To pursue or not to pursue...that is the question?

I have a opportunity to pursue my cancer interest via the internet.....I have the upper hand as I know its him and he would not know its me.....should I....I know they like to be pursued and like a challenge....

What do you cancer males and woman who have had experience with the male cancer think....should I go for it and chalk it up to fate and destiny? your input would be greatly appreciated!!!

I am an aries....not sure what moon sign I am... one part of me wants to contact him and the other part says it would not be a wise strategic move...you know us aries we like to win (lol) and I don't want to hurt him in anyway

With everything I have read on these boards it seems like they want a challenge but they want honesty....it seems like a no win situation....damned if I do damned if I don't....

Its really a hard path to tread....and I don't want to make a mistake that cannot be repaired.....but then I hate the idea of him finding someone else....its bizarre I know but I guess love makes you do funny things (lol)

cheeky stop it, you sound desperate and that will come across online with mr.cancer.

your playing with fire, if you want him then be upfront about it, you can still pursue but not under the pretenses that you have set up....your setting yourself up to be rejected especially if he walks away feeling manipulated, come from behind the mask, find out were he hangs out, pop up and start a casual encounter and see were it leads you...have confidence in yourself that you can snag this man face to face and he will pick up on it and become attracted to it, first you have to find out if he's interested before pursuit and doing it online isn't the best way to go about it, its a false sense of emotion, if you know he hangs out at a local place then seek him out and see what chemistry you have and this will tell you if you should pursue or let it go.

Your an Aries right? So be the warrior woman that you are and conquer that ass lol!!

My birthdate is april 13, 1964....his birthdate is june 22, 1965...

Thanks for your help!

I agree with TIkki,

U have 2 speak 2 a Cancer man straight from your heart. No hiding or assuming. In small amounts 2 I may add. 2 much will make him nut up 4 a couple hours. But, all U have 2 do is B honest and give him time 2 process it instead of pressure him and if he wants the same thing. He will come back around REAL soon. NO withdrawing if U go ahead and B honest. Don't B fake, B real. Just remember, ever conversation that U have with him is going 2 B a test. LOL! It just comes natural 2 him, but U have 2 B able 2 pick up what he is doing and don't bite real quick. Think about it. And if U R honest. He will fall head over heals 4 U. And U have 2 let him feel needed. No, it does not mean, don't show interest and ignore him. Ignoring him is not good. U can, but he will get drained from that treatment. If U want a relationship. Tell him U want a relationship. That U R not a sexual contact and any and everything that enters your heart, mind, body and soul has GOT 2 mean something 2 U. If he does not want the same thing. Back off! Tell him up front and he will come around REAL quick. Play his game until U can get the feel of him, then don't play games with him once U have his attention. Just challenge him with every test. If U R aware of what he is doing. It will come natural 2 U 2 just go with the flow.

Luckystar!
I know my moon but can U help me find my Cancers moon. Can I text U. Oh by the way. I just told U how 2 stop the back and forth treatment. Try it.

cancers are ridiculously hard to get a hold of but let me know how it goes....
Um, not when U get the feel of them. No, it is not. U have 2 B honest and trust him with your heart. B completely vulnerable. No don't sit up telling him U love him. But, show him that U do with your ways. He has got 2 feel needed. And 2 know what a man needs 2 feel needed just text me. I will tell U. Cancers test U. If U slip, they take a break, or they R out. They come back, but if something better comes along. U R hit.

Krobe, sent you a email...thanks for your assistance.....I know I can't change who I am but if I can understand him better I will be able to be ready when he tests me....I thankfully believe honesty is the best policy....maybe its because my dad was a cancer that I can feel there is something so much deeper underneath this mans surface and that he is really sensitive....its such a strong feeling I can't describe it and I can't understand it either.....love is a funny thing!

All you knowledge will help and its great that you are taking the time to help others with what you have learned with your own relationship

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Hey ALL ladies. Don't B offended but I cannot send any more emails. My email address is krobe03@yahoo.com. I can answer all question then. I will copy and paste your msgs and reply from my email address once U send me an email.