@cancimini
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hmph....
well - truthfully only scorpio men really come across with any kind of masculinity by current standards....pisces and cancer both come across as "soft"....but what others consider soft I consider sweet, and geltleman-ly..... I'm not a fan of "macho" men....
but there is a wonderful song by kenny rogers "coward of the county" - if you want to know what a real man is [a cancer man ...AHEM....] then listen to the song.....
lady scorp, you are cracking me up :-)
well i have to say that i think cancers can come across as masculine when need be. we prefer not to argue or get in confrontations but that doesn't mean we wont back down from a challenge. yes we prefer to be soft and gentle but can be tough the time calls for it. anyone who questions this go mess with something or someone a cancer truly cares about. i bet you feel the pinch!!
Cancer men R soft only 2 a selected few! LOL! U have 2 get inside that shell first. Which is VERY hard 2 do. LOL! U just have 2 know how 2 do it.
cansir - if you listen to the song I mentioned you will see that is why I said that.
yeah xangelfishx why did you have to lump us in with kenny rogers? that might be to soft..lol.
okay mr.crab.....peek out of your shell long enough to listen to the song .......
besides - I didn't comapre you kenny rogers - I compared you to the character in the song...I think you will like it very much.
oh and be careful cansir - Kenny Rogers is a leo
"lady scorp, you are cracking me up :-)"
Cansir...hmph...i'm glad i could humor you
Oh XF, Leo's R the one of the most lovable signs of the zodiac, we just don't insist on hearing BS from self absorb individuals. Ask Cansir!
Hmm, I think Cancers are a hell of a lot more self-absorbed than Leos are. Leos may be a bit chickeny and arrogant. But Cancers take it to a techerous new level with all the of the drama queening bullbutter.
True that! U just have 2 know exactly how 2 deal with it. It will stop. I promise LOL!
Oh and PS,
It is not chickeny about Leo's we just don't B bothered with BS so we let it ride, at least until U confront us. Or say something negative. Then it is on!
no one is good bad or otherwise, lovable or unlovable...it is all a matter of compatibility between two personalities....I don't mind what you call "drama queening" because I tend to be very sympathetic and protective where people that I care about are sonvcerned. I don't care if they are upset about something I consider minor - what matters to me is that someone I care about is feeling hurt, and I don't like that. I don't think it is my place to decide what is important and what is just drama - that is for each of us to decide for our own lives, and my only decision is whether I will deal with it or not.
"sonvcerned" = concerned
sorry - just had laser surgery and my vision is a bit blurry....
XF,
I U stay out the way, U can deal with it alot better than U can being in the way. It is that simple. Good things come 2 those that wait!
OOPS! I meant if U stay out of the way. Just chill 2 the side. U will get your glory. I promise!
XF,
Me and my Cancer friend have a great connection. But, right now, in the early stages, that is what we have an intense connection. Feelings, yeah, but I just cannot get caught up in the intensity, because intensity is not real. Feelings R. Only time can make a person have feelings 4 U.
Don't worry, I know how to deal with it. I just ignore your ass until you get it out of your system.
Yeah, but I know how 2 ignore back and the more U ignore the more I ignore. Cancers usually bow down first though. 2 much of ignoring = more than U anticipated.
Wow, you just bragged about being a doormat and a sap. Congrats, didn't realize one could pride such a lack of integrity and self-respect.
That was mean. So, XF, just B a sweet biatch and punch the man in his chest. He will realize what U R doing when U hit him. LOL! Do, it real kind though!
I am not a doormat or a sap and do not lack integrity or self-respect, and nothing I have said indicates that I do. It indicates that I am a caring person.
and I never bragg
again - I will grant that you are witty....
yeah xangelfishx why did you have to lump us in with kenny rogers? that might be to soft..lol
Noww, thiis iss, ppersonal! Leave Kenny alone! I grew up on Kenny Rogers, he's sappy in all the right ways. And Bling, that song is classic! 😛 Oh, and Here's the link I think you intended 😉
take it easy on cansir - cancer men don't like people to know how sensitive they are
quo vadis:
I have a lot of water in my chart. I think that's why I am always running to the bathroom.
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LMFAO!!!
You see, there is a cultural misunderstanding here. I am a Virgo, and when I ignore people, I am ignoring because I DON'T want to notice them. And with Virgos being efficienciency experts that they are, we do everything the RIGHT way. So when I ignore you, trust me, I am not going to notice than you are ignoring me.
Yeah, I know how U Virgo's R been involved with one for over 19 years now. U say it doesn't hurt U, however, I know when I and OUR kids ignore him. DEEP DOWN INSIDE he is DEVESTATED U know Y, after 19 years he has finally told this 2 me. SO, now I know your secret!
oh and incidentally....you'll find a great many cancers in fields such as construction and martial arts instructions, and in the military...in fact I think almost every cancer man I've known [and believe me that's quite a few....] has been in the military.....
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I always feel that the other signs are praised all the time for their so called "manliness". And I start wondering about our watermen. These males are supposed to be my match, but you only read negative and boring things about them, while.. I think they deserve much much more credit. I don't know them all that well, but my gut feeling tells me that there is more to them than the random astrology-book-description...
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