that cancer gyu w/the scorpion girl prt.2

okok everyone im sorry....... i make mistakes...alot of them.....but
as u all know she still hasent completly given up on me because, I think that she still has hope for me .... sorta
but theirs something that I need help with again
if u gys are interested again to here what happend know
u know where im at

thanks

lol....i wanna know

whats that branh? my tooth hurts

hmph....oh ok Branh

which if they are using MUGEN they probably don't since they are "sampling"....otherwise they would create their own

well im not a mugen creator but i now ppl who doo but anyways

hi scop* nice to hear from u again

okok here the sad truth again but
it wierd I know this is it !!!!!!!!!
the last hope and chance shell give me!!!
ok well i actually talked to her and told her everything that you suggested and she was like
well i can kinda see youve been doing alot of thinking and bla bla bla
but it was all good right .......BUT !!!!
before that
my stoooopid ass was talikng to some guy that I thought liked her and i was like
hey do u like her
he was like
i used to but not anymore
iwas like phew BUT then she found out and thought i was like being kinda stokerish (kinda was)
so she got mad at me (btw this just happend like 1 hour ago)
she said though
"im getting real fed up with this shit"
so that kinda was like HEY WAKE UP
i figure she ment that she was very upset with me but not completly hated me
so (as of yesterday) i wasnt going to talk to her and give her her space(deja vu huh) finally so she could go like a week w/o my
problems and dramma but then this happend
so now im just going to wit it out
and not even call like I used to ..to apolagize
but the question here is if you think that
i shouldnt do anything and let time fix this and show her that i can
be pacient finnally
or doo you think that giving her a week of complete avoidness is a good idea—?

Oh Mugen ((slap across the face))

why are u so worried about these other guys? give me a break...SHE DOES NOT WANT THEM!!! your lack of self confidence is what is having her say that she is tired of this shit.

She wants a strong man. My only advice to u is to grow up. Unfortunately, u will not be able to do this overnight. And I suspect that you will lose her, and you will look back at this relationship and learn from it and it will only be then that u will actually grow up. thats how i learned! i don't want to upset u in any way, but u simply are not ready. let her go, u are going in an endless cycle of this jealousy. u want to learn the hard way, and i'm sure u r breaking her heart in the process. u r unhealthy and its not going to work while u are like this.

but please, tell me what the cause of the insecurity is kel? what is it that you feel that u cannot give her but another man can?

u should really take it as a compliment that all these guys are attracted to the girl U are banging...lol

she obviously is a very attractive girl and has a lot of guys that she can choose from. just remember she chose U, so stop being a butthead!!

keep on with this behavior and u will lose her and ur gonna kick urself in the ass. but if u need time to figure urself out and take care of yourself, please let her know. tell her that u love her and that u need time to figure yourself out and that u dont want to continue to hurt her with ur stupid behavior. scorpios likes when u open up to them and she will respect your honesty. but u first have to be honest with yourself and discover the real reason as to why u are behaving in this way and whatever the reason is, fix it.

ur looking for a quick answer to do damage control. it wont work Kel.

man Lady scorp***
I LOVE YOU!!!!
i swear i bet ur lika a love phycologist or something
ok ok well i totaly undersatnd the whole thing about me leting her go and thats how im going to learn how to grow up
but i know that im growing up but its just hard to show it to her that..
i know that if i let here go it would break my heart
but ive been in way more relationships than her and have had my heart broken
i still belive that she cares about me and that why i havent heard "get the fuck out of my life"(dramatic but true)
line. i like talkng to you because u always have something meaningfull to tell me.
i dont want to break her heart and i havent asked her that ... maybe if i doo i might get an awser that will surprise me .... i donno
btw to awnser your Qs
i just have a feeling that someone else will try to make a move on her and THEY ARE !!!!!!
man it sucks that she has such a playfull nature that gyus tend to think she likes them!!!!!
you know I dont think thats theres anything that ANY!! gyu can give her ...that i cant top
it just that ive been calling her sooo much messaging her alot talking to her friends alot
that makes her not want to talk to me or hang out with me .......
but you know what, theres one thing that i want to give her that i cant
and thats a friendship like we used to have
like i said ....she has such a playfull nature and she doesnt want to explore that side with me
anymore, she just talks to me to tell me what im doing wrong

does she need time away from me!!!!
do you think this week w/o my bitching will help lol

lady scorp - you are confusing mugen with kel19

yeah i was wondering who kel waas
im sergio (real name)

xangel....lol oops, its sooo late here....but i dont want to go to sleep...

Sorry Mugen....let me get myself togehter....i am very far from a love pyschologist....i've just been thru this before and giving u some insight.

i think i thought i was talking to kel but i remember mugen's story very clearly. i just kept calling mugen kel for some reason.

heheheh
understadable
so can u continue with ur infinite wisdom
please

I'm not diminishing what can be done with mugen - I'm simply agreeing with you that if those same people had more experience with programming they wouldn't need mugen and you are correct that they would produce greater quality.....
but of course it IS a foot in the door - to use another music analogy - it's like cutting a demo in your garage, you start with a sub-par product to show the potential you have - that gets you opportunities.same with video gaming - you can create a game with an engine like mugen and use it like your "demo" to get into the industry, learn, network, do what you have to to get farther.

but I apologize to mugen - this thread was not created to talk about gaming

branh....oh you don't know scorpio women.....

wrong again branh - I am NOT a pisces.....I am a taurus

Lady scorp - I KNOW ! I'm from jersey originally....and I don't sleep either

the power thing is true [sorry lady scorp....] but it's not real love - it's an illusion...AND you are wrong about making them think other women want you.....you will only piss them off....

