enlightenedlibra78
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Upset Cancer Man
He might have thought you were "punishing" Him for doing the same thing to you a couple weeks ago, so now he's pouting.
If the over sleeping and missed date was unintentional on your part (which I believe it was), then i wouldn't dwell too much on it. Explain what happened and apologize once - only once. Any more than that comes across as you admitting guilt and will likely just add fuel to his fire.
If the over sleeping and missed date was unintentional on your part (which I believe it was), then i wouldn't dwell too much on it. Explain what happened and apologize once - only once. Any more than that comes across as you admitting guilt and will likely just add fuel to his fire.
Posted by AndalusiaOk. Will do. He seems to be insecure, too. I was at his restaurant with my best friend who is a guy and who he has met and he acted really standoffish. Later, he told me he thought I was on a date with my best friend. Could he think that I'm with someone else? We've been together almost 3 months and are going to NY next week. Is it time for "the talk" or do I leave that to him?
He might have thought you were "punishing" Him for doing the same thing to you a couple weeks ago, so now he's pouting.
If the over sleeping and missed date was unintentional on your part (which I believe it was), then i wouldn't dwell too much on it. Explain what happened and apologize once - only once. Any more than that comes across as you admitting guilt and will likely just add fuel to his fire.
Posted by confusedlibra78Why the fuck would you take another guy on a date to his restaurant? Like, why would he even have that thought at all? Geez..Posted by AndalusiaOk. Will do. He seems to be insecure, too. I was at his restaurant with my best friend who is a guy and who he has met and he acted really standoffish. Later, he told me he thought I was on a date with my best friend. Could he think that I'm with someone else? We've been together almost 3 months and are going to NY next week. Is it time for "the talk" or do I leave that to him?
He might have thought you were "punishing" Him for doing the same thing to you a couple weeks ago, so now he's pouting.
If the over sleeping and missed date was unintentional on your part (which I believe it was), then i wouldn't dwell too much on it. Explain what happened and apologize once - only once. Any more than that comes across as you admitting guilt and will likely just add fuel to his fire.
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I understand insecurity. God knows most people suffer from it in varying degrees, one way or another. But sometimes people use insecurity as an excuse to rationalize irrational or selfish behavior. I don't know if that's what he's doing, but it might be something to keep in mind.
As for the talk, I'd leave it to him to initiate. But I'm passive about things like that.
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