tho. If you carry the sensitive characteristic your sign is known for, a Cancerian can come off quite mean from time to time. However, I should warn that Cancers are emotionally intelligent, and the pain they inflict is usually intentional even if they say it wasn't.

The fact that they can be so loving, and in a snap become this cold, dark, someone else is very hurtful. The toughness of the shell is fortified from what the crab has gone through. The more they've been hurt, the tougher the shell. And they get hurt by misplaced trust. Keep that in mind. You'll know when you're in when he allows himself to be vulnerable with you.

Oh :/ Good luck! I hope you can talk to her about it, at least then you know whats going on in her mind and she knows what you're thinking.

I see what you mean. I'll have to be patient then! Is there anything else I can do?

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Time will tell.

As for if there is anything else you can do, there is. Make him want you. If you have read the other posts in this thread you will see that I am mentioning things about the Aries girl that she does that makes me willing to invest in her. Cancer feel first, and think next. Gotta make him feel for you before he thinks about you.