all i can say mugen is that i don't see u magically being confident and not being jealous. that is something that comes with time and experience.

my feeling is that you will lose her, and most likely she will have to tell u to get the fuck out of her life. and u will break the poor girl's heart because she will not understand why u are being like this. but u will both learn from this relationship and become better people. i truly believe the relationships that did not work for us are meant to prepare us to be that perfect person for that special one.

she may just be one of those ppl that is supposed to help u grow. i think u need more than a week. u need like months, maybe even years. there's nothing u can do or say to her that will suddenly change everything.

u keep thinking she needs time away from u...but really Mugen, u need time away from her. this is very unhealthy, and she sees u are unhealthy and she doesnt want to get infected. lol....u need to be quarantined.

i do strongly suggest u do let her go and sit her down and explain, but i doubt u will do this because i dont think u are ready to admit it. don't let it turn really bad Mugen. she will respect u if u do it this way....trust me.

I think I know my own sign.....

the power thing is true [sorry lady scorp....]

why are u apologizing xangel?

I know that scorpios like to be in control....but I have recently watched my best friend lose ALL control of herself over a sag.......and she called me crying last night because she said she felt so pathetic for feeling hurt and letting him have so much control over her.....

thank you Branh....I needed a good laugh

yes, i do like to be in control 99% of the time. but sometimes i like to have someone else take control. but that does not mean i want a weak man that i can control....no way...total turnoff. i want a strong man...mentally and physically!!

wow .....
thankyou so much
i think that ur right though
i cant admit it to myself but I doo want to grt her to sit down with me
but your right maybe shes not he one for me but
is it wrong for me to choose to belive that she is —?
i dunno but i will try to still give her even more time ( i hope it helps that my b-da is comming up though)
thanks again lady scorp

(i hope im not in too much denial) lollo

lol Branh....stop trying to press Xangel's buttons.

"You see Sergio, when you talk to women in the manner I talked to Angelfish, it annoys them. But it secretly turns them on. I am sure Angelfish is wondering what I look like naked after my last comment to her."

you have not annoyed me - I find you amusing.....
but no, I'm sorry I have not once wondered what you look like naked...

it's okay lady scorp - I had to have those buttons removed a long time ago - my older sister is absolutely eveil ;0)

evil

U are not wrong to believe that she may be the one. U know more than me Mugen, I'm only getting a snapshot of your life with her here. But you are not ready for her to be the one right now.

You still have a lot of growing up to do. u gotta work on becoming that strong confident man.

yes u are in denial, simply for this statement u just made "i dunno but i will try to still give her even more time" she doesnt need the time...u do! i really want u to do a lot of thinking Mugen. go ahead, crawl into that shell of yours and reflect on your relationship...stop trying to do damage control with quick fixes.

oh geez....whats going on here

I am not a lesbian and I am not butch

lady scorp - perhaps mugen should just give you her phone number and you can call her and explain it to her for him.....

lol xangel....i was tempted to ask him if i could do that for him

yes...and while you're at it - tell her to change her phone number....he can have it only when he starts behaving himself

Oh Branh sweetie.....it is not me who cannot resist....it is u that can't resist.

where is this little world of yours branh? It might make a lucrative tourist attraction

if you'd like I can be mean to YOU....I try to be nice to everyone - but don't mistake that for an inability to stand up for myself....or put you in your place.....

Branh....i'm simply telling him that there is nothing he can do right now except to leave her alone and to grow up.

is there something different u would suggest?

I would hardly call that babying him - branh is just trying to rile us up

Does the b-train come up to NY?

Very true Branh, i already told him that i suspect that he will not listen and he will break her heart and he will have to look back on this relationship and learn. thats the only way he will grow. he'll remember in a year...damn lady scorp was right...i did need time to step away and grow up.

but instead he will continue on with his jealous ways and turn her off 100% and lose her entirely, rather than do what i say and atleast still have her as a friend for support. but i can't blame u Mugen, we all learn this way....I did.

"Put me in my place? you mean in your bedroom. well in that case, knock yourself out and put me in "my place"

lmao thats how i put mine in place when he's bad....he becomes a real good boy after that.

sorry - there is not enough room in my bedroom for your ego

I will agree with one thing branh has said though - no offense to mugen, but I really don't think he is lstening, I think that he thinks he can take what your telling him and use it to convince her he has changed....This is what I was talking about when I told kel that his ideas about relationships will change when he is older....it is NOT a game....and you can't plan it strategically...you can only be yourself and either the other person will love you the way you are or they are not meant for you....unless you have SERIOUS problems - you shouldn't try to mold yourself into someone that someone else wants.... "the one" will want YOU - I do think that there are behaviors that mugen needs to work on changing - not because his girlfriend doesn't like them - but because he really is hurting her and himself by behaving that way....

i know he's not listening and he's looking for a quick fix. he can go ahead a say whatever he wants to the girl and try to convince her that he's changed, but he will be here next week saying he messed up again. it will take a long time before he changes his ways.

I wonder......if Branh is such a sexual god....why he is here debating with us rather than...what did you say dear?
"introducing women to pleasure"............

"God pretty much created me to introduce women to pleasure."

sexual pleasure to me is being able to pleasure my man. that turns me on more than anything anyone could ever do to me.

no branh - that is my very polite way of saying it will never happen

mugen - I think you should consider counseling.... I don't mean that in a "you're nuts" kind of way.... I think you have some self esteem issues and if you don't deal with them they will compound and you will feel worse.